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Posted by LadyScorpP
Hello *wasteoftime* Pisces are the best (in my opinion, now fellow Scorpios don't kill me), as for your advice so it is a gamble isn't it. I guess I shall continue living my life and see.
oh*piranhaparadiise* how lucky, to find someone where you can be just you, don't we all look for that sometimes.
*Nefer*!!! You are here, happy to see surfacing. I guess you agree that either it is or is not, as I figured the risks were.
*ReallyNiceAriesPerson* well it will be hard to put all us Scorpios in one whole group, but no I have no intention to drive him completely insane, I did what I did because I wanted to be honest and come out clean. It was an attempt if it does not work, I do know when to let go, if I truly cared enough I would let him go in that case, if wanted it I would let him go (because if you really loved someone you would want them to be happy whether they are with you or not) I am not stupid enough to bump my head into a man if he had expressed he has no interest in me, if it were the case I would not spend the time I did to write out this letter, cause it would not be worth the effort.
No, wasn't implying that you were trying to drive him insane. It was a grand sweeping generalization based on a few recent incidents...but that's another story.
I understand what you are saying in your tome. If I may make another generalization - I find most Scorps very intense - intensely so in fact, and that is how I found your letter. Intense man.
And that is cool for me to read, but I am not your target audience.
You might want to revise it just a bit. Tailor it for the reader.
Not suggesting you expurgate it down to the Aries version I gave you last night, but I would try to hit him with the headlines rather than bombard him with the whole opera.
3rd decan gem here...yea emotions and relationships with people are difficult,people are so demanding..
Sometimes for periods i dont want to interact so much..people think im mad or something,also im not often the one to contact someone,im glad if someone wants to chitchat,but i really dont have the urge to start any conversations and some get annoyed they say "why is it always me who starts the conversations" "aa she thinks she is something since she dosnt write to me now ill show her and ignore her and lets see a rection"
what they dont understand is that its nothing personal,im just analysing life into pieces in my own head.
And to answer a question like "what are you thinking?" is impossbile,i have my personal space and my most inner thoughts i share with very few people so why the hell should i tell someone what i am thinking?
Sometimes i end up in the Gemini shadow " The plotter" as described in the Liz Green book
"The Plotter is Gemini's paranoid shadow. He's a plotter not because he plans things against others, but because he's convinced everyone wants something from him, and he works out long convoluted ways of not giving it, whatever it might be.
This is a really difficult face of Gemini to deal with, and it stems from his sense of emotional alienation. Because he has a problem relating through feelings, he often can't trust; and he'll deny even the simplest confidences to another person because he's convinced that, if you know to much, you've got control of him.
Gemini at best is playfully evasive, and doesn't like a lot of prying and probing. Gemini fallen into his shadowy side is extremely difficult, because he's capable of being extremely hurtful and using the pointed darts of his nimble tongue to shame you into silence when all you were doing was showing interest.
He often tries to analyse life to pieces in the hope that he'll be spared from hurt, and develops a profound mistrust of other people's motives."
And i sometimes pause life and just read some very simple quotes and somehow find answers in them..for example
they move on because they are humourless,
demanding monogamists who don??t understand that you can ???lurv?? someone
without any sense of commitment
im not lost,im on adventure
Heart, we will forget him,
You and I, tonight!
You must forget the warmth he gave,
I will forget the light.
Some stars shines 4-ever... Even on a Cloudy night.
Each betrayal begins with trust
Sometimes for periods i dont want to interact so much..people think im mad or something,also im not often the one to contact someone,im glad if someone wants to chitchat,but i really dont have the urge to start any conversations and some get annoyed they say "why is it always me who starts the conversations" "aa she thinks she is something since she dosnt write to me now ill show her and ignore her and lets see a rection"
what they dont understand is that its nothing personal,im just analysing life into pieces in my own head.
