I dated a couple of Taurean males in the past, the longest was 2 years. He had Aries Mercury, Taurus Venus, Aries Mars, Sag Moon. I don't think much can go wrong with these guys in the bedroom, they're pretty lusty folk and I think they a one of the few signs that can really appreciate a controlling woman, as they tend to be fairly posessive themselves.
I personally found sex was too straight forward, fantastic kisser though! Very sensual/sensitive/gentle, skilled with the hands; gave great massages! I'm not sure if it's a trademark, but I received boxes of roses but little depth (that was to my personal satisfaction), and sex got into a routine after awhile which killed it for me.
They seemed all too easily impressed with superficial appearance, sensual dress, perfume, etc. I don't think you have to say much really to impress them; it's more the body language and how you appear to them that seemed to count with my exs. (Unless they have alot of Gemini in their chart (especially in Mercury), then it's all talk and nothing much else)!
But if you're looking for dependable honest and straightforward husband type, with not too much drama, I'd a say Taurean man would be ideal.
"You are either a Elephant or a Bison personality. "
I'd say I am an elephant, and I kinda knew this already before I even took the test!
Aquarian and Virgo - what a pair. In the end it probably would not work. Your lack of understanding and patience will wear thin - and the old girl friend is nothing more than a friend.
I doubt if anything is going on there. My advice is to tell him how you felt. Poor sometimes dense Virgo - probably won;t get it. But explain it to him anyway.
I thought about telling him how hurt I was, but then he has a tendency to say I whine when I tell him my feelings. Another very annoying point if you ask me!! He even imitates me when I don't think I am whining at all.
I know his ex is just a friend, he's spoken of her before & I'm not jealous of that. I'm just hurt over the money thing & I should probably say something yes. But then being so new to each other I don't want him to think he has to defend everything he does or doesn't do.
I'll remain quiet - and keep asking myself why am I so very attracted to this man?
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Jan 18, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 3881 · Topics: 128
Hi Virgoluver, that's weird - your bad case of Virgo-itis sounds a bit like mine. I don't know whether you read my post a few days ago but anyway the update on it is that we had a big huge row. More correctly I got really angry and had a hissy fit at him via text messagees. I realise already that this is not the best way to reason with a virgo of all star signs. So now he is being silent and no communicative in another county in Ireland. His lack of communication is irritating me and making me itch for him and I would suggest that maybe this is what is drawing you to your virgo man when logic owuld say that is a self centred cold blooded insensitive man. This must be the case with me too. I reckon maybe it harks back to our own sense of self, ie we go for men who are gonna treat in the aforementioned way because of a lack of self confidence in ourselves.
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Hey Mr.Crabby,
Thanks for your help.I'll try to keep all of the above in mind when I am dealing with the cancer in question.Now that I know a bit more about his "bag of tricks",I think i will be able to handle him better than before.LOL
"Well, not just one, eh."
I hope you are right...not sure about that though! (kidding)
I am sorry you don't have your pisces with you now...I am sure she misses you a lot too.
Take care.
Virgo men or just men in general - when having financial woes are not apt to want to be involved with anyone. He needs to work things out for himself - and that means without your help. Virgo men pride themselves on their independence alot and are apt to be out of sync with emotions.
He probably does not mean to hurt you or make you feel bad, but at this time it's not about you - it's about him and his problems. And you don't want to be a part of his problems.
In talking to him and he gets irritated about what you are telling him - sounds like he doesn't want a lot of drama in his life. And women do seem to want the drama of what is going on within themselves.
My advice is to let it fly - step back - call him sometimes to ask how he's doing and then go on with your life. If he wants to contact you - then he will. Virgos seem to need more space than most. I have been with one for going on 4 years and sometimes it's not easy. You have to let him be who he is - and stop the dreaming about who you think he could be.
Do you love him? If you do, there is nothing you can do. This man is going to do just as he pleases, and you either deal with it - or you leave it alone.
I had to get to a level of comfort for myself in dealing with the Virgo I know. We have had ups and downs - and both of us still have a bond together - tho' it should have been broken a long time ago. I am a Scorpio - and the good has out weighed the bad most of the time, but it had had a degree of pain also.
Don't DO anything - let him do what he feels he needs to - it'll be better for you in the long run. Because if you keep trying - you'll end up being hurt.
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Wow! the tables have turned for rudeness. Sorry to hear.
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Hi Alana and Juno,
Wow...Those were great responses! I find with the Taurus Im with (moon in Cap, mercury and venus in Aries) that he was really slow working into anything other than routine sex, took a couple of months. His drive isn't what mine is but I have a strong sex drive. It seems to me with this man that he is always in a hurry to get to the end result even where I am concerned. He always makes sure I am satisfied but doesnt seem to have a huge amount of sensuality. I've never been with a man like this but it seems to continue to improve everyday. He might just not want to let go of emotion, not sure. As far as the relationship goes he is the best, makes me very happy and takes good care of me. He is not very verbal with feelings but will talk if asked. Yes, he does like dirty movies, seems to help him let go and get a bit wild. I really thank you for your honesty, it helps me understand him better. Thanks again
Sunshine...
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Virgoluver39,
Dreamy-Eyez here. I'm going to begin saying this to you. (SHAKE IT OFF!!!! SHAKE THAT S-H-*-T OFF!!!) One of my friends is a Virgo, and I feel so sorry for the women that he dated. From observation, he draws them in with all this talk about telling her "She's the one" and talking about their future together . . . then later on he comes to me and his other friends complaining about her. He creates these negative issues in his head, yet does not want to admit it to himself. He never communicates with his girlfriends honestly and then he'll just break it off with them leaving them an emotional or psychological mess. Don't let this happen to you. Obviously, he feels as if he can just tell you anything and be okay with it like some sort of doormat. I'm a Pisces male and quite frankly, I'm so sick and tired of seeing the good women getting implanted with psychological scars from those "loser a*% boyfriends" that plays with their heart and minds. Don't let that happen to you. Let him go. . . Please. Dreamy-Eyez out.