Can men and women be friends?
Do you have a friend(s) of the opposite sex?
For this to work...you need to tell the truth about how you felt or feel about them?
I personnally don't think that men and women can be friends...if it doesn't go both ways, there will always be one that will be attracted to the other one.
For this to work...you need to tell the truth about how you felt or feel about them?
I personnally don't think that men and women can be friends...if it doesn't go both ways, there will always be one that will be attracted to the other one.
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Thanks for the input Aphrodite. What you said is pretty much exactly what I've been thinking. Because I've noticed that she likes my air sign traits, we have not lived together YET, so she hasn't seen my earth/water sign traits, which I'm sure will impress her.
As far as rejection goes, it's an uphill battle, because I have that fear with a lot of things, especially college and starting my career. But whatever, I like to analyze my faults and turn them upside down; I am trying.
I think more than anything, the fear I have with this Taurus is that she will not reciprocate everything I've given her. She's the only person I've opened up to and it feels like it's going nowhere. I feel like she's having dinner with friends, and I'm a waiter pouring water into her glass, then glass starts to overflow but she doesn't notice it, and I just keep pouring hoping that she'll turn her head. I have always done the heavy lifting (texting, calling, emailing, talking about "us", etc.), but I'm not complaining, just slightly worried. Now you said that she will eventually come around, but when will that be? What's the turning point? Do I have to marry her to get her to open up?
And King Pisces, I know other Sags who are cool but I know I'm not, I find myself rather annoying. :/
As far as rejection goes, it's an uphill battle, because I have that fear with a lot of things, especially college and starting my career. But whatever, I like to analyze my faults and turn them upside down; I am trying.
I think more than anything, the fear I have with this Taurus is that she will not reciprocate everything I've given her. She's the only person I've opened up to and it feels like it's going nowhere. I feel like she's having dinner with friends, and I'm a waiter pouring water into her glass, then glass starts to overflow but she doesn't notice it, and I just keep pouring hoping that she'll turn her head. I have always done the heavy lifting (texting, calling, emailing, talking about "us", etc.), but I'm not complaining, just slightly worried. Now you said that she will eventually come around, but when will that be? What's the turning point? Do I have to marry her to get her to open up?
And King Pisces, I know other Sags who are cool but I know I'm not, I find myself rather annoying. :/
Whoooot! Happy birthday Caj. 
yep. you pooped and were changed before the stink even registered.
Dear Scorpio:
1st: I believe you're not being straight forward with what you feel. Let him know you find it rude that he's flirting with other girls while you cuddle. Don't pretend it's okay 'cos you're the only one who will suffer. Stop playing games with him, and see how he will react. if he disappears, let him go and transform, just like the phoenix you are. Cancer men like it when their love interest is jealous. (at least that's what my ex cancer used to tell me. he said "i feel loved that way")
2nd: he's obviously guarded because you rejected him so many times. My cancer ex did the same thing when we first started. he tested me every single way possible. (eg. threaten a break up, act as if he doesn't care, get mad at everything I say and do, etc.) what did i do? dodge them. DODGE every single thing he says. those are not true reflections of what they really feel. Action speaks louder than words. Remember, Patience is a virtue.
3rd: You know this person more than we do. what is his track record with women? is he the player type? but then again, love really works in mysterious ways. him being a player wont matter if you really like him. Best bet to win this cancer is to not be too demanding... Let him lead.. show affection in a subtle way.. call/text him.. but if he doesn't reply, it's ok.. wait.. if he calls/msges you.. be available ASAP..always be available to talk to him.. (keep in mind it's all temporary..(your submissiveness)..as u are a scorpio like me LOL), get even later when he's already attached ROFLMAO.)
PS: ok..u dont have to get even but ur story on how he plays push and pull game pissed me off.. so yeah that's what i'll do to him if i'm in your shoes. cancers have a hard time letting go. so you'll get the power once he's attached..
for now.. let him lead.. swallow the pride, let him lead.. patience is the key to success here my friend)
GOOD LUCK (^.^)
1st: I believe you're not being straight forward with what you feel. Let him know you find it rude that he's flirting with other girls while you cuddle. Don't pretend it's okay 'cos you're the only one who will suffer. Stop playing games with him, and see how he will react. if he disappears, let him go and transform, just like the phoenix you are. Cancer men like it when their love interest is jealous. (at least that's what my ex cancer used to tell me. he said "i feel loved that way")
2nd: he's obviously guarded because you rejected him so many times. My cancer ex did the same thing when we first started. he tested me every single way possible. (eg. threaten a break up, act as if he doesn't care, get mad at everything I say and do, etc.) what did i do? dodge them. DODGE every single thing he says. those are not true reflections of what they really feel. Action speaks louder than words. Remember, Patience is a virtue.
3rd: You know this person more than we do. what is his track record with women? is he the player type? but then again, love really works in mysterious ways. him being a player wont matter if you really like him. Best bet to win this cancer is to not be too demanding... Let him lead.. show affection in a subtle way.. call/text him.. but if he doesn't reply, it's ok.. wait.. if he calls/msges you.. be available ASAP..always be available to talk to him.. (keep in mind it's all temporary..(your submissiveness)..as u are a scorpio like me LOL), get even later when he's already attached ROFLMAO.)
PS: ok..u dont have to get even but ur story on how he plays push and pull game pissed me off.. so yeah that's what i'll do to him if i'm in your shoes. cancers have a hard time letting go. so you'll get the power once he's attached..
for now.. let him lead.. swallow the pride, let him lead.. patience is the key to success here my friend)
GOOD LUCK (^.^)
Happy birthday Jase! ???
we'll there was last week's confusion as well... but, it wasn't to his liking despite my argument to the fact we weren't loosing anything. And, we had to amend a contract recently as well, I'll admit I'm at fault on some level, I didn't tell the person doing the contract of a change - I just thought she was in the loop as I've never had to tell her of changes before because she and the boss always discuss it due to its substantial size and the fact we've been doing it for 20 yrs (I've been frustrated about someone else doing this particular contract all along as I have complete control over other contracts - she just asked for a $ $ amount, how was I to know they hadn't discussed it). Communication in my office is not what it should be!
Pfft, I think I can hold my own with you. My eyes can give the sad, abandon puppy-dog look too
Now blink!!
Now blink!!
Awwwww. ???
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What happens if you have the runs and you ate corn the nite before?
machine gun trots?
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