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Posted by bluemoon9043834
Aries are generous, intuitive, giving, and sympathetic. I find other fire signs like Leo and Sagittarius a lot more unaware and self-centered.
They can be generous, it's true. In what sense do you mean intuitive? They can sure be intuitive when they act first and think later or do something that comes naturally to them. But if you mean intuitive as in sensing someone's feelings, intentions, et cetera . . . I'm too sure about that. I'll admit some can spot the bullshitters, but that comes from experience not pure intuition. Unless of course, an Aries person (or any other sign) have placements that would make them more sensitive and intuitive. As for being giving and sympathetic, yes they are, but so they are self-centered too. I think it's worth mentioning I'm not referring every single person who is an Aries. Just in case you tell me "I'm not self-centered."
You seem to possess awareness, how come you find Leo and Sagittarius to be unaware and self-centered but not Aries? I think sure you know some really nice Aries people... honest, not too aggressive, forgiving, you name it. As I'm sure you know really immature ones from your own sign as well. What's curious is that you are sticking up for your sign when you seem to know that they are not very different than Leo and Sagittarius, the signs you are "slightly" putting down. Is there some sort of animosity between fire signs on here or what? That'd be sad to hear cause I get along well with all fire signs.
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i met a scorpio a couple days ago and let me know if im trippin or not.
ok we met and he was VERY confident. we had sex and good conversation. now, im thinking this is a booty call. so when he doesnt call the next day, i dont sweat it. he does call the day after. but its like his whole demeanor changed. he didnt sound as confident as he once did. he sounded insecure, like he wasnt sure what i was going to say or how i was going to react. i sensed it and turned up my enthusiasm. he said he wanted to see me again and i was like score... the way he said that he wanted to see me was so unlike how he was a couple days ago. he used to be strong, direct. now he was mumbling, speaking softly. as i hung up, i told him that id have a drink waiting for him when he got here.
he calls back within several hours and starts asking me some interesting questions. he's asking me what i thought about the previous night. i tell him the attraction is there and i like him. he says that he likes me 2. again, hes not as confident. and im starting to feel bad because hes not coming out and saying what hes really feeling. i know fully well what hes feeling. i think hes in love already.
i noticed the same 180 that the previous scorp did. whereas he was once confident and happy go lucky...hes now different, hes unsure, hesistant. i mean the voice and tone is totally different. even when hes in a i hate you mood, the tone is so "please love me, why dont you love me." i just want to make sure im not projecting.
ive been thinking of his switchup and the everything else in between. thinking maybe im paranoid and thinking too far into things. i mean, we just met, he doesnt owe me a goddamn thing. vice versa.
ok we met and he was VERY confident. we had sex and good conversation. now, im thinking this is a booty call. so when he doesnt call the next day, i dont sweat it. he does call the day after. but its like his whole demeanor changed. he didnt sound as confident as he once did. he sounded insecure, like he wasnt sure what i was going to say or how i was going to react. i sensed it and turned up my enthusiasm. he said he wanted to see me again and i was like score... the way he said that he wanted to see me was so unlike how he was a couple days ago. he used to be strong, direct. now he was mumbling, speaking softly. as i hung up, i told him that id have a drink waiting for him when he got here.
he calls back within several hours and starts asking me some interesting questions. he's asking me what i thought about the previous night. i tell him the attraction is there and i like him. he says that he likes me 2. again, hes not as confident. and im starting to feel bad because hes not coming out and saying what hes really feeling. i know fully well what hes feeling. i think hes in love already.
i noticed the same 180 that the previous scorp did. whereas he was once confident and happy go lucky...hes now different, hes unsure, hesistant. i mean the voice and tone is totally different. even when hes in a i hate you mood, the tone is so "please love me, why dont you love me." i just want to make sure im not projecting.
ive been thinking of his switchup and the everything else in between. thinking maybe im paranoid and thinking too far into things. i mean, we just met, he doesnt owe me a goddamn thing. vice versa.
