OMG!
This scorpio is just awesome! Every time I'm with him I find out something else that makes him even more amazing! No red flags, complete gentleman, and respectful sweetheart.
Well that is all. I'm gonna go dream sweet dreams now
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Categorizing within 15 minutes? Sounds very scholastic and pretentious to me. What if he`s wrong? Or are they never wrong? I do not classify people and do not want to be classified back. I am more for open mindedness and positivity. But I am aries, rising leo and moon in cap
I do not know where my Cap put me from the start but for sure I do not appreciate where I am today. My problem is I opened my heart too much for him and now I have to close it which is always painful. I HAVE to close it though cuz after 6 months (him being very active all the time) I see HE has issues; HE is just not a good match for me and I cannot subject myself any more to any ups and downs or ins and outs as this takes too much time and energy and I can hardly cope with the rest of my life.
I do not know where my Cap put me from the start but for sure I do not appreciate where I am today. My problem is I opened my heart too much for him and now I have to close it which is always painful. I HAVE to close it though cuz after 6 months (him being very active all the time) I see HE has issues; HE is just not a good match for me and I cannot subject myself any more to any ups and downs or ins and outs as this takes too much time and energy and I can hardly cope with the rest of my life.
Well for starters, I am a leo and know a lot of other leos, both male and female. I was wondering where you got your info on leo traits because they sound like virgo influences not leo. The leo men I know are very, and i mean very, passionate and loving and tend to jump into relationships head first and ask questions later. They are shy about talking but very open about sex. They take their time and like to be thorough on most things but being physical is not among those. Lions may live outdoors but that doesn't mean leos are all outdoorsy. We appreciate the beauty of nature and all it entails on an esoteric level more than anything.
When it comes to the way you dress for him it sounds more like he encourages you to be androgenous so that you won't attract other men. If you don't attract attention he will not have to deal with it. Most leos will work hard not to hurt other's feelings or bash them so I'm not sure where that comes from either.
When it comes to the way you dress for him it sounds more like he encourages you to be androgenous so that you won't attract other men. If you don't attract attention he will not have to deal with it. Most leos will work hard not to hurt other's feelings or bash them so I'm not sure where that comes from either.
haha i'm all worn-out! just another morning on the subway....
LOL@be played one more time
Well you have your answer, let yourself be played ONE more time. LMFAO
He has a good point though, you can let this be your final stint with this man, if he fails you then it's time to completely move on, no more chances, no more being just friends. I personally wouldn't do it again because he's proven you are not good enough for him already and him fantasizing about being with you isn't good enough, men that encounter women that have always accepted less from them will inevitably fall into the comfortable habit/pattern of giving less of themselves as time goes on which will inevitably lead to the same old disappointing end but I'm not you and inevitably as Elle said both roads are equally difficult.
Whatever you do let him do the work, that means he has to make the plans, put his money in flying to see you, essentially his love has to match up which means he'd have to be the one predominantly doing the relationship work like initiating/financially investing if flying is involved/planning/following through to prove he's in it to win it or drop him if he can't come through for you.
Any way you look at it pain is involved, you just have to decide if you are up for it.
Well you have your answer, let yourself be played ONE more time. LMFAO
He has a good point though, you can let this be your final stint with this man, if he fails you then it's time to completely move on, no more chances, no more being just friends. I personally wouldn't do it again because he's proven you are not good enough for him already and him fantasizing about being with you isn't good enough, men that encounter women that have always accepted less from them will inevitably fall into the comfortable habit/pattern of giving less of themselves as time goes on which will inevitably lead to the same old disappointing end but I'm not you and inevitably as Elle said both roads are equally difficult.
Whatever you do let him do the work, that means he has to make the plans, put his money in flying to see you, essentially his love has to match up which means he'd have to be the one predominantly doing the relationship work like initiating/financially investing if flying is involved/planning/following through to prove he's in it to win it or drop him if he can't come through for you.
