Okay well i met himabout nine months ago i had a boyfriend he knew it we agreed we would just have a one night stand but it went further about a month later he went back to his girlfriend he stopped talking to me for about 2 mths then we hooked back up a couple times he would always say to me as soon as i give into you your gonna hurt me because your used to getting what you want . we had an episode where i almost got caught had to run out and leave him mind you he moved out of his girlfriens house and into his moms house.that's when he started acting all funny he said he wasn't ready for a relationship but he couldn't let me go every time we hooked up it was on abuddy type go to the bar thing but he would always get freaky we would have oral sex but he kept stating he didn't want to have sex. i recently found out he got his own crib and asked him why he haven't invited me over he said he didn't want women to know where he lived about two days ago he invited me over (talked, played a little) didn't have any condoms so couldn't get busy. tonight i went to his house unannouced he didn't answer the door (didn't have company) but what's up with that when i talked to him earlier he souned happy to hear from me why would he act this way. (it could be longer but i don't have the time)