What Is Your Tolerance Level?
USCTaurusGal,
Who cares what the hell they say. You're doing the right thing. They're just mad because they can't 'penetrate' you the way they would like.
Who cares what the hell they say. You're doing the right thing. They're just mad because they can't 'penetrate' you the way they would like.
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Posted by Pisces2202
The thing what went wrong with us, is when I asked him for some space, even literally, he would smother me some more. We tend to be clingy, but we also need our space to breath. I'd withdrawn myself from him. The direct approach didn't help, than I use the action and took myself away from it for a bit. But he was so stubborn and wouldn't let me go. After a fight when he called me a liar without any reason my love for him froze instantly, and I was done. Not typical for a Pisces, but I've learned to stand up for myself and sometimes to be selfish.
I understand that you feel dissappointed you don't feel he's your soulmate, but be cautious. We tend to have the ideal relationship in our mind, and no-one, and I mean no-one can live up to the standard of what we've created in our mind. If you would chase your ideal, you will be dissappointed over and over again. We have high standards, and we're perfectionistic. If you can live with the fact he isn't the soulmate, but a real good partner, and eventually a good father, than you have to embrace that.
I've learned to not have expectations from someone, and accept them who they are. Than I can't get dissappointed that they can't live up to my ideal standards in my mind, and I assure you, you can connect better with people around you if you let go of some of your fantasies
I find Aries men very smothering, they don't like you to move, it's not a good relationship. I literally hurt one's feelings because I snapped when I told him I never had a minute to myself. Everything changed after that.
I don't know if he's not the one for you or not, that's not my decision. But listen to your heart and decide whether you'd be okay to live with all those little annoyances, because in the end the person we end up with is the person we also can tolerate the most.
u ryt moon bunny. thank u for helping me see this more clearly. im not a cheater would nva hurt my current gf i would rather ends things first than cheat just need to clear things out like moon bunny said
sorry i dont know much about all this natal stuff. i just did an online natal chart analysis, not sure how accurate it is:
Sun Pisces
Moon Scorpio
Mercury Aquarius
Venus Aquarius
Mars Taurus
Jupiter Taurus
Saturn Capricorn
Uranus Capricorn
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Lilith Libra
Asc node Pisces
I have no idea what any of this means. but that's just a little bit of what came up on this very detailed chart reading. is this what you were asking for?
Sun Pisces
Moon Scorpio
Mercury Aquarius
Venus Aquarius
Mars Taurus
Jupiter Taurus
Saturn Capricorn
Uranus Capricorn
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Lilith Libra
Asc node Pisces
I have no idea what any of this means. but that's just a little bit of what came up on this very detailed chart reading. is this what you were asking for?
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next time tell us your sign,
it's neither in your profile or your name.
like we're supposed to guess what you are?
it's neither in your profile or your name.
like we're supposed to guess what you are?
thank you sir! much obliged!! mwuahahahaha xD