Thanks for the replies..yes..even yours Olsskool! Haha!
Hiplove and Lou..thanks. :0)
Oh! I'm fairly crazy about him..in a Pisces way....
Which means that I know exactly where he is in the office and feel the presence..big time..I know he feels this to though..no idea why but I just know. I'm shy..I think he is too.
There was a lot more I could have added to my post but..he has been flirting like a trooper..rude as well as nice..but it's on mails and texts, not face to face..which I find sweet (?) Lol!
There is no fun without flirting..in my mind.
Each time we actually talk..which is only a ride home and only 10 minutes it's usually about his house and that he has a lot going on and to do. Workwise..he is in sales and I know exactly where he is at and why the work is a killer as I do the commissions for sales. So he knows I can see anytime where he is at and it's tough out there right now in our business.
I get into the 'zone' at work and can/do look grumpy when I concentrate. He knows..to an extent and has mentioned it..but he is breaking the seal..and making me smile..only really recently though..
I like that he is just 'a guy' and isn't trying to be any different from that.
No one is perfect and neither am I.
He is forgiven for forgetting..he was very sweet and nice since and didn't do the big flirt bit..which I will mention now..he does flirt, not to the point of crude..but he flirts..and I flirt back.
In return I tease him and I am mean..in a playground kinda way..
He went quiet on me as I said in my first post....It didn't last..he was in touch again yesterday evening.
Just to ask how my weekend was going.
Friday is our Xmas party...he keeps mentioning it.
Yes..there is more to this than I posted above...and I'm still a bit stuck on whether it's just sex he is after or 'me'?
2 years seems a long time to be sweet and flirt and keep going if it's only the soft spot he is wanting??
I don't know if it's a pisces thing but I am either very shy or I just go for it..and with this guy..I think he might run if I do? I don't want him to run.
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Jun 22, 2011Comments: 0 · Posts: 2346 · Topics: 71
I think what Ely is saying is we cant shove a square peg into a round hole.....until it changes into a round peg. I read her post and applied it to my situation. We are reverse, me the moon, he the sun. Bottom line for me is if it's hurting me (or him) too much, it's not likely to be a healthy, happy relationship. As I have thought back over the last year with this man, there has been more sadness than happiness. Mainly due to his uncertainty with women. Recently divorced, still angry, unresolved issues on his part. "I" can't change that, only he can. We never know what's going on in the mind of the man to know why he does what he does, I only know that what *is* is not what is making me happy. All you, Lady S and I can do, is clear our side of the street, express our interest and leave fate up to God. Take action, surrender outcome is a good motto here.
He has hit you??
He is a waste or space.
Listen to what you would tell your sister or best friend if they told you this.
Act on it.
Walk away and don't ever go back.
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Aug 29, 2011Comments: 6 · Posts: 3351 · Topics: 102
Quite a bit, yes!
You got 78% !
Jesus that was HARD. Never heard of Succendent Houses =/
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