Taurus men want doormats?
As I said when I found this board that I have found my new voice of empowerment. We've been having a lot of friction. But once the scales are tipped, you know how we can get. I think what he signed up for he is no longer getting it. He's trying to tell me what time to come home. The rules have been that until we are married that won't work. I come home at a reasonable time before 11. He tries to tell me when to check in. He used to bully me. I exploded on him a few times last week. My astrologer friend says that I need to stop that they love feminine women and that he may get tired of my new found voice. Does anyone here agree with her that they rather have a feminine woman more than a woman that has spoken up? We may just be growing in different directions. I love him and he is getting jealous more possessive. The more carefree I am the more he hounds me and he picks strange arguments. He observes everything that I do now and has a memory like an elephant and reads it back to me. What to do? We've been together for so long
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Yeah, I remember watching a documentary on how there were dildos discovered amongst ancient egyptian artifacts.
I bet we've been playing with ourselves, and incorporating the use of phallic-shaped inanimate objects, since the dawn of our time.
I bet we've been playing with ourselves, and incorporating the use of phallic-shaped inanimate objects, since the dawn of our time.
virgodreamz: I tried to understand what you are saying, reading over and over again. You try to tell me that he made me an insecure woman and by this keeping me in his life, not letting me go, throwing once in a while a few sensitive words.
As a virgo I did analyzed him a lot. I am not based on his words, but first on his body language, especially by studying him on his actions with different persons or while other persons are around and he doesn't know that I'm watching him. Finally I do trust his words, that he is saying the truth. Yes, he knows that the only thing that I asked was to be honest with me, and once I know that he lies to me, he will be nothing to me. He is aware of that because he saw me doing this with other persons. He knows how decided I am.
I know that he is in love with me, based on his facts, his body language and other people's thoughts, and at last, on his words.
We were never in a relationship. Just in love. But this game has to stop.
formersalomeea: Running... this is not a solution for me. That doesn't solve the problem.
crabclaw:
That just reminds of something... He tells me about girls trying to make a move on him and how he deals with them. I asked him why isn't he treating me just like he does with them. And the answer was: "That is different. With them there are no feelings involved". "Feelings? what kind of feelings?" (me, asking a stupid question like I wouldn't know...). After a moment of silence... "Anyway... you are in my soul..." (like being resigned, like there is nothing he could do about it...).
As a virgo I did analyzed him a lot. I am not based on his words, but first on his body language, especially by studying him on his actions with different persons or while other persons are around and he doesn't know that I'm watching him. Finally I do trust his words, that he is saying the truth. Yes, he knows that the only thing that I asked was to be honest with me, and once I know that he lies to me, he will be nothing to me. He is aware of that because he saw me doing this with other persons. He knows how decided I am.
I know that he is in love with me, based on his facts, his body language and other people's thoughts, and at last, on his words.
We were never in a relationship. Just in love. But this game has to stop.
formersalomeea: Running... this is not a solution for me. That doesn't solve the problem.
crabclaw:
I have moved on, and date, and have many suitors (we cancer men are hot, ok -lol)
That just reminds of something... He tells me about girls trying to make a move on him and how he deals with them. I asked him why isn't he treating me just like he does with them. And the answer was: "That is different. With them there are no feelings involved". "Feelings? what kind of feelings?" (me, asking a stupid question like I wouldn't know...). After a moment of silence... "Anyway... you are in my soul..." (like being resigned, like there is nothing he could do about it...).
i'm missing that "crying". i've been celibate for more than a year. 
One thing that I seem to have trouble with is this feeling that my Taurus never believes me whenever I compliment her. It could be because she's not used to it or something, but I'm always very reluctant about complimenting her, since I feel she might think I'm lying, which I never do, I always mean what I say to her.
On top of that she never compliments me (yeah I know sad day). Maybe it's my Leo rising that gives me this rather large ego but very warm nature. I love letting her know that I care about her and so on, but it always makes me feel like the emotional and clingy one (which I am not).
On top of that she never compliments me (yeah I know sad day). Maybe it's my Leo rising that gives me this rather large ego but very warm nature. I love letting her know that I care about her and so on, but it always makes me feel like the emotional and clingy one (which I am not).
You clearly think you're cool.
Be constructive or get lost.
Be constructive or get lost.
Yea.... i've noticed they don't compliment. It's not because you don't deserve it. I think it's b/c they expect you to be man enough to know who you are and not need the compliments to make u feel secure about urself.
To date a taurus you have to pretty much ignore your emotional needs or be super confident and secure in who you are.
To date a taurus you have to pretty much ignore your emotional needs or be super confident and secure in who you are.
i was joking. chill jersey shore.
yes, with one. i could contact her but havent
i think within reasonable amounts! i definitely don't think that there is only one MONA LISA and other paintings in the world shouldn't be appreciated. BUT on the other side...i would feel disrespected in the sense that my bf wouldn't give me at least that much.
i don't see much of a difference. if i were talking to my boss, a friend, a colleague, etc etc. if i respect them and have their attention (vice versa) i wouldn't be gawking other people while they are talking. or looking away. I'll be focused on the person in front of me.
i don't see much of a difference. if i were talking to my boss, a friend, a colleague, etc etc. if i respect them and have their attention (vice versa) i wouldn't be gawking other people while they are talking. or looking away. I'll be focused on the person in front of me.
i agree with mark zuckerburg. perhaps the way he went about his personal relationships was fucked up..but as the topic..
i say no. its like how many "chocolate chip" cookies are there? the only difference is some may add white chocolate or sprinkles. but are they not all the same? to say that he stole an idea that was never created is absurd. its not his fault the other guys didn't have the extra skills mark z. had to create it. If it was their site why wasn't it done?
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