After you confess that you like the cancer guy?
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As far as the cancer guy I'm 'interested' in goes: whatever happened, happened. Although he said to me on the night (and I totally agree with you on "listen to what they say to you, they tell you from the very beginning") he didn't want more, his actions and the way he treated me that night and after showed me he was at least a good person who may be worth pursuing as a friend. We all want good people in our lives, and although I fully comprehend he is just a normal guy who enjoys playing the field, there is a separate side to him which showed through, and I want to get to know THAT guy -- as a friend. I told him the very next day he didn't have to worry about me wanting anything emotional from him because of my commitment issues, I did tell him I very much needed friends as I am new in this city and he seemed like someone who would make a good friend and that I wanted to get to know him more for that. His answer was that "friendship is what matters anyway".
So now, I ask again: he has been quiet and I have extended invitations and he has declined for valid reasons. He is friendly to me when I get in contact with him and seems very much open to being friends, but he just doesn't initiate contact. Should I let go of my pursuit in establishing a 'friend relationship' with him or sit tight?
If he's a typical cancer, maybe he's sussing it out silently from all angles like they are famous for. Just to make sure I'm not trying to creep my way into emotional stuff or whatever...
As far as the cancer guy I'm 'interested' in goes: whatever happened, happened. Although he said to me on the night (and I totally agree with you on "listen to what they say to you, they tell you from the very beginning") he didn't want more, his actions and the way he treated me that night and after showed me he was at least a good person who may be worth pursuing as a friend. We all want good people in our lives, and although I fully comprehend he is just a normal guy who enjoys playing the field, there is a separate side to him which showed through, and I want to get to know THAT guy -- as a friend. I told him the very next day he didn't have to worry about me wanting anything emotional from him because of my commitment issues, I did tell him I very much needed friends as I am new in this city and he seemed like someone who would make a good friend and that I wanted to get to know him more for that. His answer was that "friendship is what matters anyway".
So now, I ask again: he has been quiet and I have extended invitations and he has declined for valid reasons. He is friendly to me when I get in contact with him and seems very much open to being friends, but he just doesn't initiate contact. Should I let go of my pursuit in establishing a 'friend relationship' with him or sit tight?
If he's a typical cancer, maybe he's sussing it out silently from all angles like they are famous for. Just to make sure I'm not trying to creep my way into emotional stuff or whatever...
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No ours is different we love beige around each other he is always inviting me to hangout with him and his friends... I know he likes me bc everytime I'm around he is always staring at me... And we have this hot and cold combo... Like well let it go but then well get back together is weird... Like rift now we had a lil fight bc I freaked out but it never stops I know sooner or later well be together again... We never officially dated... I thought he was more assertive but right now I'm realizing he's just like me hides everything bc he is scared to get hurt... And for example on fb he likes everybody things he comments on every girls status and pictures... But he is never on my fb... I feel he dowdy bc he thinks if he does I'll know he likes me... It's like he fliers and has te audacity to invite and take any girl on a date but me... But I wonder if itsbc he really doesn't care of bc he is scared of me bc he actually likes me?
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A Scorpio pulled me in once by looking my way, then just looking away smiling. I seriously wasn't able to resist, or rather, I just didn't want to.
When we look into each others eyes is like everything stops... I feel vulnerable I feel like he can see right through me
any gemini guy been wit a taurus girl?hav any advise?pros n cons?im 17june,shes 5may
The guy you have dated for six months has a young baby born couple months after you guys start dating....When you approach him about it he didn't deny it his excuse is that he wanted to tell you but he was afraid that he would have lost you and you mean alot to him and that they baby came into play but that doesn't mean life ends...Take into consideration he has been of great help to you in any way he can... What would you do ??
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Posted by piroglesicPosted by brianafayPosted by piroglesicPosted by impresswhoPosted by piroglesic
he's an inbred retard.
LOL, wtf. Where do yall come up with these things...
I do not comply to any norms when it comes to educating this pathetic little sagitarianshittymaniac .
Who does that cornhusker, milk drinking, white bread eating motherfucker think he is?
Basically he's one stupid little motherfucker to me .
trollin?
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LOL whatever bro
We don't have power struggle... Bc I'm ok to let him lead after all he is the man and I'm the lady... I will only backdown to someone that I kow is more powerful than me and I know he can "protect me" So I let him do it... We are actually very similar...and it feels like we have thelephathic powers we say te same things at te same time or talk abot the same stuff... We also have the
Same interest I'm a scorp sag that's prob why we get along so well
Same interest I'm a scorp sag that's prob why we get along so well
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Aries Sun Taurus Rising
You are magnetic and vital with considerable energy. Even though you may piss people off, most times you can use your considerable charm to get out of an impossibly difficult situation, you're one of those people who can usually get away with almost anything. Don't press your luck, however; it could run out.
You have tremendous natural business sense and should rise high in the corporate structure which you have great admiration for and faith in. Any business that you personally start, based on your creative interest should also meet with considerable success.
You are strong both physically and emotionally; and a person who seems laid back but is actually very intense. You are very opinionated and can be a powerful fighter when it comes to your point of view or if someone threatens you. (Boy howdy am I). As a general rule you are more self-centered than most and not that too considerate of others.
Your energy needs constant dissipation and long outdoor exercise is recommended. This natives sexual expression may not always be along conventional lines but is substantial. The home is particularly important to you and probably reflects considerable work. You might really like living on a horse ranch.
In love and relationships you are active, intense, loyal and passionate. This Astrological placement makes for an especially strong female's horoscope; one who rules her roost. A family and children are indicated.
You are magnetic and vital with considerable energy. Even though you may piss people off, most times you can use your considerable charm to get out of an impossibly difficult situation, you're one of those people who can usually get away with almost anything. Don't press your luck, however; it could run out.
You have tremendous natural business sense and should rise high in the corporate structure which you have great admiration for and faith in. Any business that you personally start, based on your creative interest should also meet with considerable success.
You are strong both physically and emotionally; and a person who seems laid back but is actually very intense. You are very opinionated and can be a powerful fighter when it comes to your point of view or if someone threatens you. (Boy howdy am I). As a general rule you are more self-centered than most and not that too considerate of others.
Your energy needs constant dissipation and long outdoor exercise is recommended. This natives sexual expression may not always be along conventional lines but is substantial. The home is particularly important to you and probably reflects considerable work. You might really like living on a horse ranch.
In love and relationships you are active, intense, loyal and passionate. This Astrological placement makes for an especially strong female's horoscope; one who rules her roost. A family and children are indicated.