What Do You Feel You Bring To The Table?
Posted by CLCNY30
This can be for any sign (please do list your sign before you answer), but I'm really interested in seeing what other Virgos (both male and female) have to say about who they are in relationships.
What do you think you bring to the table? What do you think you can offer your partner--mentally, physically, emotionally, sexually, etc.?
What do you think you just can't do? I mean, we all know our limitations (or at least I hope we have some semblence of knowledge as to what we just can't get with). The signs fall into place on this topic because I'd like to contrast and compare the more romantic/nurturing posts with the harsh/curt posts.
I believe one has to have a strong foundation before you can bring anything of value to the table, because if not, it's just going to come crashing down. For myself, I'd have to say confidence & happiness first because a man just loves that, no matter how you look visually. If you're not confident & happy within yourself, a man can easily catch that vibe & he will go in for the kill. Support, I will support him in any thing he does, as long as it's not outlandish or extreme. I won't ever belittle him or kick him when he's down...just not my style , I'd get out of the relationship if it has reached to that point. I also won't nag him about every little damn thing. That's just annoying as hell & I hate it when it's done to me.
I require space as well. I can't stand someone who wants to be up my ass 50-11 times a day. Seriously? I love freedom, even in a relationship. Doesn't mean I'm going to cheat, just means I need to have a secure partner who trusts me & not question my every move.
When I love, I LOVE, and there is no putting out that flame, unless the relationship didn't work out & I just moved on. But the fire will burn for him always. Sex? hahahahahaha!!! No holes barred!!! I love everything!!! I will completely drain him of ALL of his love juice, & want more...There is nothing I won't do to satisfy him. Again!!! As long as it is not totally INSANE!!! I will fulful his fantasies...
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And just to add we spend about 5 days a week together.
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***** I meant Limp Dick but that is probably flattering him.
Limp Dink it is!
Limp Dink it is!
yeah, i'm going with the other two ladies. a little respect goes a long way. if he's so down in a hole he can't give you the heads up, that's not much of a guy. at best, he's a poor communicator, at worst he's a double-crosser and his multiple dating wires got crossed.
either way, you don't have to excuse him. think about his actions...toss the words out. this guy's in a position where he holds all the cards and you're out in the cold wondering what the problem is. wonder no more. focus on your stuff and if he drifts back into the picture, see if you feel like hearing him out.
either way, you don't have to excuse him. think about his actions...toss the words out. this guy's in a position where he holds all the cards and you're out in the cold wondering what the problem is. wonder no more. focus on your stuff and if he drifts back into the picture, see if you feel like hearing him out.
Posted by plushyfishff
Green tree frogs
Is this true? Because I had a guy friend who was petrified of frogs and toads. We were doing landscaping in Florida, so we saw plenty.
water snakes
getting stuck in a small space
long-term jailing
amusement park rides that leave you staring straight down at the ground
my situation wasn't full on abuse, it was emotional. threats, intimidation, hands at my throat, that type of thing. i have a warped sense of loyalty. i like to stick things out with people and give them chances.
i never wanted a relationship like that and when i found myself in one it was easy for me to wake myself up. a person can only do to you what you allow them to.
majority of abusers are weak, callous. manipulative cowards. there's nothing to fear and they rely on the illusion of fear to keep a person where they want them-under their control.
i never wanted a relationship like that and when i found myself in one it was easy for me to wake myself up. a person can only do to you what you allow them to.
majority of abusers are weak, callous. manipulative cowards. there's nothing to fear and they rely on the illusion of fear to keep a person where they want them-under their control.
haha nope not Leo!!
Only one sign can say something like that and get away with it
Only one sign can say something like that and get away with it
pisces?
Large bodies of water
Heights
Any saw
Violent Death
Endangerment of a loved one
Giving up
Heights
Any saw
Violent Death
Endangerment of a loved one
Giving up
I thought I was the only person that had a limit on what I'd comment on, even in arguments. Its exactly the same, thx, things people can't change is completely off limits.
no, you're probably right...i just always thought the physical aspect would be more traumatising/harder to stomach.