Do People Really Change...
All they want and ask is to live and left in peace from the ???known destroyers????_. CAN YOU UNDERSTAND THIS..??
If not... then you deserve the outcome... Whatever it is or might be..!
If not... then you deserve the outcome... Whatever it is or might be..!
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Posted by CappyLuv30Posted by Chance11
it's a cap thing..we nip things in the bud early on so it's not a problem later..plus, i think most of us are fairly competent in our jobs and are hard workers and that engenders a level of respect(and usually leeway).
also, some ppl never figure out that being more nice to bullies and nasty ppl only makes you look weak and causes them to treat you even more poorly (you see it on this site from time to time).
You know what I think too, Chance, I think when we speak up, we mean what we say to the point that we don't back down.
It's like these parents that say "if you do that one more time, you're punished" only to have the child 'do it one more time' and then not do anything about it. You can't waver. Wavering causes respect to be lost. You have to stick to it. Stick to it and don't crack a smile until you get that respect. At least that's my thinking.click to expand
Scorpio Chica was right when she said that Cappies mind their business. Usually, I've done nothing to bother anyone, so why bother me? We also tend to brush off a lot, so once we are at that point where we can't take it anymore then it's a battle and we are left standing because we are usually right in what we fight for. I can't hold my stance on anything if I'm wrong in the situation.
3 days is 3 minutes to a virgo.
Posted by QLIbraMale
What that's probably the highest compliment in porn he can give her. lol I see it as you're on his mind 24/7. and hes comfortable with your beauty, even if its naked. lol He's probably hiding it because he figured you think he was weird. But look at it like this would you rather his porn taste look like you or your sister, girlfriends, or girl cousin? All i'm saying is its a highest compliment imo lol.
Thank you sir =] You're right. It just caught me off guard. A bit odd - and a little funny. I guess this is a bit related to the issues in the boudoir at this moment. I REALLY want him to express himself more freely. But ever since we got together he's got this "mother teresa" thing for me. It's like I'm a big ol perv, and he's the respectful nice guy. LOL
When I saw it - that's where I guess you can say "anger" came from. I want SOOOOO bad for this magical, charming, romantic, supposed MASTER of the bedroom - Mr. Libra to COME OUT ALREADY.
I'm just going to take it from him. I can't wait til comes home tonight. *evil laugh* ;X
Posted by size zero superhero
Actually, I have also heard Virgo guys are prone to acting this way. To be honest I wouldn't have the patience to tolerate it for long. Playing 'hard-to-get'? No thanks, bro.
Hard to get is a game and really now, what kind of Virguy likes to play games when it comes to relationships? I like to think of it as a temporary withdraw to re-evaluate the current situation. It's all in order to get back in control of yourself, at least it is for me.
Posted by passinatescorp
I tried looking for ronnie's couldnt find it either...I can see Jwow being a pisces now, if i were her that nite her and sam got into I would've been all over that shit on everybody who was holding me back, dude or not it would've been on, I have a hot temper, lol...But you see how she backed down when sammie hit her...
She sure did! JWow's fake a $ $ attitude about beating everyone's a $ $ in the house was getting on my nerves. I have a few Scorp women in my life. They won't back down on a fight - esp if it's in relation to something passionate. (like that wack letter BS Jwow and Snooky pulled)
Posted by Amandus
3 days is 3 minutes to a virgo.
High-five
I came to this forum esp to start a thread about this show.
It is hilarious. I think these girls are wack, and if any of them ever came to CA (even Brandy's worn out a $ $ ) they would get MOPPED.
But it's still fun to watch LOL
It is hilarious. I think these girls are wack, and if any of them ever came to CA (even Brandy's worn out a $ $ ) they would get MOPPED.
But it's still fun to watch LOL
ugh......i had so much to write on this but didnt even put half. jumbled thoughts FTL
yea, i dont date casually. i dont even date at all. i am all about serious relationships and i will not go through any BS now. why does a relationship need drama to "spice" it up? its as if people feel the need to create drama in order to make things exciting. F that, save me the drama and go put that shit in a doggy bag for someone else.
pre-nups.....thats another interesting one. majority of people probably get pre-nups now and i think thats another problem. going into a marriage with a pre-nup is just kind of saying it might fail. then again, i do agree with some people getting pre-nups, especially someone who is rich and famous. this is something i go back and forth on.
