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Sep 03, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 857 · Topics: 62
STD, How did you make it do that?
Seems like I'll outlive all of you ...I'm not sure if thats such a good thing.
Thats my birthday!
I'm quite cuspy. I tend to work really hard (Aries) and relax really hard too (Pisces).
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Mar 22, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 2804 · Topics: 142
Okay...
So that's Haffo in the corner beating himself upside the head with the ball...I was mistaken. The other one is his brother beating up on his girlfriend.
Ha Ha Ha Ha
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Mar 22, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 2804 · Topics: 142
Damn Surf control won't let me do it!
Interesting topic though...Can't wait to find out mine!
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Mar 22, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 2804 · Topics: 142
Okay back to the questions....
Haffo: Definitely loved & lost...to never have loved is to be unfulfilled
Okay...My question...If you are in a disagreement with someone do you walk away or stand and fight?
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Sep 14, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 435 · Topics: 16
Thank you for your words--advice taken. Now, I looked up Alihan Samedov--this is music I must have. It is incredible. Thanks for that suggestion.
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Mar 22, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 2804 · Topics: 142
For those following my pathetic Pisces man saga...there has been a light at the end of the tunnel.
Last night he text messaged me saying "what cha doin". Bear in mind I haven't heard from this guy in a whole week and the last time we talked he made me feel bad about the babies AGAIN but later called with the "I'm confused" crap to which my response was basically "Stop playing with my head, if you want me good if not, leave me to move on with my life"
OK, so he left a series of messages before I answered...first one above then:
2. OK
3. I guess that is a hint, ha ha ha
4. No reply
Then he called, and I didn't answer (first milestone as I have only twice deliberately not answered his call, especially after not hearing from him)
So THEN and hour and a half later, I texted him with one word...Eating
Long story short (all of this in text messages) he asked could he come over, I said "I don't think you want to see me right now, It might ruin your fantasy"
Him: Y
Me: Because
Me: I had a really long weekend and a horrible last couple of days & am not in the mood for company. Sorry maybe some other time.
Him: Hardy Har Har Har
The point of this story is that I REFUSED HIM...and I felt a bit lonely afterwards, but I think all of this has worn on me so much that I am NOT going to deal with it anymore. I am tired of never having a rock, always going out of my way for him & he blows me off, and ALL OF IT! I could be dead & he never bothered to call to see if I was okay or anything. That's not love and I am not settling anymore.
I am of the belief that no matter how much you have on your mind or whatever drama you are going through, if you truly love a person, you can at least call them and say "Baby I am busy but I was thinking about you...I have to go but I wanted you to know I care." That's what, two seconds of airtime?
So I am praying for the strength to keep my resolve to NOT have everything center around him and if he is unwilling to compromise...I think I am finally strong enough to say goodbye for good. It's like that group O-Town said...I want it all or nothing at all. I still love him but I know my worth now and I won't settle for less.
Thanks for all the support to all those who helped me.
Cancerlady/CancerMamaDeuce
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Sep 14, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 435 · Topics: 16
Hi there, MellowDee. I think I understand what you are going through since my situation was similar in the beginning. Now it's almost three years later, and all I can say about it now, is that it's the best I have ever experienced--virgo men get better with time because it's about mastery I think. Whatever, he is fabulous and I am an aqu.sun, cap. rising, taur. moon. Good luck--lots of practice...
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Apr 04, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 474 · Topics: 53
I"m proud of u toooooo MAMADEUCE BIG CANCER HUG.STOOPID smileys don't work anymore,lol. BUt yes forget him u will get better treatment further down da road. He jus wanna torment u. And jus don't answer him next time das all.