cancer guys
Posted by Maddy
I could share with you how to get them to follow you like a puppy dog tho...just don't give in to them and don't show you're that interested. Be nice and just treat em like a friend. I've had a lot of cancers come to me that way and beg for something more. Poor things :/
This is true for any man not just crabs. You don't give them attention they chase you, soon as you give in you're the one doing the chasing.
Yup! I guess it works easily for me with crabs cus I don't care to date them either way.
Love the profile pic btw Maddy
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And to answer your question, I am HIGHLY emotional and sensitive. I have never been diagosed with bpd or even bipolar, but I KNOW I exhibit very destructive characteristics. Especially in said relationship with Mr. Scorpio. We both nurtured the worst in each other for our own immediate gratification ... sigh ... Could you be looking for a reason as to why she acted the way she did, why she broke up with you? I can tell you that the energy between my ex and I was like poison, yet so addictive. And in that relationship, he sure acted nonchalant, while I was livid. He appeared to have no idea WHY I was upset or WHY I was hurt. I exhibit most of the bpd behaviors in some form, except suicidal behavior, gestures, or threats, or self-mutilating behavior. My point is that my ex thinks I am a sociopath! My therapist says I'm not. 
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I'm not surprised by the reaction, people afflicted with BPD do nothing wrong and feel attacked at the slightest provocation with that being said there are some women and men with BPD that actually do acknowledge the symptoms and behavior and get help to find balance. I believe that article describes the worst kind of behavior in women with BPD. Cancer females and Cancer men are wow LOL
Thank you, NS, for telling me there is a possibility he hurts over his hurting me. That does give me much comfort. I woke up yesterday pretty angry at wondering how he could be "okay" with having hurt me and not making amends and just basically going silent. I have been considering contacting him, so thanks for the encouragement.
I like hearing that you are a heavy intenal thinker. I know I am too and I def saw it in him. Being a sunny Leo, I have the typical "warm, light hearted" outlook and being deeply spiritual, I have a positive attitude 90% of the time. Being a Scorp moon AND Cancer venus, however, I do have a hard time letting go of those I love...being so sensitive and attached. Hearing how melancholic your cap moon makes you, and what a heavy burden it is to carry, gives me great compassion for you and him. That is something I simply dont know how it feels. I envy your enlightenment and just have to wonder how you becamse so wise and emotionally mature!!
I like hearing that you are a heavy intenal thinker. I know I am too and I def saw it in him. Being a sunny Leo, I have the typical "warm, light hearted" outlook and being deeply spiritual, I have a positive attitude 90% of the time. Being a Scorp moon AND Cancer venus, however, I do have a hard time letting go of those I love...being so sensitive and attached. Hearing how melancholic your cap moon makes you, and what a heavy burden it is to carry, gives me great compassion for you and him. That is something I simply dont know how it feels. I envy your enlightenment and just have to wonder how you becamse so wise and emotionally mature!!
Posted by dofacc
^^^Exactly
His processes may be different enough from mine that I really don't have any real insight. buyer beware, and all that.....
Yeah, he's like a few hours away from almost being a Pisces, so you never know lol.
I think we've gotten passed things now though, but I'm not sure if we're completely fine yet, but it's looking better at least.
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