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Perhaps the fact that I only bake after a night at the pub may have something to do with it.
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Jun 13, 2006Comments: 5 · Posts: 3103 · Topics: 77
A discussion with Shaka enlightened me.
We are really opposites.
I say happy he say sad
He is offensive when I am defensive
He can see other people as weaker/stronger when I see other people as equals
I try to work (like in job) with virgos and I cant since they have always
their own way and will not ask for you help or listen to your opinions,
and if they catch a weaker person, in their perspective,
will put that person down if they dont like that person.
So I lauch the discussion, what I said is true?
September 25,1982 and he was born in Guatemala,but he has no idea what time. He's one of 10 kids and all the older boys were kind of abusive to him when he growing up and according to the aunt his mother(her sister) is cold and has a hard time expressing love. His aunt says the mother never says those words,unlike her. The aunt has been in the states for 22 years and for 7 of those he lived with her and she adores him. She's very loving to him and talks about him like he's an angel,which frankly he pretty much was until now. He always did everything he could for her and then me also after we began our relationship. He's normally very shy and just plain sweet. Honestly,he was unbelievable! I kept waiting thinking something HAD to be wrong with him because noone is that nice all the time,but after awhile I just accepted that he was. And he always was,everyday without fail,just pure love and tenderness until now. His father was murdered when he was 10 which affected him to the point that he always said he hoped he died before the rest of his family,then me later,because he didn't want to live thru that loss again. And now he's doing this craziness. He has issues,but they all just seemed to make him who he was. Is there anywway to help him from this distance? He's very inexperienced and vulnerable no matter how coccky he's acting!