And to answer a question like "what are you thinking?" is impossbile,i have my personal space and my most inner thoughts i share with very few people so why the hell should i tell someone what i am thinking?
Sometimes i end up in the Gemini shadow " The plotter" as described in the Liz Green book
"The Plotter is Gemini's paranoid shadow. He's a plotter not because he plans things against others, but because he's convinced everyone wants something from him, and he works out long convoluted ways of not giving it, whatever it might be.
This is a really difficult face of Gemini to deal with, and it stems from his sense of emotional alienation. Because he has a problem relating through feelings, he often can't trust; and he'll deny even the simplest confidences to another person because he's convinced that, if you know to much, you've got control of him.
Gemini at best is playfully evasive, and doesn't like a lot of prying and probing. Gemini fallen into his shadowy side is extremely difficult, because he's capable of being extremely hurtful and using the pointed darts of his nimble tongue to shame you into silence when all you were doing was showing interest.
He often tries to analyse life to pieces in the hope that he'll be spared from hurt, and develops a profound mistrust of other people's motives."
And i sometimes pause life and just read some very simple quotes and somehow find answers in them..for example
they move on because they are humourless,
demanding monogamists who don??t understand that you can ???lurv?? someone
without any sense of commitment
im not lost,im on adventure
Heart, we will forget him,
You and I, tonight!
You must forget the warmth he gave,
I will forget the light.
Some stars shines 4-ever... Even on a Cloudy night.
Each betrayal begins with trust
Its just that i cant fake intrest in people,i can be social and pollite but my god you have to be something special to be let into my personal sphere.
People see me as shallow,angry,short tempered,tough (or trying to be tough),angry and so on.
And yea im a female.
People see me as shallow,angry,short tempered,tough (or trying to be tough),angry and so on.
And yea im a female.
i am exactly that way,when im intrested in someone and they play their fucked up slow ass games i dont have the patience for it,it makes me nuts,i remain impatient for a while but soon i get bored and realise that the person cant keep the pace with me.
Also the genuine intrest in that person also fades,because when they start playing those games i dont really want to know nothing because im intrested it just becomes a game for me to say something "provocing" or something to make that person respond fast.hahaha and when they respond fast i turn and respond soooooo slow,if at all.
Also the genuine intrest in that person also fades,because when they start playing those games i dont really want to know nothing because im intrested it just becomes a game for me to say something "provocing" or something to make that person respond fast.hahaha and when they respond fast i turn and respond soooooo slow,if at all.
Personally speaking, I've always had decent relationships with both Cancers and Pisces, but I ended up getting bored.
Scorpio women were great, too. In retrospect, I didn't get bored with them, but we ended up in mutual stand offs and cold shoulders too often. Lots of unnecessary and easily avoidable drama, too.
Leo females were great physically, but the rest didn't click long term. Sucks, really. They were motivated, successful and intelligent. It just wasn't working though.
*drops two cents*
Scorpio women were great, too. In retrospect, I didn't get bored with them, but we ended up in mutual stand offs and cold shoulders too often. Lots of unnecessary and easily avoidable drama, too.
Leo females were great physically, but the rest didn't click long term. Sucks, really. They were motivated, successful and intelligent. It just wasn't working though.
*drops two cents*
Ooh Salem sounds cool. Have you been there for Halloween lildol? Also do they do the big celebration on Monday (Oct 31) or will it be on the weekend right before?
What about wearing tights Claire?
Happy Birthday OP3
Cancer Rising: The planet Saturn rules your Seventh House. Capricorn on this cusp brings you connections that are karmic. You may feel a certain fated quality about your relationship. Connections often involve someone much older or younger than you. Relationships often are formed for the purpose of practicality with a business as the backbone that supports the relationship. Conventionality and tradition are important with this placement. Building a home and creating a family together are often priorities. Partners tend to be ambitious, authoritative and hungry for status in the outer world.
This hasn't been the case at all, quite the opposite.
This hasn't been the case at all, quite the opposite.