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Posted by bluemoon9043834
Eh, I am Pluto in Libra, too. Pluto in Libra brought transformation to relationships and made divorce a hit.
Pluto in Scorpio is much different and should not be underestimated just as Scorpio people should not be underestimated. Scorpio rules death, sex, regeneration, transformation, and shared resources. The whole Friends With Benefits ... no relationship but sex with no strings attached has been brought in by this generation.
Btw, watch this video:
Posted by PurrrrHissssPosted by Leo1970
How do I get past this and move forward with this relationship.
Well, you can start by not blowing him off this time.click to expand
Posted by PurrrrHissssPosted by Leo1970
How do I get past this and move forward with this relationship.
Well, you can start by not blowing him off this time.click to expand
Posted by Leo1970
Well that Wednesday, I get a text from him saying that he's so excited to see me and if we were still on for that Friday. I didn't respond. Yep, the fear set in again. So he text again on Thursday, "hello, are you there?" I didn't respond. Then that Friday, he called me over and over and over. My heart hurts as I type this....but I didn't respond. I just couldn't face telling him again, I couldn't make it....
Posted by wineaux
^^have you told him ANY of this?? he's not going to right out tell you out of fear and vice versa. i know you can do it. remember, they never show all of their cards because they are so guarded and terrified of rejection.
i'm glad he was so direct with you about you falling out of the picture for awhile, but you need to remind him that he did the same. an eye for an eye doesn't work for them.
it took me a while to get on a wavelength with my crabbie but the longer i spent time with him, the more i could feel what he was feeling. i would just ask but in a very sweet & coy way as to not scare him by using leading questions like: 'are you scared sometimes?' and as intuitive as they are he should know exactly what you're talking about...and i estimate he'll probably answer 'yes, aren't you?' he wants validation and you want communication.
i know you live far from one another but you CAN make it work as long as you're on the same page. you just need one night of communication to see where you two are. perhaps on friday it'll happen! btw, PM me on what winery he works at
Posted by westsidePosted by Leo1970
Well that Wednesday, I get a text from him saying that he's so excited to see me and if we were still on for that Friday. I didn't respond. Yep, the fear set in again. So he text again on Thursday, "hello, are you there?" I didn't respond. Then that Friday, he called me over and over and over. My heart hurts as I type this....but I didn't respond. I just couldn't face telling him again, I couldn't make it....
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