Aqua male in love
Posted by WaterCup
@nikki..yeah i get the scent sumtimes, but it's usually a quick whiff, kind of 'ghostly'. Funny that u mentioned sensing female presence in his life & him telling u that noone's like u bcoz all those happened to me also. All these yrs i sensed when he was in a relationship & when it ended, even the current 1, i know she is not for him. Also the weight thing is so true, if u read other ppl's stories it pops up a lot. Do u get the LEGENDARY night time heart pulls?-the heart feels like it wants to jump out, followed by the feeling of breath being taken away.lol sorry if i'm scaring anyone.
Water-You have gotten the "scent"! YEH! I am not the only one! I have only, once and like I said, it wasn't his cologne-it was HIM! It came and went when I was with a friend out for coffee. I asked her if she smelled it to, and she told me no. Its the same friend who "knows" things herself. Do you know how we can tap into our abilities? A book maybe, a video? Anything to develop our 6th sense would be greatly appreciated!
No woman is meant for my ex, but me. I know it sounds very standoffish but it is sooooo very true!
I need to read more on the sites you mentioned! Do you have anymore?
As for heart pulls, I feel them, I beleive. My heart ACHES for him? Is that is? Otherwise I feel it hurting. Like it wants me to act/do something but then I don't. It physically hurts me.
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OMG Just leave the dude alone. Do you really have to be confused about this man, he's being pretty clear about his intentions. If he's this much of a douchebag long distance he'll be an even bigger douchebag close up and personal. And why isn't he coming to see you instead of you investing in him by going up to see him? There is no investment on his part and as long as he's not DOING the investing he'll mistreat you.
Were are the obstacles for him to climb to get you in his life, no obstacles to climb mean no falling in love with you. You both should be winning, right now he's the only one winning and that creates a deep rift between the both of you b/c you are not "INSPIRING" him to want you.
Men value what they have to put efforts into so when you cause a man to put more effort into the relationship that??s the kind of work MEN ENJOY. When a woman is desperate she tries too hard. She gives too much. She demeans her value in the hopes of getting something she wants. IT NEVER WORKS!! He will USE you but he will not be around much longer when he has to either give back.
Men will treat a woman the way they feel the woman will be willing to be treated and if you accept his cheating by rewarding him he'll continue to cheat.
Desperation is the feeling that you get when you just have to have something, that man, that job, that dog and if I don??t get what I want I will be miserable. Men give more when they sense a lack of need and a lack of desperation but neediness will run a man off in a second.
Use stubborn-ness in the face of desperation, just refuse and be determined not to be desperate, your mind is made up and your sticking with it. Don??t be desperate--be determined, refuse in anything that frames you in a negative way, whether it comes from yourself or from someone else.
You are trying too hard, let him come up and see you,let him DO some of the relationship work or he'll continue to treat you with apathy and not care about how his behavior is effecting you.
Why in the hell would you spend your money, gas, energy going back up to see him when "doesn't deserve it" you are literally "REWARDING" him for his bad behavior which gives him the green light that he can cheat, he doesn't have to "give" back to you through affection and nice gestures and you'll chase him for a relationship anway. Who does that? Just stop it, you can't be that desperate to keep him in your life.
Were are the obstacles for him to climb to get you in his life, no obstacles to climb mean no falling in love with you. You both should be winning, right now he's the only one winning and that creates a deep rift between the both of you b/c you are not "INSPIRING" him to want you.
Men value what they have to put efforts into so when you cause a man to put more effort into the relationship that??s the kind of work MEN ENJOY. When a woman is desperate she tries too hard. She gives too much. She demeans her value in the hopes of getting something she wants. IT NEVER WORKS!! He will USE you but he will not be around much longer when he has to either give back.
Men will treat a woman the way they feel the woman will be willing to be treated and if you accept his cheating by rewarding him he'll continue to cheat.
Desperation is the feeling that you get when you just have to have something, that man, that job, that dog and if I don??t get what I want I will be miserable. Men give more when they sense a lack of need and a lack of desperation but neediness will run a man off in a second.
Use stubborn-ness in the face of desperation, just refuse and be determined not to be desperate, your mind is made up and your sticking with it. Don??t be desperate--be determined, refuse in anything that frames you in a negative way, whether it comes from yourself or from someone else.
You are trying too hard, let him come up and see you,let him DO some of the relationship work or he'll continue to treat you with apathy and not care about how his behavior is effecting you.
Why in the hell would you spend your money, gas, energy going back up to see him when "doesn't deserve it" you are literally "REWARDING" him for his bad behavior which gives him the green light that he can cheat, he doesn't have to "give" back to you through affection and nice gestures and you'll chase him for a relationship anway. Who does that? Just stop it, you can't be that desperate to keep him in your life.
LOL @ mopped. This is fun.
Ok, so we're on the same page with the fish and the bulls....how 'bout the goats?
OMG!!!! I forgot to tell you girls that I met this fione dark chocolate on Saturday:
Mekhi Phifer - Cap. Yep! Good lord *grabs church fan*
I went to see a play called "Venus in Fur" and he was rehearsing for his broadway play "Stick Fly". He smiled so sweetly and I just waved. *Sigh*
Ok, so we're on the same page with the fish and the bulls....how 'bout the goats?
OMG!!!! I forgot to tell you girls that I met this fione dark chocolate on Saturday:
Mekhi Phifer - Cap. Yep! Good lord *grabs church fan*
I went to see a play called "Venus in Fur" and he was rehearsing for his broadway play "Stick Fly". He smiled so sweetly and I just waved. *Sigh*
Don't go up and see him, don't keep mistreating yourself this way...Save your energy, do you really want to go up to see him and put up with being treated so poorly? You deserve better than that, you deserve to be treated better than that and you know it. Stop subjecting yourself to his crumby treatment, save your money, gas, time, energy, stay home and go out with your girlfriends, go do something fun that will add value, love and happiness to your life.
Posted by StandOffThis
Interrupted during my rant (had an AWESOME point to make), lost train of thought..lol.
LOL, I understand. Sorry for hijacking your thread.
^^^I'll say. 
Keep being a challenge, you are not easy to get like so many women are these days and he love that kind of challenge, keeps him in touch with his masculinity, you are someone he can trust...He's falling in love and he'll keep falling as long as you are not doing anything to intentionally hurt him, he'll stick around longer.
Posted by VirgoVixxxen
LOL @ mopped. This is fun.
Ok, so we're on the same page with the fish and the bulls....how 'bout the goats?
OMG!!!! I forgot to tell you girls that I met this fione dark chocolate on Saturday:
Mekhi Phifer - Cap. Yep! Good lord *grabs church fan*
I went to see a play called "Venus in Fur" and he was rehearsing for his broadway play "Stick Fly". He smiled so sweetly and I just waved. *Sigh*
Awwwww!! Did you!! I'm jealous!!!
Oooooooh I probably wouldv'e had a mini-orgasm!!! I didn't know he was a cap? Sexy man...I love cappies!
Posted by StandOffThis
I see why as well and you misunderstand, "a $ $ "..is my term of endearment for him..
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very cool letter, Elle. Your mom was cool to send it to you....
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