Any way you look at it pain is involved, you just have to decide if you are up for it.
Posted by intriguedbypiscesman
Hmmmm, and I'm still trying to get ONE!
You want some of them? Those are just the top crazy three that have been following me around. I seem to attract a lot of water signs. I have NO idea why either. Especially Pisces and Cancer, now Scorpio has been added.
Posted by capeecan
First off I disagree with much of the advice you were given. This guy comes from another culture. So his thinking in terms of relationships is probably different then we sillies here in the USA. It is logical for people from other "upbringings" to put family and associations first and relationship fulfillment second - here in the west we do the opposite. In fact it is seen in some cultures to be selfish to seek "self-fulfillment" through marital union instead of going with family wishes.
So I wouldn't strike this against him. Second he was born under the rule of saturn (saturn rules capricorn). If it was most of the other signs I would say the advice you got was good but this sign is often slow and methodical to the extreme. This means in his head there is like a conscious switcth that he will flip to the "relationship is all on" position, or to the "I love you but you are not the one" position. Capricorns have this kind of conscious activity going on in their heads. And once it is to the all on spot he will be all in, and he will really try to succeed with you (cappy's despise failure - so this is why they keep the switch in the "off" position until they are ready).
Capricorn rules making things materialize in reality in this world - this is what saturn rules - and this is what they do - whether they consciously say it or not - they do it. And yes they will work really hard to "materialize" things. Now, if he tells you that what he wants to try to materialize is his relationship with you. I suggest you give him this oppurtunity since you are into him.
I would agree with this had he not moved in with another woman so clearly his switch is not broken, he wasn't that into her so he opted to be with someone else, that's not a culture issue that's a I don't envision myself with you/want you issue.
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#FDS
You know this is exactly what he does! I do act very indifferent to him though. I will NOT say the L word back either because I told him he needs to earn that and WITHOUT doing his Houdini impression. I know he wants me to say it but I won't. I don't chase him ever either. I also don't act like im that into him. So I guess it's back to ignoring him. He loathes it. It's funny though the second I want attention hes like POOF. But oh no when he comes around hes like WTH! Where is MY attention??!?!?!? And gets really fucking mad about it too. I guess ill just throw him back into purgatory. Muahaaa!
You know this is exactly what he does! I do act very indifferent to him though. I will NOT say the L word back either because I told him he needs to earn that and WITHOUT doing his Houdini impression. I know he wants me to say it but I won't. I don't chase him ever either. I also don't act like im that into him. So I guess it's back to ignoring him. He loathes it. It's funny though the second I want attention hes like POOF. But oh no when he comes around hes like WTH! Where is MY attention??!?!?!? And gets really fucking mad about it too. I guess ill just throw him back into purgatory. Muahaaa!
Posted by hiplove79Posted by LadyScorpPPosted by hiplove79
Yup. I see a common theme. Fear. I have that problem big time. I get over it eventually, but in the beginning I'm the biggest wimp. Freezing, running, using humor as a diversion tactic...it's pathetic. Basically, for me, it boils down to the fear of being vulnerable. *gulp* I can look so confident on the outside, but on the inside, I'm a little girl in a corner sucking her thumb, while holding a pink blankie. I can really give the impression that I don't care because how I appear and how I feel are complete opposite from one another. Lost out on some relationships due to my fear and pride. I don't regret it anymore, but I do see them as learning experiences. But being vulnerable is something I still struggle with. That shit is painful, you know? It's like, "Become vulnerable? No thanks, I would prefer to be dumped in a vault of acid." Lol....ugh.
Lord o Lordy, am I your long lost twin. you have just described me to a T, girl. Freeze, run, laugh...rinse and repeat. My blankie is also pink, what a co-inky-dink. I have learned, though, that being vulnerable is a HUGE strength, not a weakness. I have reaped many rewards when finally becoming vulnerable. Just grit your teeh and say whatever it is in your heart you want to be known. Its worth it.click to expand