finding a good person is NOT easy. i wont lie i guess you could say my standards are pretty high but my "requirements" shouldnt really be that hard to find. i have high standards for others because i place high standards on myself. its damn impossible to find a female at my age who doesnt have kids or hasnt been divorced already. that cuts out 90% already LOL. even most my age are not mature or on the same level as far as what they want in life. they are also extremely insecure. i wont even get into the rest now
Chance i hear what you're saying about divorce now. its not as taboo anymore and people can just up and get the papers be done with it now. its sad that people will look for the "easy way" out as soon as a problem turns up instead of trying to work through it. relationships are all about compromise, give & take. of course cheating is grounds for immediate divorce. i do not tolerate infidelity at all. another fear of mine......getting cheated on by my wife.
it boils down to people being selfish. people are out for their own good be it sex/money usually. greed is human nature. let me get mine, you'll get yours. i just think most people are selfish.
i was thinking back then were people really different or did they have the same ulterior motives people today have? i think the answer is humans have always been the same, its just there were different ways to hide it back then. you still had hos back then, they just didnt have a facebook or twitter.
yea, i dont date casually. i dont even date at all. i am all about serious relationships and i will not go through any BS now. why does a relationship need drama to "spice" it up? its as if people feel the need to create drama in order to make things exciting. F that, save me the drama and go put that shit in a doggy bag for someone else.
pre-nups.....thats another interesting one. majority of people probably get pre-nups now and i think thats another problem. going into a marriage with a pre-nup is just kind of saying it might fail. then again, i do agree with some people getting pre-nups, especially someone who is rich and famous. this is something i go back and forth on.
finding a good person is NOT easy. i wont lie i guess you could say my standards are pretty high but my "requirements" shouldnt really be that hard to find. i have high standards for others because i place high standards on myself. its damn impossible to find a female at my age who doesnt have kids or hasnt been divorced already. that cuts out 90% already LOL. even most my age are not mature or on the same level as far as what they want in life. they are also extremely insecure. i wont even get into the rest now
Chance i hear what you're saying about divorce now. its not as taboo anymore and people can just up and get the papers be done with it now. its sad that people will look for the "easy way" out as soon as a problem turns up instead of trying to work through it. relationships are all about compromise, give & take. of course cheating is grounds for immediate divorce. i do not tolerate infidelity at all. another fear of mine......getting cheated on by my wife.
it boils down to people being selfish. people are out for their own good be it sex/money usually. greed is human nature. let me get mine, you'll get yours. i just think most people are selfish.
i was thinking back then were people really different or did they have the same ulterior motives people today have? i think the answer is humans have always been the same, its just there were different ways to hide it back then. you still had hos back then, they just didnt have a facebook or twitter.
Posted by Dynamite ParfaitPosted by DAMEN VIPosted by Dynamite Parfait
*rolls eyes*
Damien, when you're wrong, you're VERY wrong.
Just sayin'.
nah..im right, its just how i put it made it seem so wrong
but in order to maintain a LONG TERM relationship, you NEED those two things..now, you may WANT a lot of other stuff from your man, and may or may not get it, but without those two NEEDS, im 100% sure it won't last..
Nah....you're wrong.
Your personal experiences will shape your perceptions about life. Not every girl is a gold-digging,
dick-hungry hood rat, Damien. Lumping us all together is very insulting.
Good sex is a given. Without it, attraction fades. But "good sex" is different for every person. My "good" could be your "bad". How do you measure "good" and "bad" when the definitions change from person to person?
Generalizations = lame shallow-mindedness.
And as far as me needing someone else's money? Um, I like to pay my own way through life.
Cuz, if you don't, you're basically someone's bitch. A pretty bird in a gilded cage.
And sorry, but I'm no one's bitch except my own.click to expand
i don't think of every woman in general like that, but i believe when a man is about to get into a relationship with a woman, he have to evaluate her to the fullest extent and always assume the worst about her..so that way, when and if you do find out she was a gold digging,cum guzzling slut bag, you won't be shocked..the extra nice, sweet dude is always the one that get treated like shit in the end..why? becuz no real woman wants a soft punk..women are emotional as it is, so why would they want a man that acts like them?
and generalizations may be shallow, but i think you should start off shallow with a person until you gain trust and then and only then, should you choose to get deep with that person..
and i never said a woman need a man's money..im sayin a woman need a man that is financially stable..unless you like playin the suga mama role and taking care of him..