Love on a Rotten Day: Taurus
"Taurus may offer old-shoe comfort, but what you're likely to get is an army-boot mentality. Hook up with the Bull and either do things his way, or do your thing alone. He won't mind your independence, if it benefits him in some way, and as long as dinner is ready when he appears."
Ha, so true! We met in Africa & he invited me to go with him into the wild. He was sweet at the hotel but when we went on the excursion, I had to follow HIS rules. Which meant, we could never separate, even if I wanted to stay at camp while he was on the river with the guide, I HAD to be on the boat because who knows what could happen to me in camp while he was gone (in the middle of nowhere!). Oh, he put me to work bailing the freaking rickety boat. I felt so special
. We befriended a tribe nearby so I decided to spend a day with them while he went out fishing again. He was not happy. But, I had dinner waiting so he was just grumpy & told me never to do that again.
Ha, so true! We met in Africa & he invited me to go with him into the wild. He was sweet at the hotel but when we went on the excursion, I had to follow HIS rules. Which meant, we could never separate, even if I wanted to stay at camp while he was on the river with the guide, I HAD to be on the boat because who knows what could happen to me in camp while he was gone (in the middle of nowhere!). Oh, he put me to work bailing the freaking rickety boat. I felt so special
. We befriended a tribe nearby so I decided to spend a day with them while he went out fishing again. He was not happy. But, I had dinner waiting so he was just grumpy & told me never to do that again.Leave Your Feedback
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Posted by KrystleSade
you are correct here ma'am :/ & i find it so hard to love myself. idk why it is so HARD for me to do that. when i was a teenager i did love myself. until bad stuff happened to me which
threw me off track. it frightens me that i will never get control back when i deeply want it. i want to better myself because the person i am inlove deserves to be happy and with someone wonderful as he. but i dont want anything bad happen because of this habbit.
You know Krystal, i understand where you're coming from, but you're still very young. I'm 46 and have two boys, work a FT job, as does my husband, we have a mortgage, huge property taxes, credit card bills, insurance policy payments, fed, state and income tax, utility bills, which keep going up, car licensing (which is outrageous in my state) and on and on....with the economy, think i don't feel overwhelmed at times and sorry for myself? of course i do. but i have a choice. either pity myself and hope others do or bust my butt and make life better for everyone. i chose the latter.
now, you're 20 years old. i recall when i was 20. i thought i pretty much knew it all and had it tough. trust me, unless you are in a soup line, have foreclosed on your home, out of work, or working 3 jobs daily, you don't have it hard. i have a friend who by age 21 was raising two children, working FT and paying all the bills. THAT is hard.
I don't know you personally, so I respect it when you say you've been through some bad stuff. Ok, we all have. I grew up with an alcoholic father who was abusive, controlling and berated me and my mother daily. He neglected my mother most of their marriage. When she got breast cancer, he neglected her even more because he was such an insecure man, he couldn't deal with her suffering. he chose to allow her to suffer alone, except when i was there to take her to her chemo, and with her on her last two days of life. He physically hurt her when she was at home during her chemo treatments and my husband and i saw it firsthand. I was so enraged, I called the cops and they took him to jail. i had put up with his crap and his ego for my entire child hood and teenage years. My mother supported me at all my sporting events and was always there for me emotionally. My father was never there for me, period. And to this day, we don't have much of a rapport.
Sometimes I find myself talking to friends online that I won't meet up with because I feel I should be doing things like focusing on work or whatever. I wish I had the ability to put things out of my head and be all care free like I was as a teen but life gets mixed up as we live as adults.
I understand your frustration, I think she doesn't want to lose you on the level you guys are at right now and wants you as you are, and its hard to express yourself as an aries at times when you have things going on in your mind.
I can be confused as what to do with say a friend like you, then go out with friends that feel safe and relaxing to be with, the ones that give way to my spirit.
I do say if you distance yourself and she does want you as a friend or more she will tell you and express it.
We have energy in us as Aries to pursue and to do, and if we are given the ball such as when someone says lets not talk anymore, we are gonna come out and say how we feel and what we want at that time, because our energy is up front and in its proper place.
Also we have other aspects that shape us as Aries, moon, rising sign etc, so again these come into play with your chemistry with her.
I understand your frustration, I think she doesn't want to lose you on the level you guys are at right now and wants you as you are, and its hard to express yourself as an aries at times when you have things going on in your mind.
I can be confused as what to do with say a friend like you, then go out with friends that feel safe and relaxing to be with, the ones that give way to my spirit.
I do say if you distance yourself and she does want you as a friend or more she will tell you and express it.
We have energy in us as Aries to pursue and to do, and if we are given the ball such as when someone says lets not talk anymore, we are gonna come out and say how we feel and what we want at that time, because our energy is up front and in its proper place.
Also we have other aspects that shape us as Aries, moon, rising sign etc, so again these come into play with your chemistry with her.
Now, I left out many details that are too personal to share on this board. but, with what i went through in my past, i could use it as an excuse for not being able to handle emotions and deal with my kids/spouse on a mature level. i could make excuses for why i can't be happy and love myself. it's easy. my father never did. he has never told me he's proud of me. he tells my brother that all the time, despite my brother being an alcoholic and cheating on his first wife. i have accepted that my father will never accept me for who and what i am. it's taken me a long time. but i'm there. life is too short if all you're going to do is see the negative. as you age and mature, you will understand this. i hope in time, you can look in the mirror and see a good person. someone who has much to give. but no one will see that in you until you do. that's fact. and life is not fiction. it's real. being confident and assertive is the direction you should take; we all have insecurities. it's how you deal with them that separates you from those who don't. one thing i know for sure. Confident men are attracted to confident women. there is a difference between confident and arrogant. Intelligent men will see the difference.
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ok. so just wondering...where is the evidence even that he actually "likes her" likes her? it seems more like he likes her as a person, and he's been friendly, and she got the wrong idea. don't virgos go out of their way to be around somebody they're into? he doesn't seem shy. he seems disinterested.
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