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Sep 30, 2007Comments: 92 · Posts: 5629 · Topics: 56
70% . I haven't even heard of half of the things they asked. I had a feeling they'd be sandbagging at the beginning though.
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Sep 30, 2007Comments: 92 · Posts: 5629 · Topics: 56
Costco, Ikea and then gym. Nothing else needs to be said.
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Oct 25, 2010Comments: 2 · Posts: 8822 · Topics: 132
Only a Cappy would screw up this arrangement smh.
If its an open relationship, and the two women know there is another, then I don't see the problem, besides it all being a dumb idea. They both know who/what they are dealing with and their desire to continue is on them. They are both adults, but I applaud anyone showing themselves and letting their partners see them, keeping them in the know. This is what many men juggle on the daily all while telling their women they are exclusive.
Now, as far as you to think you have the luxury of deciding on what to do with them that's arrogant. I'd say let them both go and take time to figure out what will make you happy with ONE woman. This arrangement is meant to be temporary, and I'm thinking its time for you to move past it and start focusing more on your future.
I had the best talk last night with my Cappy friend. He's not in this type of arrangement, he's engaged, but he knows he's a piece of s@#* because he told me "I'm a piece of s@#*" in those exact words over the phone. In reality, he's an extremely good guy that make EXTREMELY dumb decisions and gets others involved in his mess because he hasn't taken the time out to figure out what he wants/needs. He doesn't know, but all of his best women are in his past, while he worries about his future, but he'll always reflect back because he always screwed up.
My point is, please stop making these dumb decisions. Like my ma says, a Cap male ALWAYS think its the womans fault. No, its yours, and here you are trying to blame two women.
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Nov 10, 2010Comments: 287 · Posts: 30828 · Topics: 650
post the degrees of the synastry
I've had so much trouble with my ex but this weekend topped it all. 2 months of no contact all was going well. However on Friday he was wAiting in a dark street for me when I was walking home from work. He gave me a letter saying he loved me so much still and I'm wrong about him. He told me he was dead inside and couldn't think of anyone else. I walked away with mixed emotions until yesterday I found out he had been sleeping with another girl just after we split. Why continue the lies?! He can't let me go and seems to want to ruin me.
I shouldn't have but I text him saying I knew about this girl and he should stop writing to me as I know it's all lies. I wanted him to know I knew he was lying as in my mind, the more I call him out, the more he wi back off knowing I know he is lying.
Last night he turned up at my house. I opened the door to him drunk and told him to leave immediately or I would call the police. He forced himself into my house and bruised my hand in the struggle, I was shouting telling him I was calling the police and he ran into my kitchen pulled out a knife and stabbed himself. Not deep enough for hospitalisation but deep enough to bleed. He did it 4 times. I have never seen such a horific ordeal ever I didn't think be was capable.
Today my family have called his parents with threats etc but I am traumatised. He's been telling awful lies about me.
I have tried to not involve the police as he is a cop but where the hell do you go from here. I'm heading towards the nut house myself. If I wZ weak he would have destroyed me before now