Best Woman's Advice EVER!
"Oh, there was one more piece of advice my relative give me. If you found out early on that the parents of the
woman you're dating call her "Princess", drop it like its hot. Cause it pretty much guarantees that woman is going to be a nightmare in a relationship."
Oh what? And it can't be reversed with the mom calling her son prince? Get over yourself. Stop blaming woman for everything. Men are just as fucked up.
woman you're dating call her "Princess", drop it like its hot. Cause it pretty much guarantees that woman is going to be a nightmare in a relationship."
Oh what? And it can't be reversed with the mom calling her son prince? Get over yourself. Stop blaming woman for everything. Men are just as fucked up.
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Wow, it's understandable that he'd be hurt that you kept the rape from him, BUT on the other hand I expected for you to say that he was way more compassionate & understanding than he actually ended up being. He shouldn't understood the dynamic of rape & that alot of rape victims actually hold their silence not only from their partners, but from their families/friends too.
This guy has trust issues period. Sure, you might've provoked some of his insecurities by lying to him a few times, BUT don't fool yourself into believing that you're somehow the entire blaim for his trust issues. Yes, he can get back on the road to trusting you again if you stop lying to him BUT even better, would be the day he sorts out all the issues he has with trust within HIMSELF.
You 2 probably need to take a short break. He's being mean & really harsh right now b/c that's his defense mechanism. He's trying so hard to make it seem like he's done with you & that he's over you b/c he's really not. He knows he needs to move on (even though it's probably too hard right now) so his only way to do so is to 1. Distance himself from you & 2. Make you feel like crap while he's doing so.
Just leave him alone for awhile. I know it's hard but if you want to save the relationship, love him ENOUGH to give him some space & breathing room so you can allow him to think about whether or not a relationship with you is really worth it or something he wants.
To you, those lies may have been petty or something done to protect his feelings, BUT to someone who has serious trust issues, those lies were the equivalent as/of you cheating on him or stabbing him with a knife. So understand that right now is NOT the time to try rushing back into things with him just b/c you can't take being alone or w/o him. You 2 need to talk things out & work out the crinkles before you jump back into a commitment with eachother. And if saving the relationship is what really matters most, you'll do whatever you have to do to preserve it. And trust me, giving him his space & working on YOU in the process is the way to go
This guy has trust issues period. Sure, you might've provoked some of his insecurities by lying to him a few times, BUT don't fool yourself into believing that you're somehow the entire blaim for his trust issues. Yes, he can get back on the road to trusting you again if you stop lying to him BUT even better, would be the day he sorts out all the issues he has with trust within HIMSELF.
You 2 probably need to take a short break. He's being mean & really harsh right now b/c that's his defense mechanism. He's trying so hard to make it seem like he's done with you & that he's over you b/c he's really not. He knows he needs to move on (even though it's probably too hard right now) so his only way to do so is to 1. Distance himself from you & 2. Make you feel like crap while he's doing so.
Just leave him alone for awhile. I know it's hard but if you want to save the relationship, love him ENOUGH to give him some space & breathing room so you can allow him to think about whether or not a relationship with you is really worth it or something he wants.
To you, those lies may have been petty or something done to protect his feelings, BUT to someone who has serious trust issues, those lies were the equivalent as/of you cheating on him or stabbing him with a knife. So understand that right now is NOT the time to try rushing back into things with him just b/c you can't take being alone or w/o him. You 2 need to talk things out & work out the crinkles before you jump back into a commitment with eachother. And if saving the relationship is what really matters most, you'll do whatever you have to do to preserve it. And trust me, giving him his space & working on YOU in the process is the way to go
Posted by Scorporella
When are emotions ever logical? Regardless of the emotion, whether it's a crush, desire, love, they are not based upon emotions. You're excited and feel as though you shouldn't be this caught up in the Taurus because you've just met him, but some people make connections quickly. I can remember a man I met (and am still in love with) how within a few days, I felt a connection and bond with him that I had never experienced before (or since). We both experienced that connection, and extremely quickly for the both of us. We both felt as though we'd always known each other. He's very cautious when meeting new people, as am I, but somehow he and I connected. Yeah, it didn't make sense. My head was telling me that it was crazy. I've never met anyone that I just automatically trusted from the very beginning and my head kept reminding me of that. It drove me crazy to feel that close to someone I had just met. That's so very un-scorpio like of me. But he most definitely was worth that "crazy" and our closeness was most definitely worth ignoring my head. Go with your heart Skykomish. It may get you in some difficult places at times, but it lets you know you're alive.
