cancer guys
Posted by Maddy
Leave him alone, and yeah cancers like a strong woman who is independant and confident and who will not put up with their shit. I've been with a cancer for 3 years now, I'm moving in with him in a week. It was hard in the beginning, hot/cold, push/pull, unpredictable at times. He would disappear for days, and then come back like nothing happened. They don't open up easily, they need to feel secure and they will test you to make sure you will stay with them no matter what.
I'm a gem and I'm very straight forward with him, when he disppeared I did too, I would ignore his text, his phone calls and he would end up at my house. So basically don't contact him firt, let him to the do work, the more you push the more he will shell. Don't let him see yo sweat over him, get busy, life your life like you always did. Don't take shit from him and trust me he will respect you for it. Just be honest. If his behavior bothers you let him cuz if you don't he's going to think it's acceptable to do it.
Learned the hard way.
Good luck
thank you so much.
i can definitely relate to the inconsistency...and he has pretty much said that he is testing me...
i do find that when i get frustrated and tell him off, he usually comes back nicer than if i'm upset and hurt and asking for reassurance.
i am going to try and do what you suggest....but, i honestly don't know how long i can handle this if he doesn't realize that i am sincere in my feelings
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Or do you tend to get irritated with people when they act like asses and they swear they're not being an ass? I get especially disappointed when it's my boyfriend...a Gemini.
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Beautiful!
You don't know what the fuck I do. I don't have to prove shit to you or anybody else. QUOTE ME THEN since you know so damn much. I don't need to sugar coat shit for nobody because I don't know nor do care about what strangers think on a damn blog. Get real boy.
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@virgoking
So are you saying that RealTalk doesn't have the right to give her opinion or "call someone out" as you put it, because she hasn't been here that long, and only P-Angel and Tiki (who neither are Virgo women btw) can, when the OP posed a question about a Virgo woman on the Virgo board?
And I'm not saying that non-Virgo women can't respond to these inquiries, but just trying to understand your logic.
I can tell you just jump into the convo with out reading but ill sum it up for you. Anyone can call who ever they want out I said its funny how women not just real talk will call out a man. For the same bs women do everyday complaining about men. Like women do all the time he moved to fast and scared her off its funny how when a women does that they will get sympathy but not men. And ms so called real say she calls out women all the time when they do the same bs which is a lie she only call women out when she is being attack. I mostly read all the women blogs about why my man left not just the virgo ones because it amuse me. And every time you will see p angle and tiki come in and tell it like it is. Everyone else like to sugar coat it. Now any body can say what ever they feel like im not the dxp god but I will call it like it is every time.click to expand
Actually, I read the thread in its entirety but I honestly couldn't really understand what you were getting at, but thanks for clarifying.