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Jul 08, 2009Comments: 5 · Posts: 4081 · Topics: 4
I might not be the best example of a Pisces ex.. the Aries sounds a lot like me (my Venus) as does the Taurus (my Moon).. plus, I've never been "typical" (probably due to my extreme lack of Water in my chart.. my 4 Pisces placements are it, NO Cancer or Scorp anywhere.. which may also be why Cancers and Scorps are NOT generally good matches with me.)
Pisces as an ex (or ME as an ex, actually)- I'm the one that got away. There will be no other like me in your life. That could be good OR bad. You'll miss me, and I won't talk badly of you.. so you actually might think you have a chance when you really don't.
I'm a little sentimental, and I'll think about you from time to time.. might even miss you. And if I loved you once, I will love you forever. Maybe not LOVE love, not an active sort of love, and I likely won't act on my fleeting twinges of nostalgia.. so yeah, I probably won't be reaching out to you. What's done is done, yeah? But if YOU really want me back.. better say so, no hints, no games. Cuz I'm NOT gonna assume you do.. and your actions better match your words.. don't tell me you want to try again.. then go off with some other girl, or just go cold on me. Tell me you want me back.. and PROVE it, SHOW me how it'll be different this time.
No emotional manipulation, that'll turn me to ice faster than you can say Oh Shit. And I've been to the puppet show, I've seen the strings. Just don't do it. If you tell me you'll kill yourself, I'm more likely to offer you my sharpest knife, rather than give you what you want. Crying and telling me you can't live without me, while flattering, feels oogy.. I want someone strong, someone who CAN manage without me, but doesn't WANT to. I don't respect people who go over the top with emotions.. not anger, jealousy, sadness, even love. Have a little self-control. I'm not your rescuer or your savior.. I want to be your partner.
But that's only if I LOVED you. If I did not, game over. Go bark up another tree.
But generally speaking.. you won't get me back, esp once I heal and move on.. I don't live in the past, and exes are exes for a reason. And if me moving on and getting a new man in my life suddenly drives you crazy with jealousy and makes you realize what you lost.. good on ya. But I'm more likely to stay with my new guy in SPITE of any tender feelings I still have for you.. probably out of spite. Cuz I probably told you very clearly that you'd regret losing me, and now you have. Check and mate.