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*facepalm* I must be sick, KoL must be contagious.. I actually thought the "threesome" comment was funny! 
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Yeah I am a Cancer but have Capricorn Moon or Rising,,,,whatever it is.
I attract plenty of Caps and dated a couple of them. I am not as emotional or sensitive as other Cancers and I think its the way I was raised because I been through some shit. I am an extremely hard worker.
I've known him for over 6 yrs now, so I pretty much know how to approach him and talk to him. I rather just step back and let him miss me, mull over our last convo....but I am not gonna wait on him either while he "thinks".....Im doing me.
Ok......oh yeah abrasive albacore....lol
I attract plenty of Caps and dated a couple of them. I am not as emotional or sensitive as other Cancers and I think its the way I was raised because I been through some shit. I am an extremely hard worker.
I've known him for over 6 yrs now, so I pretty much know how to approach him and talk to him. I rather just step back and let him miss me, mull over our last convo....but I am not gonna wait on him either while he "thinks".....Im doing me.
Ok......oh yeah abrasive albacore....lol
Whatever the right answer is! 
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Posted by THEKingofLibraPosted by ShadowsPosted by ellessque
what is the fricken point of poking someone on facebook anyways?
it's really annoying.
I shared the same sentiment until I got poked by my first MAJOR crush in high school! Do you know how long I've waited to be poked by him!?!
Oh you are filthy! Filthy little girl.click to expand
Hey! How'd you know I was short?!?
. The filthy part was obvious...
@LibraSid: I agree. Things have gotten so complicated these days.
That's why I somewhat kind of wish things went back to the way they were back in the old days when 2 people were either 1. Strictly friends 2. In an official relationship (b/c 1 person bluntly came out & asked) 3. Married or 4. Divorced! lol
Nowadays, there's a whole lot of "in betweens."
For some people being monogamous isn't just about agreeing not to have sex with others. Being monogamous means not doing ANYTHING with someone else that goes past a platonic friendship level (and yes, sex just so happens to be included in that mix). In other words, it'd be kind of hard to say, "Ok let's agree not to sleep with other people" if neither person was doing so to begin with! So what does "exclusive" mean in cases like that when sex hasn't even yet been had?
I think there's even such a thing as being "Exclusive" b/c it's conveinant. If you're exclusive, yeah neither person can sleep with others outside of eachother, BUT technically since they're not together yet, they don't necessarily have to dish out all the loyalty, dedication, sacrifice, etc. that 2 people who were technically in a relationship would have.
And the less invested you are in someone, the less it hurts persay things don't work out. Kind of like being exclusive is like the "Trial run/test" to see what it'd be like to actually be in a relationship with that person. Sure, you may have stopped all sexual activities with others, BUT you may not have necessarily stopped all OTHER things that might've been still considered disrespectful persay you were actually in a relationship with them.
When you finally make it official, it's like F! No more excuses! I have to be monagomous on an emotional AND physical level. But when you're exclusive, the only thing you have to sacrifice is giving up the goods to another person. And for some, that was never an issue since they never slept around anyways
That's why I somewhat kind of wish things went back to the way they were back in the old days when 2 people were either 1. Strictly friends 2. In an official relationship (b/c 1 person bluntly came out & asked) 3. Married or 4. Divorced! lol
Nowadays, there's a whole lot of "in betweens."
For some people being monogamous isn't just about agreeing not to have sex with others. Being monogamous means not doing ANYTHING with someone else that goes past a platonic friendship level (and yes, sex just so happens to be included in that mix). In other words, it'd be kind of hard to say, "Ok let's agree not to sleep with other people" if neither person was doing so to begin with! So what does "exclusive" mean in cases like that when sex hasn't even yet been had?
I think there's even such a thing as being "Exclusive" b/c it's conveinant. If you're exclusive, yeah neither person can sleep with others outside of eachother, BUT technically since they're not together yet, they don't necessarily have to dish out all the loyalty, dedication, sacrifice, etc. that 2 people who were technically in a relationship would have.
And the less invested you are in someone, the less it hurts persay things don't work out. Kind of like being exclusive is like the "Trial run/test" to see what it'd be like to actually be in a relationship with that person. Sure, you may have stopped all sexual activities with others, BUT you may not have necessarily stopped all OTHER things that might've been still considered disrespectful persay you were actually in a relationship with them.
When you finally make it official, it's like F! No more excuses! I have to be monagomous on an emotional AND physical level. But when you're exclusive, the only thing you have to sacrifice is giving up the goods to another person. And for some, that was never an issue since they never slept around anyways