Cancer man driving Taurus crazy
Im 43 a taurus with aries ascendant dating a cancer 55 for 4 months now--I think he is capricorn ascendant--we both have venus in gemini. Both of us divorced and living alone.I love him and he has told me he loves me. We see eachother and are intimate 5-6 days/nights a week around work and his custody arrangment for his son. We have been on a stretch of seeing eachother nearly every day for about 5 weeks now. He calls me every morning and afternoon--just to confirm plans, check in with me, etc. We have the same likes for hobbies, and we are both accomplished in our careers. I felt like I won the lottery when we met, and I instantly just felt serene around him--content, sexy, loved. Understandably I want to wake upwith him--I just adore him! He got mad at me TH night since he had to leave around midnight to go home and work and even though we see eachother all this time the only thing we've argued about is he doesn't want to stay over on "schoolnights" but he wants sex alright. I wasn't happy he was leaving. He called me the next day and was mad that I wasn unhappy with him the night before--I was in the middle of something at work and said I couldn't talk--but I emailed him how I felt. So he is so pissed--Fri didn't return my phone calls or respond to email, etc except to say eh ws passing on our plans that night--the plans HE made. Totally out of character for no contact. I finally texted him Sat midday--that his silence spoke for him and I wished he had broken it off with me before I told him I loved him. He texts back" I think we need a break to think we can chat next week." So I am leaving him alone--but it is killing me emotionally. I want to get back with him--we fought over my wanting intimacy! I mean really--I think he was feeling too attached and wanted to fight to see what I would do. I am a really sensitive person, and I can't stand separation and silent treatment. How do I win him back--what mustn't I do? Is leaving him alone and waiting for his call really the best course of action? Or will he feel I don't care?
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and sagittarius... I don't know honestly. i'm still religious but not as much as I used to be, still figuring things out for myself it that makes sense. Part of me just wants to hold on to the title of "virgin"as stupid as I know that is, but another part of me wants to keep it safe too. ugh I'm so confused.
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it's not an astrological thing.
A Gem that I thought was a lifelong friend did a similar thing to me for no reason that I (or any of the common friends we have had for over 20 years) have ever been told. Just did it because he could I guess. Don't know and have stopped wasting my precious time caring.
Erase them from your life and love the real people.
**sorry for mentioning the L word on Gemini board.....how about "embrace" the real people?
A Gem that I thought was a lifelong friend did a similar thing to me for no reason that I (or any of the common friends we have had for over 20 years) have ever been told. Just did it because he could I guess. Don't know and have stopped wasting my precious time caring.
Erase them from your life and love the real people.
**sorry for mentioning the L word on Gemini board.....how about "embrace" the real people?
i do p90x yoga lol - nope not looking for zen, more like sweat and abs 
i know, i can see some say: that thing will hurt you! but i love it 
i know, i can see some say: that thing will hurt you! but i love it Hi guys,
So here's my story. I used to work with this guy, always was attracted to him but knew he had a girlfriend. We reunited a couple of years later at a mutual friends place, we hung out there a few times a week but never really talked for about two years. He was still with the same girl during this time she never really came around and he never really talked about her. Anyway, about 6 months ago his woman got a job in another state and they decided to move, before he left he would elude to having difficulties in the relationship and seemed super stressed about leaving. He and I never really talked in depth with one another but i always felt a super strong connection to him. They moved, fought and he came back. I had told our mutual friend about my feelings for him a while ago and asked that if he was ever single that she let him know i am interested. He texted me about 2 weeks after he came back into town.
He is 34, had to move back home, no job, no car (all because of the move) but regardless no savings, so he is super strapped and in a weird spot. Anyway, at first he texted me all the time and was super sweet. after about 3 weeks he started hanging out with his boys until 2 or 3am on the weekends ( we only see eachother on weekends due to distance and him not having a car)and then would call to come over. Basically it has started to feel like a booty call. I started to pull away a little and he became super sweet again only to back away again a short time later.
