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Sag problems are usually commitment issues.. Things should be gaining ground
Sag problems are usually commitment issues.. Things should be gaining ground
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Posted by DMVPosted by Sagittarius89
Dmv,
I'm still healing and he keeps asking to see me but I don't really wanna see him till I feel better.
I feel bad but I just kind of want to be alone.
You sound like your having a good time though! I love doing stuff like that.
i hear ya. this is something very personal. just know that he is suffering as well. even though its your body, the life was something u both created you know.
let him be there for youclick to expand
I just wish I was married to my ex right now. Weird huh?
the federal reserve has been murdering this nation and the slick fucks in Government want people to focus on Illegal Aliens when the BANKS are the ones TEARING this COUNTRY APART!!!!!
yea== i think he gets cranky too {)
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@ Westside -
I agree with you on this in a regular situation. But if you're attracted to someone and they to you, there needs to be heavy flirting and banter. Otherwise it's the friend zone. My problem is Im not sure if she is actually interested, or just running game to get a tip. Why is why I asked girls here who have bartended or know someone that does what are genuine signs of interest and not bar game. Cause I dont want to misread and become persona non grata at the bar. But thanks for your insight anyway.
@ Blueribbons -
Yeah, I always thought Megan Fox would be perfect as Catwoman in the new Batman film. Since she is actually starting to look like her. (Ladies sane, non blow sniffing men abide by the adage when it relates to a woman's appearance - "If it ain't broke, dont Joker it up")
Also its a given being that you're a good girl, bad boys will be attracted to you and you to them. I totally understand where you're coming from though. Sucks to be stereotyped which happens to me always until people get a better idea of who I am. Im essentially Harry Potter and I should be spending quality time with a bottle of lotion, and magazine on a saturday night. Not dating girls who appear in them.
But I think I've come one step closer to figuring out why I lure these gals. Found this online just now -
"Indeed, research has shown that highly assertive women, who tend to dominate others, prefer to date babyfaced, rather than mature faced men. They believe baby faced guys are submissive"
FML,I do have somewhat of a babyface. Which gives the appearance of me being in my early 20's rather then my true age which is in the 30's. And Im sure as hell not submissive, unless it's in the sack
I agree with you on this in a regular situation. But if you're attracted to someone and they to you, there needs to be heavy flirting and banter. Otherwise it's the friend zone. My problem is Im not sure if she is actually interested, or just running game to get a tip. Why is why I asked girls here who have bartended or know someone that does what are genuine signs of interest and not bar game. Cause I dont want to misread and become persona non grata at the bar. But thanks for your insight anyway.
@ Blueribbons -
Yeah, I always thought Megan Fox would be perfect as Catwoman in the new Batman film. Since she is actually starting to look like her. (Ladies sane, non blow sniffing men abide by the adage when it relates to a woman's appearance - "If it ain't broke, dont Joker it up")
Also its a given being that you're a good girl, bad boys will be attracted to you and you to them. I totally understand where you're coming from though. Sucks to be stereotyped which happens to me always until people get a better idea of who I am. Im essentially Harry Potter and I should be spending quality time with a bottle of lotion, and magazine on a saturday night. Not dating girls who appear in them.
But I think I've come one step closer to figuring out why I lure these gals. Found this online just now -
"Indeed, research has shown that highly assertive women, who tend to dominate others, prefer to date babyfaced, rather than mature faced men. They believe baby faced guys are submissive"
FML,I do have somewhat of a babyface. Which gives the appearance of me being in my early 20's rather then my true age which is in the 30's. And Im sure as hell not submissive, unless it's in the sack
hi iwin32, Thank you for your reply.
We are both Asian, so I'm not sure if I should give him a hug. Should I just give him a handshake instead? Since that's what he did to me when we first met..
When he backwards, should I stay silence, or keep contacting him (but not too much)?
I'm really not sure if he's interested in me since I saw that he has lots of beautiful ladies on his friend-list (he hid the list, but the apps of that social site doesn't hide it for him). I have no idea if i'm just one of them or not.
One thing I feel odd about him is that he's tried to tell me about what he looks for in a relationship and how he met his ex-gf and they're still in contact while I didn't ask for that information..
We are both Asian, so I'm not sure if I should give him a hug. Should I just give him a handshake instead? Since that's what he did to me when we first met..
When he backwards, should I stay silence, or keep contacting him (but not too much)?
