Ladies, You Need To Be Honest...
I think ladies telling a guy her intentions up front is important too
For example...telling a guy that she is ok with being friends 1st but hopes things progress to a relationship is a good idea b/c if the guy is a committment phobe, he'll give that hint away early on vs. the girl finding out later all b/c she was too afraid to speak her mind
You've gotta ask folks what their intentions are & also tell them what their intentions are
For example...telling a guy that she is ok with being friends 1st but hopes things progress to a relationship is a good idea b/c if the guy is a committment phobe, he'll give that hint away early on vs. the girl finding out later all b/c she was too afraid to speak her mind
You've gotta ask folks what their intentions are & also tell them what their intentions are
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So after debating this for a couple weeks I finally gave in and am posting. I'm a Scorpio and I was very close with an Aqua for several years. We never labeled what we were, but there was a lot of holding hands, making out, etc. He always gave me presents and he said "I love you" first. He moved away, but still visited often, sometimes for work and sometimes to see me. Three years ago, he told me he was coming to town and wanted to see me. Before he came, I sent him a long email requesting to put a label on what we were. Surprise surprise I never heard from him again. A few months later, I wrote him again saying we should still be friends. He didn't write back again. I took it really hard because we had known each other for 15 years and been "tight" for 3 years. I did eventually move on--I've dated and had one serious relationship since. I really thought I was over him.
Two weeks ago, I got a call from his best friend who still lives in the same city. He wanted to meet up for coffee so we did. I hadn't seen or spoken to him in almost 12 years so I immediately thought it had something to do with the "ex". He name dropped the "ex" a few times but didn't say anything specific about what happened between us. He did say the ex was seeing someone which he mentioned out of nowhere. It was all just weird.
Now I can't stop thinking about him, wondering if he's thinking about me. Any thoughts?
Two weeks ago, I got a call from his best friend who still lives in the same city. He wanted to meet up for coffee so we did. I hadn't seen or spoken to him in almost 12 years so I immediately thought it had something to do with the "ex". He name dropped the "ex" a few times but didn't say anything specific about what happened between us. He did say the ex was seeing someone which he mentioned out of nowhere. It was all just weird.
Now I can't stop thinking about him, wondering if he's thinking about me. Any thoughts?
that is so sweeeet!
Good, now all they have to do is get her OUT!!!
Honestly, I think Aries is the best sign. Most Aries I know are social loners, always doing their own thing. They are extremely quick, capable, intuitive and excellent listeners. You don't hear too many complaints about Aries people either because generally... what you see is what you get. Genuine. I just love that.
Posted by DMVPosted by VirgoVixxxen
Ok, something interesting about me...I traveled to Italy (Venice, Florence, Rome) for 8 days all by my lonesome and had the most wonderful time ever.
really! omg. ive been wanting to take a trip by myself...can i ask how old u were when u did it?click to expand
I'm here DMV...finally...shit! I had to take a nap/eat after hang'n out in the other thread. How very interesting! Not to mention, Irene has been howling like crazy...thought a damn wolf was in my linen closet. Sheesh!
Back to the topic at hand...I went to Italy when I was 23. I booked my trip with a travel company (and I was with a travel group and had a tour escort the entire time), and off I went. What an adventure! Lost my luggage for a whole day and everything, but I didn't give a damn 'cause I wasn't about to let losing all my clothes, and clean underwear stop me from having fun. LOL.
It was a treat, and I swear I ate more Gelato than I did food. Had that shit like twice a day for breakfast, lunch and dinner...sooooo good. *licks lips*
Met some really nice people in my group and there were these three older Black women who sort of took me under their wing. Very nice experience. Would def. do it again.
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This is a good topic because I often see women do a weave along with their natural hair - as in some parts is theirs and some parts is the weave, so my question is: is it all sewn in? Do they still use glue nowadays? LOL, don't think I'm crazy. I'm just not in the mix the way I used to be! After all my years of dyeing, rinsing, cutting, braiding, etc., I't's been simply nothing but relaxers & Wash & Sets. I'm boring!
Ooooohhhh, I've always wanted to try a lacefront wig. They look amazing and you can barely tell that it's not yours. I've seen some of the ones Beyonce wears and they're kinda tight, lol.
That's so wonderful that you have that man. Lord have mercy I love me some Black men....
lol. your too cute. i get a full sew in or a partial that leaves hair out. now keep in mind beyonce's lace fronts cost about 1000, the one u find in the china man's shop is like 100.
some ladies still do the glue.click to expand
Yeah I would sew it too. Can't believe some ladies still use the glue. Maybe it's a better brand than that cheap one we used to get from the china man shop.
My friend does the same as you. She leaves her bang out and some parts in the mid section.
I really need to research these lacefronts. Some of them are so damn cute.
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