I have my idea sketched out...but now I'm like uhhhh okay what do I do now. :/
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Posted by PurrrrHissss
Oh, no. Don't send him a letter. You haven't seen him in 20 years? He'll see right through that and know it wasn't your idea, which will offend him.
especially when everyone else is going to be doing the same thing...
water signs at least will think *you didn't care about me for the almost 20 years so why start now...?!
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Taurelle18 .Lust can fill your bed,love can fill a home.Spend a day with a few single moms,not the single moms that her mother watches her children when she wants to go out.Talk to a single mother that has no village,that has no support at all.A mother lving in a homeless shelter.
If he doesn't show up for the holidays and birthday now,explain that to your child when he is missing for their birthday.
Latest figures say it costs 250,000 to raise a child these days.
How is he holding a job?Not doing so well?Kiss your child support good bye.If he can't manage his finances now, other than doing stuff for himself,that's not good for any family her has.
Go price baby stuff,diapers,clothes,daycare and toys.(times 25).The average child comes back home after college and can't find a job).
Yeah sure everyone supports you at first until they get bored.
Your baby didn't ask for 1 and a half parents.
Women are having children into their 40's,so you have time.Just take folic acid to keep your health up for pregancy.
Is this what you want for yourself? What if he gets bored with playing daddy?He is playing if he is not there full time.
He is not the only man out there.
I didn't say you wouldn't be a great mother or wouldn't love you baby at all.It isn't about that.
Having a child will change your life forever.
If he doesn't show up for the holidays and birthday now,explain that to your child when he is missing for their birthday.
Latest figures say it costs 250,000 to raise a child these days.
How is he holding a job?Not doing so well?Kiss your child support good bye.If he can't manage his finances now, other than doing stuff for himself,that's not good for any family her has.
Go price baby stuff,diapers,clothes,daycare and toys.(times 25).The average child comes back home after college and can't find a job).
Yeah sure everyone supports you at first until they get bored.
Your baby didn't ask for 1 and a half parents.
Women are having children into their 40's,so you have time.Just take folic acid to keep your health up for pregancy.
Is this what you want for yourself? What if he gets bored with playing daddy?He is playing if he is not there full time.
He is not the only man out there.
I didn't say you wouldn't be a great mother or wouldn't love you baby at all.It isn't about that.
Having a child will change your life forever.
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Posted by piranhaparadiisePosted by PurrrrHissss
water signs at least will think *you didn't care about me for the almost 20 years so why start now...?!
As a Cancer, I find it flattering if someone would do that. Means I had a lasting impression. I contacted someone after not seeing them for 14 years and told them how much I liked them. They never knew back in the day or else they would have responded positively. But each situation can be different to the crabclick to expand
This an manipulative thing done by men in general, we are super horny sometimes and we feel like saying stuff like that will increase our chances significantly of that happening. He really doesn't want a kid, trust me
Also some men can say their wife "I think our toddler needs a playmate now ", just so u can get a woman super horny subconsiously. for some reason that actually works on women LOL.
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Posted by NZAqua
5'5"? Oh Lordy, I'll pop you in my pocket! Got an attitude of 10'6" though. Love it!
10 foot tall and bulletproof.
Now lie back on the couch VB, I have finished peeling your grapes...
Posted by VulcanLass
Now ya talking.
Like someone said earlier on this thread, its better be happy than trying to be right all the time and getting yourself in the doghouse.
I have to comment because i too just recently went thru what you are .....Point blank he has to reevaluate you now since you expressed that you care and want to move to the next level .... he has given you signs he's interested and if that is the case he is just really tryin to get to know you better and wants to see if you are gonna be able to just enjoy your time with him....that is in order to get to know you better...thats what they do when they dont know you....
I expressed myself to my virgo and he responded by actin the same way yours did....I seen he wasnt initiatin conversations like he used too..make plans and break em.. but that is one of their test.....P-Angel says her husband virgo didnt act anything like this ....does that mean you and your virgo knew eachother pretty well b4 you got deep with eachother....
cause now, my virgo comes around more calls and says the sweetest things....tikki33.and. p angel said it was only a fwb thing but he has said exactly what i needed to hear about what is goin on and it certainly is not that ....
when mine tested me...bein direct about what ever was the best cure cause he responded to that very well...because now i have proven results that it is ok..to be direct and express your feelings dont ask about his (that will only aggitate him)let him come to you with how he feels...Believe me ,you will hear his thoughts of things in due time...just be positive to him ...dont express negativity ...the moment he senses that, it will be an even longer process...my virgo..he comes nowevery other night(not even to have sex)we talk all night and lose track of time...we have not argued about anything...so we have been pretty damnn good since i told him how i felt and stormed out of our mutual friends house and told him i would stay the fuck out of each of their lives for good...now everything I said that night has us 2 completely on a good note...he says he never knew i felt that way and that he was hurtin me that bad and that he would try to be there more because he does not wanna lose me and that he is not goin anywhere...he is just worried about his case that goes to trial...but if you know how you feel and you enjoy bein with him just do that it will be ok ....he shows you he doesnt care to see how much you do and if you will be able to be there for him even though he is not being much of a friend to you right now
I expressed myself to my virgo and he responded by actin the same way yours did....I seen he wasnt initiatin conversations like he used too..make plans and break em.. but that is one of their test.....P-Angel says her husband virgo didnt act anything like this ....does that mean you and your virgo knew eachother pretty well b4 you got deep with eachother....
cause now, my virgo comes around more calls and says the sweetest things....tikki33.and. p angel said it was only a fwb thing but he has said exactly what i needed to hear about what is goin on and it certainly is not that ....
when mine tested me...bein direct about what ever was the best cure cause he responded to that very well...because now i have proven results that it is ok..to be direct and express your feelings dont ask about his (that will only aggitate him)let him come to you with how he feels...Believe me ,you will hear his thoughts of things in due time...just be positive to him ...dont express negativity ...the moment he senses that, it will be an even longer process...my virgo..he comes nowevery other night(not even to have sex)we talk all night and lose track of time...we have not argued about anything...so we have been pretty damnn good since i told him how i felt and stormed out of our mutual friends house and told him i would stay the fuck out of each of their lives for good...now everything I said that night has us 2 completely on a good note...he says he never knew i felt that way and that he was hurtin me that bad and that he would try to be there more because he does not wanna lose me and that he is not goin anywhere...he is just worried about his case that goes to trial...but if you know how you feel and you enjoy bein with him just do that it will be ok ....he shows you he doesnt care to see how much you do and if you will be able to be there for him even though he is not being much of a friend to you right now
Posted by HighTidePosted by piranhaparadiisePosted by PurrrrHissss
water signs at least will think *you didn't care about me for the almost 20 years so why start now...?!
As a Cancer, I find it flattering if someone would do that. Means I had a lasting impression. I contacted someone after not seeing them for 14 years and told them how much I liked them. They never knew back in the day or else they would have responded positively. But each situation can be different to the crab
yes but your situation is totally different to this situation...
everyone is being told to write something...it isn't self motivatedclick to expand