I'm really not sure if he's interested in me since I saw that he has lots of beautiful ladies on his friend-list (he hid the list, but the apps of that social site doesn't hide it for him). I have no idea if i'm just one of them or not.
One thing I feel odd about him is that he's tried to tell me about what he looks for in a relationship and how he met his ex-gf and they're still in contact while I didn't ask for that information..
Posted by MrFirebirdPosted by happykitsune
I will admit when fall and winter roll around I go into some kinda depressed mode where I wish I had someone to cuddle with.
Now that I've been cutting off guys (that I don't want to date or have a fwb with) I feel very much lonely. I hang with friends a lot, but it's not like it used to be where friends or family could help me... I just feel like I really need someone who will hold and kiss me.
Sorry just venting :/ Maybe someone else here feels the same way. Or maybe you're one of the other 50 billion people getting in a relationship at the time. I can't even think of anyone I'd get in a relationship with at the moment *sigh*
Happy,
I want you to think about what you said.....
You said you cut off guys that you don't want to date or have a fwb(?)with.
But now you sound like one else will have you...
You have to stop and consider other people's feelings, too beside your own.
IF you don't want to feel lonely, then be a friend to someone who truly is.
This IS the lesson that many Sagittarians need to learn.
Try to visualize the life ahead of you: Do you want to be thought of as a cheap used car that's been WELL used???
Or a new car, well taken care of by the original owner?
Sure... sagittarians love their freedom but they need to learn that they CAN enjoy their freedom with someone
they love... in a lifelong companionship. Life is not about fun and games. You will always need someone to watch
out for you. Might as well make him your best friend.
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Did you mean to say "you sound like NO one else will have you" ?
I am a friend to people who truly are. I have friends. I even have guy friends. I'm not talking about a general loneliness tho. I just miss the affection..the intimate touching...I crave that from a guy. I want to find that one person I'm going to be with for the rest of my life.
Every guy I have dated has been my best friend and I will marry my best friend. Not literally my best taurus friend, but someone who understands me on a deeper level than most. I don't get in a relationship just because. I dot it with the intention of going on for the long haul.
I may be a sag, but my main influence is scorpio. I have dreams of finding my soul mate
hey guys, its been about 3 months since i started posting about this virgal..we've been pretty much dating ever since..she's been more open about who she is and has told me that she really really likes me..she has expressed to me that she feels so comfortable around me and can "be herself" and that its weird..lol idk why its so weird for her? i really want to ask her to be my gf at this point but i still don't know if she is ready for it..not too sure how to bring it up to her on where we stand..she is not seeing anyone else but me (from what she's told me)..any thoughts on this? the push and pull thing isn't happening as much anymore..but i do feel like i'm always the one making the effort to go see her and make plans..and to be honest i'm kind of getting tired of being the one to go see her all the time..whenever i ask her to come over here she always makes an excuse..its exhausting lol..feedback would be great!
Posted by DMV
just when i thought u were cool
EVERYONE gets lonely and seeks out other people to fill a void. why would u lump saggis in a category like that?
Happy is a relationship oriented lady. she obviously happier in a relationship or having male company around.
to call a woman "well used" is not very nice. sure some saggis have been around the block, but we only read a snippet of Happy's life that she chooses to share with us. there more to her that meets the eye. used or pre-owned, any man would be blessed to have her and vice versa.
thats where some of YOU OTHER SIGNS really lack in life... thinking that it all serious all the time. LIFE IS FUN & GAMES. thats doesnt mean shes hurting people left and right and not taking other peoples' feelings seriously.
Aww thanks
Yes, I do take others feelings into account, which is why I cut off some ties because I don't want to hurt those I just won't fall for. I would rather someone cut ties with me then drag on something that would never turn into a relationship. At the same token I had to cut off some ties that were hurting me as well. I have to take care of me as well
Posted by Sagittarius89Posted by DMVPosted by Sagittarius89
Dmv,
I'm still healing and he keeps asking to see me but I don't really wanna see him till I feel better.
I feel bad but I just kind of want to be alone.
You sound like your having a good time though! I love doing stuff like that.
i hear ya. this is something very personal. just know that he is suffering as well. even though its your body, the life was something u both created you know.
let him be there for you
I just wish I was married to my ex right now. Weird huh?click to expand
Which one? The old scorpio?
Wish I was married to my ex too...only I wish he was the way he'd been back when we were official. Oh how the times change people