melusine, your poems are dark but i like them... where did you get this last one??
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Sep 06, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 2592 · Topics: 68
That's how i found this place.
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Haffo, I like the idea...I'm not sure it will work but there's no harm in trying...so what do you think are the main problems?
"KISS....Keep it short and simple"
LOL, So that's what the acronym stands for...I wondered about that...sweet!
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Jan 18, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 4935 · Topics: 117
Yep...gotta agree with Mr. P on this one AL....whenever ANYONE says the "friend" word, believe them, they mean it. I have told many men that all I want is to be "friends" with them and I meant it. Deep within we KNOW if we desire someone more than a friend and if we do? There is NO WAY that we would even dare mutter the "friend" word.
I wonder why the guys that I have told that all I care to be is friends do not believe me? They think they are going to change my mind? Nope - no can do. Just yesterday, I met with a long time Gemini pal who 7 yrs. ago I told him that we were only friends...he has been trying to change my mind all this time - no matter how many times I said NO to him he thought he could. Hopefully, yesterday he got the msg. Sorry AL, I did not mean to get off the topic here.
Keep focusing on the lovely you - that truly is what is most important.
Be well
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Jan 18, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 4935 · Topics: 117
Sometimes I think people try much too hard at life and figuring things out. This = problems.
I did my chart om cafeastro like Tiamat suggested. All I can say is whoa.
Zodiac in degrees 0.00 ? Placidus Orb:0
Sun Pisces 14.15 ? Ascendant Capricorn 28.04
Moon Sagittarius 1.08 ? II Pisces 9.03
Mercury Aquarius 27.06 ? III Aries 16.52
Venus Aries 12.55 ? IV Taurus 16.36
Mars Aries 6.27 ? V Gemini 10.45
Jupiter Sagittarius 10.08 ? VI Cancer 3.12
Saturn Scorpio 4.04 R ? VII Cancer 28.04
Uranus Sagittarius 9.05 ? VIII Virgo 9.03
Neptune Sagittarius 29.03 ? IX Libra 16.52
Pluto Libra 29.14 R ? Midheaven Scorpio 16.36
Lilith Capricorn 28.39 ? XI Sagittarius 10.45
Asc node Cancer 1.24 ? XII Capricorn 3.12
This would suggest lots of fire aspects. Also since venus and mars is our love/sex style , Im supposed to be attracted to Aries? Thats so true, but I also I find myself very attracted to intense, powerful men. Leo, Capricorn, Aries, Sagittarius, Gemini, Scorpio, Aquarius, Cancer and Libra have definitely captured my attentions before. Friendship wise seem to be Sagittarius, Taurus, Cancer, Aries and Aries/Taurs and Aquarius/Pisces cusp are my divine circle of reason. I dont see the correlation.
Well, thanks. I reread all the posts and I think I've made a decision (finally!). It is not a matter of me learning to be friends with him or me letting him go. Hard as this is, I'm going to try to turn the tables. HE needs to lose ME and see what it feels like. He has to have a taste of his own medicine. I've been doing the caring, nice, honest, open bit and it means nothing, so perhaps it's time for a 180. I'm not going to be mean, that's not in my nature. I will just be cool and scarce. I'll let everyone know how it goes within the next couple of weeks.
By the way, I have a theory. With him being "sort of" involved with me, and "sort of" involved with someone else...he achieves what he wants....unattainability and he gets to remain in the middle in the safe comfort zone. So if I "set him free," he may panic! He'll be like "oh my gosh what's my excuse now?" haha
Thank you!