this one!!
Not even close to ham...not even close
Not even close to ham...not even close
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No, I wouldn't marry me. At least not right now.
I'm a bit too selfish, and I've carved out a nice little life for myself so I honestly don't know if I'll ever have a desire to merge my life with someone else's. Now or anytime in the future (although someone did tell me once that when the "right guy" comes along, I'm gonna sell all my stuff within a blink of an eye and start right on over from scracth, lol).
Not to say that you can't still have your alone time even when married, but, I really, really, really don't think I can adjust to coming home with someone else or other people in the house (even with the "right guy"). Seriously. It's quite hard for me. It's almost as if I alternate between attraction and repulsion and as much as I want you there is as much as I want you gone.
I also am not very comfortable with the idea of being vulnerable/opening up emotionally which I know is something that is very much needed in a marriage.
If I can get a handle on these things, I can be better material for marriage but, at the moment they are my biggest obstacles.
I'm a bit too selfish, and I've carved out a nice little life for myself so I honestly don't know if I'll ever have a desire to merge my life with someone else's. Now or anytime in the future (although someone did tell me once that when the "right guy" comes along, I'm gonna sell all my stuff within a blink of an eye and start right on over from scracth, lol).
Not to say that you can't still have your alone time even when married, but, I really, really, really don't think I can adjust to coming home with someone else or other people in the house (even with the "right guy"). Seriously. It's quite hard for me. It's almost as if I alternate between attraction and repulsion and as much as I want you there is as much as I want you gone.
I also am not very comfortable with the idea of being vulnerable/opening up emotionally which I know is something that is very much needed in a marriage.
If I can get a handle on these things, I can be better material for marriage but, at the moment they are my biggest obstacles.
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I know a couple that could be classified as the "GOING GREEN" couple. I hear about the "relationship" all the time, and if it's draining to listen to it, one can only assume that the actual relationship is draining as well. It's like why bother?
Posted by virg_goki
my virgal friend told me to just marry myself LOL!
LOL!
But seriously, we are the "bachelors" and "bachelorettes" of the zodiac so even if the desire to get married is there and it doesn't happen, I think we can live with it alot easier than the other signs. *shrugs*
Oh, and we want invites to your wedding, please.
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