I know he is in a bad spot, but i want to know i am more of a booty call. He is super kind its just hard as hell to get this guy to commit to hanging out. He always says i want to see you, or i hope i get to see you soon but never puts the effort forth in making it happen. He is also super passive and will often text after only seeing me for a small amount of time saying things like " wish we could have spent more time together" im at the point of saying dude, we could be but you never make it happen. He definetely puts guy time ahead of seeing me for sure. He also seems to have bad anxiety and nervous energy. Are these guys worth the trouble
So here's my story. I used to work with this guy, always was attracted to him but knew he had a girlfriend. We reunited a couple of years later at a mutual friends place, we hung out there a few times a week but never really talked for about two years. He was still with the same girl during this time she never really came around and he never really talked about her. Anyway, about 6 months ago his woman got a job in another state and they decided to move, before he left he would elude to having difficulties in the relationship and seemed super stressed about leaving. He and I never really talked in depth with one another but i always felt a super strong connection to him. They moved, fought and he came back. I had told our mutual friend about my feelings for him a while ago and asked that if he was ever single that she let him know i am interested. He texted me about 2 weeks after he came back into town.
He is 34, had to move back home, no job, no car (all because of the move) but regardless no savings, so he is super strapped and in a weird spot. Anyway, at first he texted me all the time and was super sweet. after about 3 weeks he started hanging out with his boys until 2 or 3am on the weekends ( we only see eachother on weekends due to distance and him not having a car)and then would call to come over. Basically it has started to feel like a booty call. I started to pull away a little and he became super sweet again only to back away again a short time later.
I know he is in a bad spot, but i want to know i am more of a booty call. He is super kind its just hard as hell to get this guy to commit to hanging out. He always says i want to see you, or i hope i get to see you soon but never puts the effort forth in making it happen. He is also super passive and will often text after only seeing me for a small amount of time saying things like " wish we could have spent more time together" im at the point of saying dude, we could be but you never make it happen. He definetely puts guy time ahead of seeing me for sure. He also seems to have bad anxiety and nervous energy. Are these guys worth the trouble
Posted by 69virgoPosted by RealTalkPosted by 69virgoPosted by RealTalk
^^^I do not believe this applies only to a "sign"...any man is capable of this if he really loves the woman. BTW, you forgot a protector...
Just follow the damn rules,woman!..damn virgals..lol
Ooooh...Now you know I don't follow rules!U should know that *rolls eyes*
I know what sign you wanna say..click to expand
A VIRGO!!!!
but that's unfair because again ANY man can perform these tasks...In all honesty I don't have a answer for this one...*shrugs shoulders*
Posted by enni
so whats your secret agenda now? lol
secret agenda? none here. If somethings going down I'll usually say it
Posted by DazedScorp
Be sure to wrap it up.
Haha nah I'm not going for that. I mean I could and make it 3 sags in a row, but I'm good :-P
Posted by oldskoolflavorPosted by happykitsunePosted by enniPosted by happykitsune
How do u "sleep" with a female?
did u....scissor or something?
if you're THAT curious,
check this out.. http://books.google.com/books/about/Lesbian_Sex.html?id=3P1m9lSDTTEC
Looked at this....
sooo they do scissor.. how do u get any pleasure out of that? All I find from a female is that they are lacking..
Anything that can be done with a girl can be done with a guy and more. Please explain to me the advantage in this lol
don't be so traditional ..
experience >> traditionclick to expand
This isn't a matter or tradition. I just like the feeling of a hard penis inside me, hitting it just right. I can't get that from a female unless she has a strap on...and I'd rather have the real thing inside me
Meh, I don't think it's gonna work with the aqua. Two different worlds..
Taurs - My two best friends are taurs and I seem to attract them (my moms a taur)
Scorpios - I seem to attract them in my life. Mostly guys tho, and they stick around.
Leos - I seem to form powerful bonds with leos...I've found that a lot of them seem to get me.
Scorpios - I seem to attract them in my life. Mostly guys tho, and they stick around.
Leos - I seem to form powerful bonds with leos...I've found that a lot of them seem to get me.