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Hi all. My story with a Cap man began about 6 months ago; we met on a dating site. He is around 49, divorced since 2 years, has a little daughter. I am 44, divorced with a grown-up son. We became intimate soon after we met and are in contact every day. My issue with him is that it seems it should be either his way or the highway. We have scandals virtually every week and the last 2 cases borther me a lot. The first case was when I called him to ask what he wanted for dinner (we were supposed to meet that evening). As eating is important to him I wanted to consult dinner with him. He turned down most options I proposed and got impatient, acused me of not being able to handle this myslef. I got angry and told him it`s ridiculous cos I am trying to please him, paying for this conversation and so on. He ended the talk by saying "Oh if it`s a problem for you then I`d better not come". I called him: no reply, texted to say I wanted to talk to him, he replied something not satisfactory in my view so we did not hear form each other for 3 days. He called on the 3rd day and I was distant but agreed to meet the next day. Then came a text: I made the first step but you seem to have organised your life without me so I`ll not call again. I was shocked as this seemed so childish and manipulative I could not believe he was able to write it. Called him and agreed to meet him the same evening as I wanted to talk about all this(a mistake I guess). When we met I realised I had deeper feelings for him than I thought and decided to go on with the relationship and see how it develops. He behaved well and demonstrated he cared by some small gestures and concessions. But then came next case. All was perfect until he began a convesation and asked for honest replies. His issue with his ex is that she was insecure and generally unhappy in his words so may be it was a check of how secure I was, not sure. Anyway he is bad with compliments and I had told him before I felt like he did not like me much. Now he wanted to know why I felt like that and I told him which words made me feel exactly that way. Then we began an argument about how complements should be made (stupid, no?). I told him I did not appreciate comments like eg "you breasts are small but I like them..." He insisted he was just honest and I had a problem with insecurity. All this resulted in a huge huge fight. The cherry on the cake was when I gave him a flavour of how I felt by asking him how he would feel if
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The cherry on the cake was when I gave him a flavour of how I felt by asking him how he would feel if I told him he was short and so on and so forth. Result was he got insulted, wanted to end up everything...
Well, we spent the evening together but I really wonder if this is worth continuing. It seems to me the man has issues.
Thank you all for comments. Would appreciate very much if tiki33 gave me her opinion.