Posted by piranhaparadiisePosted by moongirljj
I got a reply from him just now. This is actually the most open and sincere he has been in about 2 months, this is what he wrote...
"It isn't about you moving on {moon}. It may be me not being able to move on. I can't look at you in any pics without tearing up or flat out crying. I can't listen to certain songs without doing the same. I am haunted by the memory of you and yes knowing you are moving on to someone else is killing me. I don't know what to do with out you. I miss you more and more every day. I keep acting like I am fine but actually I am an emotional wreck. I can't sleep for more than an hour and a half at a time. I would really like for us if nothing else to open a line of better communication. If you have to move on I understand but I don't want you cut out of my life.
PS:I am sorry it has taken so long to reply it has been a hectic day and it isn't over yet at all."
BTW: I'm not moving on with anyone else, he knows I had one date a week ago and that nothing happened. I do have guys pursuing me but I'm not seeing anyone else.
As I have said in the past...when a Cancer is around negative they will feed off that negative and make it their own...they will take revenge [as he has clearly admitted - games] and really work it in you...
When two Cancers get at it...someone *has* to stop...someone has to put their foot down and kick that behaviour right out the door...
I went through games with my ex Cancer...as soon as we both agreed to start things on a slower note...I met someone else a couple of days later ...and without a word from me I cut him cold ...deleted blocked on fb everything...I know this sounds harsh... but not once did he ever say sorry for the past [it made me resent him to the point I didn't want him to have me again]...and quite frankly an unevolved or immature one will not say sorry...because they aren't...I guess being a fish I flipped it back on him and he didn't see it coming...because he thought he had me where he wanted...his terms ...his time...his specific date...he was wrong
Nice!
So on that note...either he is the driver or you are ??!!click to expand
Posted by moongirljj
I totally agree there...
GAME OVER.
You know I think that is the problem, here I have been thinking "being nice" and being sorry was gonna make everything better between us but it only made things worse. I truly believe the moment you start to lose yourself in a relationship it IS over. Whether you both hang on or not. Thats why reconnecting with yourself is sometimes the only way to help someone see what they lost. This is my new mantra. I'm not gonna spend any more time trying to gain his approval or forgiveness. Once he shows me the love I deserve again I will give the same in return. If that doesn't happen, well I always have me.
Yep!
i like where your going with this elle....
You put that Sag fire on him. Now he has a little stutter in his step.
Nice dvm!
Well I'm still seeing that scorp with a cap venus, pisces moon.
I got nervous asking him if he wanted to stay at my place the other night actually. I'm not sure why but I was stumbling on my words and stuff.
He thought I was trying to ask him to be my boyfriend! And thought I wanted him to ask me out inside of me saying it.
I had to try so hard not to die from laughter because he was totally serious.
I don't think you can assume what people are thinking! Lol
Well I'm still seeing that scorp with a cap venus, pisces moon.
I got nervous asking him if he wanted to stay at my place the other night actually. I'm not sure why but I was stumbling on my words and stuff.
He thought I was trying to ask him to be my boyfriend! And thought I wanted him to ask me out inside of me saying it.
I had to try so hard not to die from laughter because he was totally serious.
I don't think you can assume what people are thinking! Lol
Posted by Sagittarius89
Nice dvm!
Well I'm still seeing that scorp with a cap venus, pisces moon.
I got nervous asking him if he wanted to stay at my place the other night actually. I'm not sure why but I was stumbling on my words and stuff.
He thought I was trying to ask him to be my boyfriend! And thought I wanted him to ask me out inside of me saying it.
I had to try so hard not to die from laughter because he was totally serious.
I don't think you can assume what people are thinking! Lol
un huh. im really trying not to, which is why i asked u know. which is why, im going to not lead him, but let him think. i just thought it was tooo soon for all this.
how do u stop yourself from leading him?
No birthday party yet it's not the time 
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I'm not dictating I am just sayin'
What's with the job? What issues?
.I'm not dictating I am just sayin'
What's with the job? What issues?