is it dangerous to stalk an aries?
Well... I'm and aries. I can tell you one thing. He might be upset that your messing with him, but on the up side I would think he'd find you doing this message thing kind of cute. It is alittle weird, but as an aries... weird is usually ok for us since were so independent and out of the norm. All I can tell you is that you should stop messaging him, look him straight in the face and just tell him you like him. Aries like independent and confident woman. Plus you never know... he might just like you. So never fear when it comes to telling people you like them or maybe even love them. Just take a leap of faith...
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@bling,
its not that i enjoy doing differently, thats not how i go into it situations like these.
maybe ive disenfranchised myself into believing that every guy is a booty call until he states differently. even if i wanted a relationship with a guy, im still going to sleep with him on the first date.
i just dont appreciate being manipulated into falling for someone. and thats what happened with the first scorp. i felt like his mindgames caused me to fall but not anything real. its like i couldnt make the decision for myself.
why would a guy want a girl who he tricked into falling for him?
its not that i enjoy doing differently, thats not how i go into it situations like these.
maybe ive disenfranchised myself into believing that every guy is a booty call until he states differently. even if i wanted a relationship with a guy, im still going to sleep with him on the first date.
i just dont appreciate being manipulated into falling for someone. and thats what happened with the first scorp. i felt like his mindgames caused me to fall but not anything real. its like i couldnt make the decision for myself.
why would a guy want a girl who he tricked into falling for him?
Posted by DazedScorpPosted by Sagittarius89
Dazed can you elaborate on that.
Which part?click to expand
Sex having to deal with trust
@Virgo - Again, if that works for you, then rock on.
"In the past when I was a teen sometimes I would just get nervous by a guy I found attractive and the first thing out of my mouth would be something to make him go away when he came up to me - just out of my reflexes. Some girls do it because playing hard to get will get them attention that they enjoy. Others because they think the guy sees something in her based on all the efforts he's putting in to chase her."
Dont take this the wrong way or personal Virgo, but its stuff like this that stops a lot of guys from approaching women. Mixed signals is my pet peeve when it comes to women in the dating scene. Example, I talked to this girl at a party. I only approached cause it seemed like she was interested in me. I was nervous, maybe not making the most stimulating conversation but still trying the best I can.
About five minutes into it, she appeared bored and started looking elsewhere. I picked up on it and tried to be more entertaining with the convo. Two minutes later, seemed to not make an effect. So I took a hint and excused myself. Flash forward to an hour later. I run into a girl that Im friends with who is also pals with the girl I talked to.
She said " "Jennifer" was wondering why you walked away from her. She really, really liked you. I instantly face palmed myself and said "Gimme a break" Just a note ladies, when you looked bored, like you want the conversation to end, it actually will. Some guys may like a challenge, but most guys(sober anyway) will take that as their exit point.
Something women never seem to learn about men is we don't specialize in subtlety. We are not women and wont pick on subtleties. Women make it hard for themselves in today's dating scene period.
As far as Freaky Friday goes I dont need it to know what women go through when men approach them. Im approached by gay men consistantly. So take me being straight nicely. Others not so per example "You're straight? I can get you straight into bed" After that I gave him a stern and loud f-off. Worked for me.
Bottom line is it kind of annoying? Yes, especially when it makes me wish more women would be aggressive and approach like men do without the need of liquid courage or social status. Bottom line, I get on with my day. Its apart of life. I get women are more vulnerable and prone to attacks coupled with rape.
Its a very tragic, sad fact of the world we live in.
"In the past when I was a teen sometimes I would just get nervous by a guy I found attractive and the first thing out of my mouth would be something to make him go away when he came up to me - just out of my reflexes. Some girls do it because playing hard to get will get them attention that they enjoy. Others because they think the guy sees something in her based on all the efforts he's putting in to chase her."
Dont take this the wrong way or personal Virgo, but its stuff like this that stops a lot of guys from approaching women. Mixed signals is my pet peeve when it comes to women in the dating scene. Example, I talked to this girl at a party. I only approached cause it seemed like she was interested in me. I was nervous, maybe not making the most stimulating conversation but still trying the best I can.
About five minutes into it, she appeared bored and started looking elsewhere. I picked up on it and tried to be more entertaining with the convo. Two minutes later, seemed to not make an effect. So I took a hint and excused myself. Flash forward to an hour later. I run into a girl that Im friends with who is also pals with the girl I talked to.
She said " "Jennifer" was wondering why you walked away from her. She really, really liked you. I instantly face palmed myself and said "Gimme a break" Just a note ladies, when you looked bored, like you want the conversation to end, it actually will. Some guys may like a challenge, but most guys(sober anyway) will take that as their exit point.
Something women never seem to learn about men is we don't specialize in subtlety. We are not women and wont pick on subtleties. Women make it hard for themselves in today's dating scene period.
As far as Freaky Friday goes I dont need it to know what women go through when men approach them. Im approached by gay men consistantly. So take me being straight nicely. Others not so per example "You're straight? I can get you straight into bed" After that I gave him a stern and loud f-off. Worked for me.
Bottom line is it kind of annoying? Yes, especially when it makes me wish more women would be aggressive and approach like men do without the need of liquid courage or social status. Bottom line, I get on with my day. Its apart of life. I get women are more vulnerable and prone to attacks coupled with rape.
