Who wud u NOT want 2 get into an argument with?
LOL I call it fence sitting. Which makes me want to lower my horns and charge.
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He didn't try anything with me, but did sit close with his whole body touching mine as we watched some shows.
We had a good hug when I left but no kiss like we had been.
He initiated a text with me the next day (today) and I went on to explain that I understood moving more casually, but that if he knew for sure he doesn't ever want to be in a relationship with me that he should tell me so we aren't wasting eachothers time. I said that if he isn't sure he doesn't want a relationship and wants to see where this leads us I'm fine to continue hanging out and putting my best face forward so he can really get to know me (without a cocktail in my hand half the time lol..)
So, that's where we are and I'm waiting for a response. :p I can keep my emotions cool about these sorts of things, and if it doesn't happen so be it, I just want to know so I can move on.
If we continue to hang out though, I am actually a bit terrified. My attraction to this guy is unexplainable. Almost painful and uncomfortable and I'm not even sure where it comes from. It's very intense and in a way feels fated for these reasons. I don't even know if I'd be ready for it either.
He didn't try anything with me, but did sit close with his whole body touching mine as we watched some shows.
We had a good hug when I left but no kiss like we had been.
He initiated a text with me the next day (today) and I went on to explain that I understood moving more casually, but that if he knew for sure he doesn't ever want to be in a relationship with me that he should tell me so we aren't wasting eachothers time. I said that if he isn't sure he doesn't want a relationship and wants to see where this leads us I'm fine to continue hanging out and putting my best face forward so he can really get to know me (without a cocktail in my hand half the time lol..)
So, that's where we are and I'm waiting for a response. :p I can keep my emotions cool about these sorts of things, and if it doesn't happen so be it, I just want to know so I can move on.
If we continue to hang out though, I am actually a bit terrified. My attraction to this guy is unexplainable. Almost painful and uncomfortable and I'm not even sure where it comes from. It's very intense and in a way feels fated for these reasons. I don't even know if I'd be ready for it either.
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Posted by ellessquePosted by lnana04
@Elle, i wonder if it's his scorpio venus making you go back and forth with what you feel? is he too intense for what you want right now?
i think so. there is nothing relaxed about this. nothing easy. he expects me to return sentiments and i just can't. they can't be forced and the more you look at me disappointed because i can't fake them, the more i retract and feel like i'm forcing feelings. i start forcing feelings and i become totally numb to anything.
he's on his way over. we're spending the evening together. been planned all week. i've been in anxiety all day because i really don't want to see him :/click to expand
Whoa! but i know how you feel.
i say back away as slowly as you can.
Hahahahahhah!
the scorpio i liked also had his venus in scorp and it had gotten to the point where i couldn't even open my mouth and talk. i was literally on mute. seriously, i would just sit there staring, not even at him, while he talked. although i liked him a lot, i just felt he wanted something more than i could probably ever give. it felt so scary to be in or even vision myself being in such a vulnerable position. felt like i would leave that relationship, if we ever got to that point, feeling like my arm or was chopped off. completely in pain. its still a tug of war within about him yrs later, but really, it was just TOO intense.
you can tell him that he's coming on too strong, but it almost sound as if it's a slight compatibility issue more than anything.
you can tell him that he's coming on too strong, but it almost sound as if it's a slight compatibility issue more than anything.
Posted by LouLore
His comment was that he wanted to keep things casual. Which I think meaning he wants to continue having sex with me, but wants me to not be developing feelings for him. That he doesn't want to become attached. Doesn't want a relationship. I said I understood, which I do, but that I wasn't about to continue sleeping with him if this isn't going anywhere.
Here's your answer. Clearly.
i get upset about all those questions too... not if they're asked once or twice, BUT, only if they are asked repeatedly and i've already given them the answer 10 different times... the answer still hasn't changed the. first. 9. times. lol!
If so, then hopefully that's what I'll hear reiterated when he responds to my last text to him.
IKR? i dont remember why but she deleted...misc board just isnt the same