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Not a game per se, but keeping options open until the decision is made upon who is right. All men can play the womanizing game, that is not sign specific. I have many male friends. Some may be perceived as suitors, but only one will truly hold my heart in the palm of his hand. I enjoy people in general for their qualities and value my friends. Male and female.
I can be a horrendous flirt, and have a wicked sense of humor but once I lock down on the object of my affection and desire everyone else immediately gets slammed into friend territory. There is no possibilities or entertainment of such thoughts. My focus is ONE. And I like to know precisely where I stand in someones affection. No wondering. To put it most bluntly...I want someone to eat, shit, and breathe me in. Because that is what I am doing in reverse. No middle ground for me. Most definitely black and white in that arena.
Walking off into the fog and mist might work for some Bulls ( that panicked reaction of "OH SHIT, can't lose DAT! What are you doing?! THINK! THINK! ) but it drives a wedge in deep for me and plainly tells me with both fingers extended to 'fugoff'..which I will do, hurt. I have far too much Fire to want to drag my feet and piddle fart around in general. What I want, I'll be wanting yesterday sankoovellymuch. So quite a bit of that 'oh no's!' crap and swooning majestically backward onto a hope chest crap while I clutch my pearls doesn't fly with me very far. YES I will think, YES I will ponder, then I'll just slam one foot on the clutch and the other on the gas and slip that baby into 5th gear so I can listen to it PURR. All the way to the frocking floor with it. And all the fear, and all the wondering, and all the extreme bullshit can kiss my round lily white ASSSSSSSSSS. Ya feeling me sisters? Can ya dig on that? Can ya groooooove on it? Yehhhh baby.
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Oct 11, 2006Comments: 2454 · Posts: 30581 · Topics: 372
Anyone ever had a frenemy?
(This is possibly my first post on the Virgo board)
I've never really had a frenemy before because as a Sag, I'm not that great at faking shit...if I don't like you, it's usually pretty obvious. Haha
But I think I might have my first ever frenemy and he's a Virgo.
He's one of my classmates, and one of the first people I made friends with when I moved here.
Me, him, and my Leo friend were pretty much inseparable at first. Then we had a bit of a falling out I guess you could say...but it was really just a misunderstanding. Pretty typical Sag-Virgo fight. We were all drinking, getting pretty shitty...I jokingly told his boyfriend to "stop acting like a bitch" (yes, he's gay.) and he was offended. He never said anything to me...rather to the Leo...and made comments days later. :/
The Leo, being loyal to me of course, pretty much told him to grow up... that she was there, and he had no reason to be offended. But at this point I was annoyed that he never came to me and just talked about me to other people instead. I found this childish and sort of made up my mind that I didn't want to be friends with him because it would honestly be too much work (ie:if he got offended over something like that, that will surely not be the last time I offend him since I usually say whatever the Eff I want without too much thought.)
So, anyways, I stopped going out of my way to talk to him. Obviously he could sense this, and without going into too much detail, started acting like a dick. I didn't give him a reaction. This went on for about a week or so...
Eventually he initiated a convo with me and started acting as if nothing ever happened between us. We were in public and I was over it, so I responded friendly.
Later I got a text from him asking if we were cool.......UM? Haha sure? For the sake of squashing things I just said yes and noted that I wasn't sure what the problem was to begin with.
He insinuated he didn't know either...he just sensed I was annoyed with him so he was "staying out of my way"
Ever since things have been kind of awkward between us. In all honesty he really gets on my fucking nerves now. I still feel like I really don't care to be friends with him...but since we have mutual friends would like to keep things cordial. I feel like we wouldn't even be "friends" if it weren't for our Leo friend...like he only invited me along since he knew the Leo and me were closer and it were kind of like a package
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Anyways,(sorry this is so long) it's his birthday tomorrow and he texted me to invite me to his bday dinner. I said I'd be back in time to go. He said "good! wouldn't be the same without you. miss you beotch"
Again, I feel like I only got an invite since he was inviting the Leo. But what's with the text?
Was that his way of extending an olive branch?
I am seriously getting the frenemy vibe from all this and I don't like it. :/
Maybe it's just the awkwardness of a Sag-Virgo friendship?
Virgos, help!
Is this normal?
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