Do you like to chase or know where you stand?
why should I post it for you,I'm not your secretary.You really should read her posts to get a handle on this for yourself.Self exploration is good for the soul.
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Obviously. Nor after several months we he like to be that way. No matter how you slice it, that was poorly done.
Mmmm wondered the same thing myself Bling. Since you're here, coffee? Or would you prefer a green tea.
The sex has been great though, and I kinda want to play with him just for it. Oh wait, I already do. I'm just tired of it. If he does like me, why is he ruining his chances by being mean to me?
Get some rest. 
LOL I'll say, he's like...*cue X-Files music* 
I give my Taurus space too. He's actually pretty clingy sometimes, but then he'll just have his guys moments where he's all like "Rawr leave me alone." And then he'll have his bro-outs. And I'm just like, "Okay, bye have fun." And do my own thing.
I think I intimidate guys too... for whatever reason. My boyfriend when we were first getting to really know each other would often joke that he was afraid of me for certain reasons. After a while, I didn't think he was joking anymore lol. I'm fucking harmless though.
I think I intimidate guys too... for whatever reason. My boyfriend when we were first getting to really know each other would often joke that he was afraid of me for certain reasons. After a while, I didn't think he was joking anymore lol. I'm fucking harmless though.
Glad you found out early.
Before my boyfriend and I started dating, I noticed that sometimes he would just stare at me. And I don't mean like it was that obvious, but this was like, I could feel him watching me from across the room while we were at a party with friends. And even now, when together, he will sometimes just stare at me without saying a word. Or he'll stare at me after saying something or showing me something as if he's trying to gauge my reaction. It made me really uncomfortable at first, but it could melt my britches just because it's pretty sexy in a way.
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I've had guys stop speaking to me when I explained that I was converting. Some of my mother's church friends don't agree with it. It's even hard to explain to my Jewish friends the trials and tribulations of conversation. I even had a Jewish friend of mine attempt disuading me from converting. So in a way, I went into it completely alone even with the extra support. I had to make sure that I wanted this for myself and for no other reason. In the beginning, I was really sad when I started because I had no one to talk to about converting and no one seemed to really get it. But, I wanted to be Jewish, so I knew I had to keep going. In a way, I think I faced more ridicule for wanting to be Jewish than being black and a woman.
But thank you for all of your kind words, SE. In this case, they mean more to me than I can really explain lol.
In light of this topic, my boyfriend makes more jokes about me being Jewish than me being black, which is actually really funny to me considering we're an interracial couple and he probably has more black jokes up his sleeve. But he's a gentile, and the whole reason why we know each other is because we've had the same circle of Jewish friends for the past 3 or 4 years. He joked one day, "I get why you wanted to convert now. For the Jew guys." And I said to him "Yeah, the Jewish guys were the last reason I wanted to convert. I'm more of a man than they are." And he finally said "So out of all the Jewish guys you're surrounded by, you picked the secular, humanistic, gentile. The irony is great." Lol
+1 you really have to have a sense of humor tempered with self assurance about racism. I've noticed racists love to be all "negative sour ass" about the world vomiting stereotypes. I remember a racist female at school, she thought I'd be an easy target because I'm very shy and reserved during school hours. So she would make these snide racist remarks my way a few times during lunch when I was with my friends and one day I was like "Everybody watch out..Imma about to pull my Race Card out and up the defense with profiling card!" I saw her blush.
^^And yes Imma huge ass dork.click to expand
I just tend to have a sense of humor about everything, and I'm not that sensitive about much. This thread got to me a little, but then I got over it
but I agree that you have to be really self assured with topics like this. A lot of my friends know the kind of person I am, so they joke with me about things like this. They know not to really push limits, but they also know that I'm not going to flip out of them lol.