People of DXP unite..
I totally thought KOL was contradicting himself throughout this entire thread.
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Posted by exam
Scorp and Sag is a passionate relationship but it often ends up not very pretty if the Sag doesn't have any water placementor the Scorp has no air/fire placement. You guys are neighbours so the curiosity is even intensified Be careful what you wish for though. My Sag friend got out a 3 year passionate but crazy with a Scorp guy. She took ages to recover. He took so much of her freedom when they were together. A jealous freak. It's bound to happen sometimes when she's such a free=spirited girl.
i believe all of that.
Posted by TheLadySagittarius
At the risk of sounding shallow, there is no ring on your finger...so I would continue to talk and eventually meet Sag#2 and see where it goes..no need to say anything to Sag#1 yet. It might turn out that this new guy is not as great as he seems. Sometimes, another man makes you see how good you have it.
My words exactly......
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Cappyluv - Some people are more emotionally detached. That is not me! That is why I have to be very careful. I think for both Scorps and Caps, we are very serious about love and relaitonships. Although Caps take longer to cultivate that love, than Scorps, as a Cap you dont mess around. Lol. Some people just arent wired like that. They can be in love one day and out the next.
Dancer23 - I am not one of those people either. That is why Cap will not be getting any until when and if we get in a relationship. Because his ass sauve Cappy ass will have me hemmed up and comepletely messed up in the head. No thanks! Lol.
Dancer23 - I am not one of those people either. That is why Cap will not be getting any until when and if we get in a relationship. Because his ass sauve Cappy ass will have me hemmed up and comepletely messed up in the head. No thanks! Lol.
Posted by ellessque
for the mars in scorp girls.....try an earth sign in mars.
not kidding.
so working backwards here, should I try someone with mars in scorp?
Posted by Pride of 0ctober
damn that was nice are you a libra?
Nope, sweetie.. I'm a Pisces who has a pretty good grasp of the Libran (esp the textbook Libra man I love and live with) - I understand and accept the Libran traits. Most of them don't seem strange or vexing to me. Granted, I have several minor Libra planets (and a rather nice natal chart, imho).. But I'm also mature, well-balanced, grounded, sweet and affectionate but not overly-emotional or needy. I also don't play stupid games of any kind, and hold myself responsible and accountable for my own emotional well-being. So my Libra likes me too *wink*
A lot of that probably comes because I'm an old lady haha. (I've dated at least two other Libras pretty seriously, but mutual immaturity DOES wreak havoc on relationships.) But my Libra was born the same year as I was.. so he's had time to mature and mellow from the "young and immature" Libra into the "mature and awesome" Libra.
I'm a lucky, lucky girl.. almost as lucky as he is
Posted by 69virgo
I think scorps are now affraid to talk about the birds and the bees.....bzzzzzzzz
LOL...Oh so this is where your little mischievious self has been hang'n out? 69, get yo' nasty ass back to the prudish Virgo board where you belong....PRONTO!!!
I've been dating Aries girl for 5 months.
Mind you, some things work in our favor, we have super compatible moon and venus Libra-Aries for both. She is 1 day from being a Taurus, and I have a ton of placements in Sagittarius.
Anyways.
My biggest problem has been her poverty of perception.
Virgo are pissed when Aries when they think Aries is selfish.
Virgo is also pissed when they think Aries is egotistical.
And even worse when Aries is selfishly egotistical.
This being said, these two things can be overcome.
I've confronted my girlfriend about both, and she's come to open up and reconsider her position.
As I've gotten to know Aries, I've started to realize they are less selfish as much as they are naive.
The Aries has raw unrefined emotions, and for as much as they seem 'me' 'me' 'me' selfish, they also have very abrupt and powerful emotions for the people they care for.
So what irks a Virgo about an Aries girlfriend who seems demanding in wanting to be wine'd and dine'd everynight and never offer to pay, can easily be solved, by him overcoming his coyness, and saying 'NO B# $ @TCH MAKE ME A PIE." lol.
Seriously, I know that sounds bad, but having dated an Aries girl, it took me about 2 months to realize she respects arguments, puts herself out there totally understanding that being shutdown could be an outcome and because she likes me will respect my point of view.
Aside from this, you just learn to tolerate Aries, one-sided know it all shit, as Virgo are highly tolerant of others idiosyncracies. If it's important, I tell her she's wrong and why she is wrong and bring out the Cap in me and don't move my ground. But if she is telling me how to surf even tho she has never even been to the ocean in idle conversation, I generally just blow it off.