This made me sigh and smile.
And what on earth is wrong with crushing? Whether you're 13, 30, 40, 50, or 70 it's still awfully fun to doodle dippy things on notebooks and get a sappy grin on your face. We tend to over complicate the simplest things. Yeh, it's a roller coaster ride, but it's up to you whether you puke or scream because it's so fun. In other words, why miss out on the best thing ever because you're too fearful? Grab it with both hands and hang on tight. Enjoy your time with him, enjoy him as a human, as a man, and give a cheerful middle finger to sense every once in a while. And yes you get your ass kicked every once in a while. Big deal, come up swinging.
Posted by LeGendary ViRGo
also for me work is work
personal is personal and thats how i like it and intend to keep it that way lol.
Kinda funny, cuz I met my partner at work maybe 20 yrs ago. She was even my boss for a little bit. We lost track of each other in between then & now though.
I think you have to be a mature and honorable person to crossover from a work relationship. I know if something happened with my virguy friend to make us not be friends, I'd be honor-bound to be polite and professional. And him likewise. Which is why it's working out so far.
There are a few people who socialize or date at my job, and they all seem to do well. before my time though there was a guy who was cheating on his gf with a married co-worker and people say it was hilarious drama when he missent an email to the wrong gal.
"but everywhere, everyday people cheat, lie, steal, ect."
And that makes it all o.k right? Some dude just shot and robbed a bank teller in my town a few days ago, I guess that means it would be okay for me to do the same, right? I mean if it happens all the time that makes it okay right? Some guy stole my ipod a few weeks ago I guess it would be okay for me to go and steal one from some other guy right? I mean people steal stuff all the time so it makes it okay, right?
"why is it the first think people think when a girl just wants to have fun is : what a skank"
You're contemplating sleeping with a married man with two children...for fun...I'm all for womens sexual liberation but you're just a wh*re. plain and fu*king simple. This is not a case of just going out and having a simple one night stand. You're contemplating possibly destroying an entire family...for fun.
"I am preparing for my second level of CFA while taking 3 classes in applied finance and statistics + working overtime most of the time (accounting)??_45+hrs a week??_taking care of my parents (rent, money transfers, ect). You do the maths and conclude how many hours of real time life I have left!"
So that makes it ok right? The fact that you do all this makes it perfectly justifiable to knowingly sleep with a married man with two kids right?
you might not die from it and just come out uglier than you really are inside/out!
Maybe this guy is married to one of you??_eeeshhh??_that would be sad.
Ellesque??_quick question for you, why are you so bitter??_did your husband leave you??_or did you dump his ass because he cheated on you?? As a Aries??_as much as you don??t care about petty things??_sure it burns you inside??_my water keeps me cool and air keeps me laid back!
As for you Everpieceofcraploldude get a life??_you go on judging me??_.you must be so miserable inside??_
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychological_projection
And that makes it all o.k right? Some dude just shot and robbed a bank teller in my town a few days ago, I guess that means it would be okay for me to do the same, right? I mean if it happens all the time that makes it okay right? Some guy stole my ipod a few weeks ago I guess it would be okay for me to go and steal one from some other guy right? I mean people steal stuff all the time so it makes it okay, right?
"why is it the first think people think when a girl just wants to have fun is : what a skank"
You're contemplating sleeping with a married man with two children...for fun...I'm all for womens sexual liberation but you're just a wh*re. plain and fu*king simple. This is not a case of just going out and having a simple one night stand. You're contemplating possibly destroying an entire family...for fun.
"I am preparing for my second level of CFA while taking 3 classes in applied finance and statistics + working overtime most of the time (accounting)??_45+hrs a week??_taking care of my parents (rent, money transfers, ect). You do the maths and conclude how many hours of real time life I have left!"
So that makes it ok right? The fact that you do all this makes it perfectly justifiable to knowingly sleep with a married man with two kids right?
you might not die from it and just come out uglier than you really are inside/out!
