Thanks Astro, for all of your comments, and you are right, when seen in black and white, yikes!!!
I know I can and must move forward with my life,minus him! Thing is, he's not arrogant, he is very
kind and caring, when he is in that mode, otherwise, he can ice me out like the hugest ice berg in the ocean!
and yes, no doubt at all, he pushed his x to do what she did, and i've told him that on more than one occasion.
thanks again, i will let our chat sink in more and more each day.
Have a great day!