Libra Men
LOL Classic complaints about Libras, ESP young ones, and ESP before he's truly decided (down to his bones) that you ARE The One for him! That back and forth, hot and cold? Almost non-existent (except for the "normal" occasional need for a little space MEN in general have) once he's FULLY committed to you and only you. If he's still hot and cold, he's still deciding.. pushing won't make it happen any faster, sorry. But it sounds like you're doing okay, not chasing him. Very good indeed.