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Sep 11, 2011Comments: 56 · Posts: 1145 · Topics: 51
What! like Neil Buchanan?
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Aug 29, 2011Comments: 6 · Posts: 3351 · Topics: 102
lol!! It's nice to see dxp is still permanently trapped in 1999
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Jan 19, 2011Comments: 2 · Posts: 540 · Topics: 11
7)If you need logic ,you have to look for it somewhere else.Logic doesn't have a place in the heart.
8)Correct yourself,,not that you"can't let go",you won't let go.See my first post .Read Susan Forwards book.
9)Talking to his ex-is like you're a detective and frankly quite wierd and very self destructive.If I were his ex,I make up all kinds of crap.They are ex's for a resason.How would you like it if someone started rifliing through your background.I bet he sees this as a big red flag to stay away from you.Not flattering in the least.Anyway what relationship that she had with him would be way different than what his new relationships will be.
10)Yes,love is mysterious,however.He knows what you want with him and he isn't responding.You've bought him drinks,you've watched him walk off with other wommen,you know he's got an addiction problem,you've texted him first,you dragged him into your bed.Uhmmm,that don't sound like love to me.
11)And the only I want you to send me is an update that something is new with you.
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Feb 09, 2011Comments: 0 · Posts: 894 · Topics: 19
So I had a little spat with this Scorp I've been seeing for the past 20 months. I've been snapping at him lately because I just have an uneasy feeling about him. Nothing big, just minor things that to me, are signs. I also wonder if this is just my fear talking, since I do love him and I've never been in love before.
Anyway, last night after our argument I told him I had a feeling he still sleeps with his son's mother. He insisted he doesn't , but after a few more questions he conceded that he DID still sleep with her when we first began going out. He said they agreed to "stop" because it wasn't helping their situation, it was only making it worse . Now when I met him I know for a fact I asked if he was dating someone, and he replied, "Right now I'm not seeing anyone.". He insists I didn't ask about her, blah blah blah but I feel like he lied then,so who's to say he isn't lying now?
I told him I respect that he is a private person, but it is to such an extreme, that it makes me paranoid. He insists with work, his son, and his properties he has no time to see anyone else and he wants to be with me. I'm calling bullshit. I remained calm, but in my mind I feel like I'm a fool to believe anything he says, after he hid his still active relationship with his son's mother in the beginning.
What do you all think? Am I overreacting?
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North Node in Aries/1th House
(also applies to strong Libra/7th House in the chart)
GOALS ??? release negative Libra tendencies and take on positive Aries qualities.
Strengthening Independence
- I want to easily find myself accepting responsibility for my own survival
- I want all unhealthy codependent tendencies totally lifted from me
- I want all resentment of other people being unfair with me totally lifted from me
- I want to consciously and consistently honour my needs for independence
- I want to easily find myself staying centred in my own identity
- I want the thought that I need others for my survival totally lifted from me
- I want to easily find myself depending on others in a healthy way that does not lead to disappointment
- I want to easily find myself establishing my own material independence
Encourage the Process of Self-Discovery
- I want the habit of comparing myself to others totally lifted from me
- I want to easily find myself honestly expressing what is true for me in my life
- I want the habit of seeing myself through others?? eyes easily lifted from me
- I want to be so centred within myself that I am not distracted by others?? perception of me
- I want to consciously and consistently view life as a process of self-discovery
- I want to consciously, consistently, be aware of my personal identity from inside of myself
- I want all self-limiting images of ???who I should be?? totally lifted from me
- I want to easily find myself following my own impulses for self-leadership
Overcome Indecisiveness
- I want to easily find myself ACTING on my impulses!
- I want all guilt surrounding fulfilling my needs easily lifted from me
- I want to easily find myself trusting my instincts
- I want all self-defeating preoccupation with ???justice?? totally lifted from me
- I want to consciously and consistently take action on my own inner impulses
- in making decisions, I want to easily find myself trusting and following my initial impulses
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Aug 16, 2011Comments: 3 · Posts: 7849 · Topics: 52
This may be an Aries woman thing. My brother who is also an Aries said guys are probably afraid to talk to you because I have this don't F wit me look on my face all the time. People often think something is wrong with me or I'm always mad. I don't smile for no reason, how Manu people walk down the street smiling? Not many, so I don't understand y on a weekly basis at least one person thinks I'm upset. Mayb it's subconscious. I do know what men want And I'm not giving it. I get approached often But I know it has to do with my looks which kinda annoys me. But I'm going to keep being me, I need a strong man who isn't threatened by my Aries nature. I will not turn into a sheep for anyone