Its a very tragic, sad fact of the world we live in.
Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by DMV
i do try to keep players on the bench. i like to have a choice in who to have sex with and i would like to keep this scorpio in play but if its at the expense of his feelings, than i dont want that. i need more time outside of the bedroom to make an emotional connection with someone.
i have tried to be more upfront with what i want from a guy because i dont want to give them the run around. BUT i also dont want to lose a player.
casual sex just doesnt seem to work with scorpios. i need casual sex first before i can even consider a relationship with someone.
I'd feel mortified if I was thought of as a playa lol.
I dunno about the casual sex thing, unless I'm the only one you'd be being casual with lol.
I think that outlook attracts the more douchey types you've had in the past though fwiw.
Although one of your situations still makes me lmfao.
Some ex playa who was trying to get your attention in some club.
I imagined him not really talking, pawing at your elbow to come talk in private (and kinda saying it in a *meepy* type voice or just mumbling, then trying to send sexy texts while staying at the bar (probably kinda putting the phone up to his mouth/teeth to appear all cutesy and shit).
You'll continue to attract dudes like this unless you give in to this new scorpioclick to expand
that was the first scorp.
i hear ya. i have been changing my outlook on life and making different decisions. im turning 30 soon and its showing.
Either you can stay scared or do something about it. Take self-defense classes in depth or carry some type of weapon. If I were a dad when my daughters hit 10-11 years old, they would be taking self-defense classes.
And carry something to protect themselves.
But all of us can be attacked at any time. It depends on how we take the offense to it is all.
Women shouldnt complain about the guys they are attracted to not approaching them. When those guys probably heard from their females complaining about guys approaching them. Words have consequences.
And carry something to protect themselves.
But all of us can be attacked at any time. It depends on how we take the offense to it is all.
Women shouldnt complain about the guys they are attracted to not approaching them. When those guys probably heard from their females complaining about guys approaching them. Words have consequences.
Posted by DazedScorpPosted by DMV
casual sex just doesnt seem to work with scorpios. i need casual sex first before i can even consider a relationship with someone.
I jsut saw this...
And I may be backpeddling here, but this is the way every single one of my relationships have started out.
Fuck it, I'm confused now.click to expand
whats ur venus?
This situation goes from people I have known for 10 years to people I have known for the past 2 years, and it's just something I have seen in a lot of people on a daily basis, just having their own needs as number one but maybe that is how it should be in reality, I don't know *shrugs*
Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by DMV
@bling,
its not that i enjoy doing differently, thats not how i go into it situations like these.
maybe ive disenfranchised myself into believing that every guy is a booty call until he states differently. even if i wanted a relationship with a guy, im still going to sleep with him on the first date.
i just dont appreciate being manipulated into falling for someone. and thats what happened with the first scorp. i felt like his mindgames caused me to fall but not anything real. its like i couldnt make the decision for myself.
why would a guy want a girl who he tricked into falling for him?
Why don't you state differently instead ? You seem to like traditional approach when it comes to the possibility of rejection, yet going all out on the 1st date otherwise
I don't think anyone appreciates being taken for a mug and I see those people are parasitic cunts, personally.
Plus they probably have abandonment issues or can't get over someone who did them wrong (always return to sender with the latter, the rest is just weak).
Funnily enough I don't entertain much b/s as I'm too quick to ask/put my foot in it lol. But at the same time I don't have that much baggage/issues or queefing about to deal with either lolclick to expand
let me say that my definition of dating is much different than the traditional definition.
Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by DMVPosted by everevolvingepithetPosted by DMV
i do try to keep players on the bench. i like to have a choice in who to have sex with and i would like to keep this scorpio in play but if its at the expense of his feelings, than i dont want that. i need more time outside of the bedroom to make an emotional connection with someone.
i have tried to be more upfront with what i want from a guy because i dont want to give them the run around. BUT i also dont want to lose a player.
casual sex just doesnt seem to work with scorpios. i need casual sex first before i can even consider a relationship with someone.
I'd feel mortified if I was thought of as a playa lol.
I dunno about the casual sex thing, unless I'm the only one you'd be being casual with lol.
I think that outlook attracts the more douchey types you've had in the past though fwiw.
Although one of your situations still makes me lmfao.
Some ex playa who was trying to get your attention in some club.
I imagined him not really talking, pawing at your elbow to come talk in private (and kinda saying it in a *meepy* type voice or just mumbling, then trying to send sexy texts while staying at the bar (probably kinda putting the phone up to his mouth/teeth to appear all cutesy and shit).
You'll continue to attract dudes like this unless you give in to this new scorpio
that was the first scorp.
i hear ya. i have been changing my outlook on life and making different decisions. im turning 30 soon and its showing.
31 coming up. Can I have someone who doesn't hang on to an sms life style who doesn't act all cakey eaty please ?
You can make it my b/day treat for giving the best advice on DXP. Oct 23 fwiw.
kthx DMVclick to expand
u got it
Posted by DazedScorpPosted by DMVPosted by DazedScorpPosted by DMV
casual sex just doesnt seem to work with scorpios. i need casual sex first before i can even consider a relationship with someone.
I jsut saw this...
And I may be backpeddling here, but this is the way every single one of my relationships have started out.
Fuck it, I'm confused now.
whats ur venus?
Scorp...click to expand
shit im confused 2. u got any saggo in you?