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HI LV!! *waves*
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Look for someone who has a complete life without you in it. If you have a person you don't need for anything, that's ideal. You're just together because you really want to be.
Thats how Libra Should "roll"
oh a libra wrote that story in the vid
Look for someone who has a complete life without you in it. If you have a person you don't need for anything, that's ideal. You're just together because you really want to be.
Thats how Libra Should "roll"
oh a libra wrote that story in the vid
your writing made my day blue moon,thank you in kind for sharing
Posted by NZAquaPosted by NikkiMse1978
Said people may be in relationships, but how come they come back to you? Clarification please?
Because they are human and don't have all the answers. Some people take the easy road because they have no other way of travelling.
However, in order to go back somewhere they have to feel there's an open invite. And this is where the Third Wheel comes in.
There's a sense of comfort, familiarity, hope, expectation and, for some, an ego boost. Whatever the reason they go back because they get something that feels good from it. Whether the good feeling is a healthy choice one is another matter entirely.click to expand
The plot only thickens with us, each and every time. I will never fully understand why he keeps coming back, but I cannot let him into my life any longer. He did choose her and I refuse to be the on the side, the "other" woman. I have to much respect and to much dignity to do that to me, or to his gf.
It seems he travels the same road quite frequently when it comes to the loves hes lost. And this time, I am encouraging him to take the road less traveled. To make a right, and not a left.
Why would he want to go back somewhere? I am not making sense of that statement.
There is alot more that has happend, and I do not feel comfortable putting out there for all to see. However, I will say this. He is trying to convince me to be the "other" woman. I am sticking to my guns and saying no. He finally admitted to me he cannot give me what I want (him). That there is to much history and he knows I say he hurt me, but his heart still has fresh wounds when he tried that before. ( I think he means when we tried getting back together before).
Seeing him in this new light, regardless of what he means, makes it easier for me to move on. I am being brave, but it is the only way I can safely move on.
This is giving him a major ego boost for sure! LOL. I see right through it.
Posted by firewaterearthPosted by AliCar15
Because you have history- because it was already "comfortable". Because it doesn't require work or effort. And especially if you make it easy for him.
Relationships take work. They can be difficult and they have their ups and their downs. If he has any experience, an Aqua man knows this and understands that relationships take time, and are sometimes a struggle. It can take some serious effort and fortitude to get to a good, comfortable place with a new significant other. He knows what a relationship requires of him, which is why sometimes, he may not want to put in the work 100% of the time. It can be exhausting.
This is why he is coming back and sleeping with you. Because you're letting him have his cake and eat it to. Because he has you on the side to fulfill his sexual needs, he can really and truly take his time building a strong, stable foundation with his new love, without sex getting in the way. He can take his time with sex with her and let it be beautiful and meaningful. There is no rush for him to have sex with his new girlfriend, because you're so easy for him to sleep with.
For the record, I don't think any of this is right. Dude is a dirtbag.
In my experience, an Aqua male will always go back to the woman who inspired him to be better himself in some way and/or challenged him. He will choose her over someone whom he has "shared history" with in the long run.click to expand
He just told me that last night. We have to much history. LOL.
Hello LV.
Flavoured ice cubes. I like to spike my drinks with ice cubes containing other forms of alcohol like peach schnapps . When the ice cubes melt, they release flavour into your drink. To be honest, peach schnapps can be a bit too sweet so try experimenting with your own (or just dilute your drink).
(Protip for anyone doing a similar thing: use stainless steel ice cube trays to freeze your ice cubes. Alcoholic drinks have a low freezing point, so you need to get a tray that will freeze faster than any other. Alternatively, you could water down the drink to decrease its freezing point. Happy drinking!)
. When the ice cubes melt, they release flavour into your drink. To be honest, peach schnapps can be a bit too sweet so try experimenting with your own (or just dilute your drink).(Protip for anyone doing a similar thing: use stainless steel ice cube trays to freeze your ice cubes. Alcoholic drinks have a low freezing point, so you need to get a tray that will freeze faster than any other. Alternatively, you could water down the drink to decrease its freezing point. Happy drinking!)
Posted by firewaterearthPosted by NikkiMse1978Posted by tiki33
correction...they have history together, year apart, then had sex once and after sex proceeded to text only for her to find out shortly after he's in love with someone else.
I may have found out he is in a new relationship, but now answer me this. How come he had to sleep with me? Where was his new girlfriend? How come he wasn't texting or sleeping with her? How come he had to come back to me? Because its familiar, because he just wanted to play, because he is confused as to what he want? Because he may have feelings for me still?
Being a friend is unconditional love and support no matter what happens. Lack of trust, honesty, communication or betrayl may come between friends momentarily, however, I have proved whatever it is he was looking for, by being his friend.
Make sense? If it does not then answer my questions above.
If I had to hazard a guess his relationship with the new girlfriend is challenging him in a new way. He is not used to it, but it could be providing him the necessary tools to grow. I have feeling that he likes the familarity of being around you, but at the same time he may not feel as though he can emotionally grow with you in a relationship. You represent a training wheel and when he feels more confident about himself, then he will let you go. I do believe that he is fond of you, but not in a romantic sense. You do not want to be the "default/killing time woman", especially for an Aqua male. Even if he marries you, in the back of his mind he will resent you because he settled for what was convenient/familar and not for what he truly wanted. A resentful Aqua male will make your life a living hell.
You can do better.click to expand
Fire-you are right!! His new relationship is challenging him. In the most positive way possible.
I do have to say I am happy for him. He may want to take the path he has traveled before, but I am not going to stand in his way. I am encouraging him to take the right hand turn now. He needs to grow with her. I already see that. That is why I cannot be his "other" woman like he wants me to be. If I am anything I want to be the only woman. He told me he cannot give me what I want. That there is to much h
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My scorpio eyes
And I agree this is the most consistent physical trait in the zodiac. One of the things that originally made me believe in the zodiac, and start studying to see if it was all true or not.
And I agree this is the most consistent physical trait in the zodiac. One of the things that originally made me believe in the zodiac, and start studying to see if it was all true or not.