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Sep 30, 2007Comments: 92 · Posts: 5629 · Topics: 56
A tray of discount blueberry muffins. So glad I rescued these babies. They were planning on throwing them out! Unbelievable!
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Sep 30, 2007Comments: 92 · Posts: 5629 · Topics: 56
70% . I haven't even heard of half of the things they asked. I had a feeling they'd be sandbagging at the beginning though.
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Sep 30, 2007Comments: 92 · Posts: 5629 · Topics: 56
Costco, Ikea and then gym. Nothing else needs to be said.
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Only a Cappy would screw up this arrangement smh.
If its an open relationship, and the two women know there is another, then I don't see the problem, besides it all being a dumb idea. They both know who/what they are dealing with and their desire to continue is on them. They are both adults, but I applaud anyone showing themselves and letting their partners see them, keeping them in the know. This is what many men juggle on the daily all while telling their women they are exclusive.
Now, as far as you to think you have the luxury of deciding on what to do with them that's arrogant. I'd say let them both go and take time to figure out what will make you happy with ONE woman. This arrangement is meant to be temporary, and I'm thinking its time for you to move past it and start focusing more on your future.
I had the best talk last night with my Cappy friend. He's not in this type of arrangement, he's engaged, but he knows he's a piece of s@#* because he told me "I'm a piece of s@#*" in those exact words over the phone. In reality, he's an extremely good guy that make EXTREMELY dumb decisions and gets others involved in his mess because he hasn't taken the time out to figure out what he wants/needs. He doesn't know, but all of his best women are in his past, while he worries about his future, but he'll always reflect back because he always screwed up.
My point is, please stop making these dumb decisions. Like my ma says, a Cap male ALWAYS think its the womans fault. No, its yours, and here you are trying to blame two women.