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I always wait 4 to 5 weeks after killing one before I move on.
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Nov 16, 2010Comments: 0 · Posts: 2245 · Topics: 36
Writing isn't talking.
When you're talking to people, you can feel the energy exchange, see their expressions, hear their inflection. You can adjust in the moment to make sure all parties are understanding the information being conveyed. In writing, you have to craft your words very carefully to be clearly understood. I think hard before posting anything of importance. People's actual lives can be affected by what we write and I don't want to be flippant about it. I've kept a DXP topic in the back of my mind 2 days before every responding. I even thought about THIS topic overnight before writing, and went through my books to find a paragraph I vaguely remembered reading in a Linda Goodman book. Here's what she thinks:
"There's a strange thing about Geminis and writing. The Sun sign itself rules writing. Therefore, practically every Mercury man or woman can turn a clever phrase and string words together intelligently. You'll find whole slews of them writing speeches, commercials, documentaries, plays and books. But the books will be novels, textbooks, nonfiction or biographies. Very seldom will you find the Geminian writing his own life story. And it's extremely rare to find one who likes to write personal letters. The typical Gemini hates to answer correspondence. He'll procrastinate for weeks.
It may seem contradictory at first, but the reason is clear when you realize the reluctance of Mercury people to be pinned down to an opinion. They hesitate to put their thoughts on paper because they instinctively know that what they believe today, they may not believe tomorrow and they don't want to be committed in writing. Few Geminis need to be warned by their attorneys to "Say it, don't write it". They were born with that defense mechanism. There are an astonishing number of Gemini authors who choose a pseudonym- even the average Geminian will eventually find some reason to adopt an alias- either a complete change, a different spelling, or at the very least a nickname."
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May 21, 2010Comments: 0 · Posts: 747 · Topics: 14
You disappeared for a few weeks some time ago, now you are going on holidays on your own...
Maybe he won't commit totally because he feels insecure of you. If you disappeared in the past, you could do it again. We Fish take your disappearing hard, we take it personally, and it hurts. Even though we may tell you it doesn't or act nonchalant, it does hurt a lot.
Maybe that is one of the reasons he is willing to jump completely into the relationship, for fear of being dumped later on...
anyway, he won't be with other women if he is in love with you, flirting yes, we do that, but we are loyal when we love the other person normally.
I guess it would be a good idea to talk openly,to see what he wants, how he feels...but not right now, if you are going away on your own, maybe after you come back. We are sometimes emotionally needy, specially when the other is goign away or unavailable, but then we have the irritating tendency to need space alone when the other person is there for us....annoying, huh???
remember you can PM me any time dear
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Nov 16, 2010Comments: 0 · Posts: 2245 · Topics: 36
Okay, you weirdos, I think I've got it:
"Astral projection" means your energy body is projecting onto a nonmaterial (astral) plane.
"Etheric Projection" means your energy body is projecting onto the material plane.
So, for instance, if you're leaving your physical body and walking around your house, you're experiencing etheric projection.
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Nov 16, 2010Comments: 0 · Posts: 2245 · Topics: 36
Gem sun, Mercury, and Venus here. I suppose that's cheating.
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Nov 16, 2010Comments: 0 · Posts: 2245 · Topics: 36
I don't really know what happened between my husband and me. It was like the relationship had a life of its own and we were along for the ride. It was obvious when it was time for us to date, when it was time to move in, when it was time to get married. There was an easy and natural flow to it.