What do you want in a relationship from your SO?
And MOST IMPORTANTLY, agreeing to do your very best in maintaining a certain sense and level of loyalty, dedication AND love to SELF, so that giving the same to the other person won't seem like such a challenge or like such a hard thing to do.
Those are just my boundaries & my list of expectations though. Everyone's "list" is different.
When giving him your list, try to be geniune. Don't worry about what he'll think of certain expectations or whether or not he'll see certain things to be as important as you feel they are. Just be yourself.
Really think to yourself, "What is it that I want?" Then ask yourself, "What is it that I deserve?" "What REALISTICALLY can I expect for him to give to me or show me?" "What is it that I can give to him, thus it's no wonder I expect him to give me the same thing(s)? "What is it that I need him to offer me that most others who are just my friends, can't?" (And vice versa)
"What are my deal breakers?" "What do I consider to be NOT ok no matter what?" "What is it that I'd fear to happen, but yet wouldn't necessarily leave him for persay it happend?"
Be honest with yourself. You'd be surprised--his list might actually match yours (or atleast come close to it!)
Those are just my boundaries & my list of expectations though. Everyone's "list" is different.
When giving him your list, try to be geniune. Don't worry about what he'll think of certain expectations or whether or not he'll see certain things to be as important as you feel they are. Just be yourself.
Really think to yourself, "What is it that I want?" Then ask yourself, "What is it that I deserve?" "What REALISTICALLY can I expect for him to give to me or show me?" "What is it that I can give to him, thus it's no wonder I expect him to give me the same thing(s)? "What is it that I need him to offer me that most others who are just my friends, can't?" (And vice versa)
"What are my deal breakers?" "What do I consider to be NOT ok no matter what?" "What is it that I'd fear to happen, but yet wouldn't necessarily leave him for persay it happend?"
Be honest with yourself. You'd be surprised--his list might actually match yours (or atleast come close to it!)
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Posted by everevolvingepithet
"also people also tells us things that they wouldn't dare tell others because we are trustworthy faithful we dont run around letting the whole world out bizz and others as well lol.
This one, oooowwwwww
thanks lol
but its true for me tho.
Mine is quite short. Has been for quite some time. I like that I can bathe, tousle my hair with my fingers and go. Slap a bit of Bed Head on it, make it look crazy just for fun. I've never felt that my femininity was tied into my hair. I am most definitely a woman whether it's halfway down my back or free of my neck and ears. There is something very freeing about having it short, playful and fun. Even a bit powerful knowing your features and neck are all on display.
On men whether it's long, short, or shaved completely off, it's all a matter of what they'd like to do with themselves. What they think suits best ( well, unless it's a mullet..I think we eschew this one for both sexes these days.. ).
On men whether it's long, short, or shaved completely off, it's all a matter of what they'd like to do with themselves. What they think suits best ( well, unless it's a mullet..I think we eschew this one for both sexes these days.. ).
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1)It's been a full moon is just ending
2)Flip mattress over along with getting slats
3)This is a chance to explore the city for a new bookstore
4)Enjoy-you're worth it or sell excess on Craigslist
5)Todays' transit will change around 11 p.m. (Moon trine Venus -good day for friends and lovers..you have urge to mother your friends...
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2)Flip mattress over along with getting slats
3)This is a chance to explore the city for a new bookstore
4)Enjoy-you're worth it or sell excess on Craigslist
5)Todays' transit will change around 11 p.m. (Moon trine Venus -good day for friends and lovers..you have urge to mother your friends...
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^ In other words ( because I do so enjoy being succinct.. ) it is the MAN that attracts me, not his hair.
Posted by CappyyLuv30
@LV
awww thankyou lol.
And bonus round, no pushing it aside snuggled up for a movie. *thumbs up* 'elvish'..I like that description, and it's accurate.