It's this same Aries overconfidence and boisterousness that secures our relationship in her steadfast defense of 'us', and her original pursuit to make it happen. You gotta respect it.
As for impatience, I am one of those nervous impatient Virgos, so I never have had a problem with it.
As for bossiness, I find it funny cuz I don't talk it seriously.
Otherwise, I think Aries is a great match for an 'EVOLVED' Virgo only however.
Mind you, some things work in our favor, we have super compatible moon and venus Libra-Aries for both. She is 1 day from being a Taurus, and I have a ton of placements in Sagittarius.
Anyways.
My biggest problem has been her poverty of perception.
Virgo are pissed when Aries when they think Aries is selfish.
Virgo is also pissed when they think Aries is egotistical.
And even worse when Aries is selfishly egotistical.
This being said, these two things can be overcome.
I've confronted my girlfriend about both, and she's come to open up and reconsider her position.
As I've gotten to know Aries, I've started to realize they are less selfish as much as they are naive.
The Aries has raw unrefined emotions, and for as much as they seem 'me' 'me' 'me' selfish, they also have very abrupt and powerful emotions for the people they care for.
So what irks a Virgo about an Aries girlfriend who seems demanding in wanting to be wine'd and dine'd everynight and never offer to pay, can easily be solved, by him overcoming his coyness, and saying 'NO B# $ @TCH MAKE ME A PIE." lol.
Seriously, I know that sounds bad, but having dated an Aries girl, it took me about 2 months to realize she respects arguments, puts herself out there totally understanding that being shutdown could be an outcome and because she likes me will respect my point of view.
Aside from this, you just learn to tolerate Aries, one-sided know it all shit, as Virgo are highly tolerant of others idiosyncracies. If it's important, I tell her she's wrong and why she is wrong and bring out the Cap in me and don't move my ground. But if she is telling me how to surf even tho she has never even been to the ocean in idle conversation, I generally just blow it off.
It's this same Aries overconfidence and boisterousness that secures our relationship in her steadfast defense of 'us', and her original pursuit to make it happen. You gotta respect it.
As for impatience, I am one of those nervous impatient Virgos, so I never have had a problem with it.
As for bossiness, I find it funny cuz I don't talk it seriously.
Otherwise, I think Aries is a great match for an 'EVOLVED' Virgo only however.
"If you withhold sex for that title, how do you know he's not just doing a dance the whole time to get into those pants? Then you have the title, he has the booty and then he doesn't act right. what then?
I'm curious. (I've never waited ) "
Very valid question. I think there are SOME men who will go through all that just to get the drawls. Lol. However, the majority of the men I know, will not becaue there are PLENTY of women who will not make them go through all that. So, if a man knows that he does not want to be in a relatinoship at all and he also knows that he just wants sex AND that he CAN get that from other women with little to no effort, he will. Especially, women who he does not have to get into a commited relationship with, he will not fake the funk. He might put in some work. But not go as far as get into a commited relationship. He might stick around and chase the woman for a while, but when he sees he aint getting none, hes out like a thief in the night and thats all she wrote. Lol. He will move on to the next. However, that is sole based on the males friends and relatives that I know.
I'm curious. (I've never waited ) "
Very valid question. I think there are SOME men who will go through all that just to get the drawls. Lol. However, the majority of the men I know, will not becaue there are PLENTY of women who will not make them go through all that. So, if a man knows that he does not want to be in a relatinoship at all and he also knows that he just wants sex AND that he CAN get that from other women with little to no effort, he will. Especially, women who he does not have to get into a commited relationship with, he will not fake the funk. He might put in some work. But not go as far as get into a commited relationship. He might stick around and chase the woman for a while, but when he sees he aint getting none, hes out like a thief in the night and thats all she wrote. Lol. He will move on to the next. However, that is sole based on the males friends and relatives that I know.
@Exo that's the bad thing I am suppose to be dating the first Sagg but I feel single and alone and that's why the second sagg was able to get to my head.
I understand what everyone is saying really and also I just had a long conversation with Sagg #2 and we plan on meeting this weekend so we will see, we are meeting in a group setting so we will see.
I understand what everyone is saying really and also I just had a long conversation with Sagg #2 and we plan on meeting this weekend so we will see, we are meeting in a group setting so we will see.