Okay where do I begin!!!!! This Gem has me on clouds 9, 10, and 11!!!! He is such a sweetie and to my surprise he is GENTLE...We went out to dinner on yesterday and he just blew me away--oh how I want this last, but if he would speed it up a little. This dude has a PHD in kissing...he made me a little moist..ha I really wanted to take it to the next level until he said--"LETS JUST TAKE OUR TIME..WE DONT HAVE TO RUSH" He is a romantic and wants us to do it the right way and I can respect that. So now I am feeling like I did on yesterday...no phone call no text..I am that light switch..*sigh*
I do have one problem, well two..so why do I have to initiate everything, going to dinner was my idea--second--I know I was looking finer than sugar and smelled better than grandma's cookies---do you think that he said ANYTHING.....NOPE...NO COMPLIMENT AT ALL
Ugh...now here I go feeling twisted...is this dude blind or just plain krazy???!!!
Yeah, when I go out to party, when I go shopping even when I order food the drunk and not so drunk crazies flock to me my friends always comment on it. They must see something they can relate too in me I guess, lol.
A few months back I ordered pizza online from a website called hungryhouse, you have to provide your mobile number incase the delivery man can't find your address or if they need to contact you. Anywho, the guy delivered my pizza, nothing was out of the ordinary, then a few days later a mobile number I didnt recognise rang my phone I answered and some dude who sounded like he was taking a dump in the middle of a warehouse was on the other end asking me who I was, even though I had never seen that number in my life. He asked me my name and if we could be friends blah blah. Lol, I asked who he was and who gave him my number, he was reluctant to say,so I made my excuses then exited the conversation. I thought that was the end of it but a few days after that he text me asking where I lived, its then that I found out that he was from the fookin pizza place. WTH.
Last Thursday I went shopping, I was in the shopping centre or mall and a guy said hello to me, I said hello, out of courtesy,lol and carried on walking. He followed me into a shop and asked for my number, which is normal but I wasnt feeling it so I made my excuses, said I had a boyfriend, he said it didnt matter we could be friends, how it was mine and his lucky day, took his phone out so I could take down his number, I declined and walked away and he followed me around the shop, this carried on for a good few minutes. I should have just told him to fook off but hey. Anyway, I saw him reach inside his bag, he was that batshizzle crazy I didnt know what he was looking for but he gave me his business card and told me to please call him. Oy vey.
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Jan 06, 2010Comments: 4 · Posts: 1697 · Topics: 71
@asleep To me equal means everybody treated the same. No special treatment for anybody, nobody victimised.
If someone feels there ethnicity effects their job then they shouldnt be doing it, simple. If someone isnt assertive in a board meeting then they shyould get more assertive.
I didnt realise assertiveness was due to ethnicity? there are shy black people, shy asian people, shy french people I could go on forever. Whatever the reason you are not standing out in your job is no ones fault but the persons, why should the boss change for them?
I understand about cultural differences but i personally would learn about a culture before going to live there and if i hadnt bothered to learn its my problem not my bosses. My ignorance shouldnt gain me special treatment.
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I think you are hiding, lying to yourself ... for example: you say he always wants to be a victim, when it's you in here crying.
You have an expectation on how he should be treating you, based off of how you are treating him .. which thus far, sounds like it has been tolerance for passifying, so he won't get upet. You even said that you always sugar-coat things, so not to get him upset because he might twist things around.
Pisces people do have the fault of twisting things around, however to us it's not twisting the truth around, it is actually untwisting it to you all who have it twisted by your own egos.
You have made several comments in here which make the implication that alls you want is for this to work out, and that this is why you """""overlook""""" those things in which you don't like .. and what you're not realizing is that because he is a Pisces, he is fully aware that you passify his antics = makes it worse because he'll play along.
If you ignore his antics because you just want it to work out .. then you are ignoring the very things in which you should be considering ... and yet, you are upset because he isn't treating you the way you are treating him ....
.. when in reality, he is treating you exactly the way you are treating him, and he knows it, and does it intentionally .. it is you who doesn't know it because you are twisted.
An example of this being twisted in reality is when you say you are drama free and then tell us that you blew his texts up so you could beat it into his head with you constantly telling him that you are upset and hurt >>>>>> which is suggesting that he is suppose to do something to aid your emotions about being upset.
You are definitely about drama, yet, think you are not ... and for sure, you will say I am also twisting it around when in reality, I'm untwisting what you've said.
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