Maybe this guy is married to one of you??_eeeshhh??_that would be sad.
Ellesque??_quick question for you, why are you so bitter??_did your husband leave you??_or did you dump his ass because he cheated on you?? As a Aries??_as much as you don??t care about petty things??_sure it burns you inside??_my water keeps me cool and air keeps me laid back!
As for you Everpieceofcraploldude get a life??_you go on judging me??_.you must be so miserable inside??_
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychological_projection
Yes I understand the consequences it would have on his family but the truth is:
If being with me will make him realize that he enjoys his wife better, than all the better, I will have brought something positive onto him.
If on the contrary, it makes him realize that he no longer wants to be with her??_than I will not be the one to bring this upon him??_because even he decides to stay with me and I break up with him??_he won??t return with her??_If he did??_then he would be the bastard not I.
You're trying soooooo fu*king hard to justify this to yourself. Somewhere inside that head of yours YOU KNOW what you're doing is wrong yet you keep trying soooooooooo hard to justify it to yourself to the point where the reasons you use are completely PANTS. ON. HEAD. retarded.
Are you familiar with the phrase "whatever helps you sleep at night"?
You're taking it to a new extreme.
If being with me will make him realize that he enjoys his wife better, than all the better, I will have brought something positive onto him.
If on the contrary, it makes him realize that he no longer wants to be with her??_than I will not be the one to bring this upon him??_because even he decides to stay with me and I break up with him??_he won??t return with her??_If he did??_then he would be the bastard not I.
You're trying soooooo fu*king hard to justify this to yourself. Somewhere inside that head of yours YOU KNOW what you're doing is wrong yet you keep trying soooooooooo hard to justify it to yourself to the point where the reasons you use are completely PANTS. ON. HEAD. retarded.
Are you familiar with the phrase "whatever helps you sleep at night"?
You're taking it to a new extreme.
Nope. I don't become truly aroused until after I get to know someone better.
No, arouse my head first, the body follows.
It's the bonnets, isn't it? Rumspringa is a busy time of year.
We have a small office, so--if things were to end on their own between he and his girlfriend, and we decided to give things a try, it would be nothing.
People already make comments about the looks we give each other, and they think it's adorable (even though I'm mortified that my poker face apparently fails to convince).
It wouldn't be a problem, and we both value our paychecks enough not to lose our everlovin' minds if things went bad. We are really dedicated to our jobs, and get very serious about our work, so it would not interfere.
People already make comments about the looks we give each other, and they think it's adorable (even though I'm mortified that my poker face apparently fails to convince).
It wouldn't be a problem, and we both value our paychecks enough not to lose our everlovin' minds if things went bad. We are really dedicated to our jobs, and get very serious about our work, so it would not interfere.
So my vgf has been having really bad problems with insomnia. I have that issue sometimes & have been offering what advice I can. But he's talking really down about it, cuz it's wearing him out. I finally messaged his best friend to see if he knew what's up & mention my concern. I asked him not to say anything to vgf though, cuz I know he'd get cranky with me getting in his business.
His friend replied that he knew about the problem and that he really appreciated that I was worried etc. He also said how much vgf looked forward to hanging out with me, which made me feel good, since vgf being a virgo doesn't do anything so crazy as tell me that kind of stuff
Actions speak louder than words tho. When I told vgf about being gone this weekend he was upset until I asked if I should come over Monday. I do like hanging out and talking about all the weird stuff we do. We'll see if I'm brave enough to tell him what my partner said about looking elsewhere for 'recreation'.
I hate seeing him feeling bad, but the cancer me likes bbeing able to help him out too.
His friend replied that he knew about the problem and that he really appreciated that I was worried etc. He also said how much vgf looked forward to hanging out with me, which made me feel good, since vgf being a virgo doesn't do anything so crazy as tell me that kind of stuff
Actions speak louder than words tho. When I told vgf about being gone this weekend he was upset until I asked if I should come over Monday. I do like hanging out and talking about all the weird stuff we do. We'll see if I'm brave enough to tell him what my partner said about looking elsewhere for 'recreation'.I hate seeing him feeling bad, but the cancer me likes bbeing able to help him out too.