July 22 cusp?
July 19 to July 24
Persons born on the Cancer-Leo Cusp can be a bit volatile, swinging quickly from one extreme to another. Movement of one sort or another is familiar to them; physical movement, emotional movement??_ it is all one and the same to them. They often appear shy one minute and then they are stealing the spotlight the next.
Combining Fire and Water together in a Cancer-Leo Cusp makes for an interesting study. Their vibrant energy is tempered by emotional sensitivity. In turn, their emotions are tempered by the intense ambition they have. They are graceful and strong. Both attributes serve them well.
The fastest way to success for Cancer-Leo is to even out their highs and lows. Learning to maintain stability can pay off for them in a big way. Self-discipline can be attained without losing their spontaneity. By finding their calm center, they can remain confident in themselves.
Cancer-Leo is sensitive to criticism. They may come across as so self-assured that they appear to be living in a fantasy world. They have a strong affinity to food. Imaginative in the kitchen, they can work miracles with a meal. They enjoy pleasure and social gatherings. They don't care to be alone most of the time. They are devoted to their partner. They are generous and creative in their relationships with others. They are good at empathizing with their loved ones.
The Cusp of Oscillation creates people who are traditional, nurturing, flamboyant, ambitious, sensitive, proud, creative, expressive, inspiring, cheerful, practical, romantic, passionate, realistic, generous and emotional. They may also suffer from self-centeredness, hyper-sensitivity, and have dependency issues.
Cancer-Leo may be an intellectual genius or they may be unscrupulous. They have excellent memories. They don't forget any detail??_ ever. They are fair, and will stand by both friend and foe in times of struggle. At the same time, they may have trouble letting go of grudges or slights they feel, whether real or imagined.
This sign can conflict with Cancer's need for solitude and Leo's need to be the center of attention. If they can reach a comfortable balance, they will be much happier. Since both signs are affectionate and devoted, this rarely causes disruption unless they stray from their partner. Both signs hold family dear and love to spend time in their home. While Leo can stand up to some emotional bruising, Cancer cannot.
Persons born on the Cancer-Leo Cusp can be a bit volatile, swinging quickly from one extreme to another. Movement of one sort or another is familiar to them; physical movement, emotional movement??_ it is all one and the same to them. They often appear shy one minute and then they are stealing the spotlight the next.
Combining Fire and Water together in a Cancer-Leo Cusp makes for an interesting study. Their vibrant energy is tempered by emotional sensitivity. In turn, their emotions are tempered by the intense ambition they have. They are graceful and strong. Both attributes serve them well.
The fastest way to success for Cancer-Leo is to even out their highs and lows. Learning to maintain stability can pay off for them in a big way. Self-discipline can be attained without losing their spontaneity. By finding their calm center, they can remain confident in themselves.
Cancer-Leo is sensitive to criticism. They may come across as so self-assured that they appear to be living in a fantasy world. They have a strong affinity to food. Imaginative in the kitchen, they can work miracles with a meal. They enjoy pleasure and social gatherings. They don't care to be alone most of the time. They are devoted to their partner. They are generous and creative in their relationships with others. They are good at empathizing with their loved ones.
The Cusp of Oscillation creates people who are traditional, nurturing, flamboyant, ambitious, sensitive, proud, creative, expressive, inspiring, cheerful, practical, romantic, passionate, realistic, generous and emotional. They may also suffer from self-centeredness, hyper-sensitivity, and have dependency issues.
Cancer-Leo may be an intellectual genius or they may be unscrupulous. They have excellent memories. They don't forget any detail??_ ever. They are fair, and will stand by both friend and foe in times of struggle. At the same time, they may have trouble letting go of grudges or slights they feel, whether real or imagined.
This sign can conflict with Cancer's need for solitude and Leo's need to be the center of attention. If they can reach a comfortable balance, they will be much happier. Since both signs are affectionate and devoted, this rarely causes disruption unless they stray from their partner. Both signs hold family dear and love to spend time in their home. While Leo can stand up to some emotional bruising, Cancer cannot.
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Posted by Equator
Are you saying that you feel you had conversations that touched on some raw nerve
for him and that that is what is causing him to not contact you?
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You may have asked or said something that made him uneasy and defensive.
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Yes, that is what I fear. That I said something that touched on some raw nerve. I think it started out to protect himself,from being hurt. Fight or flight. but I continued this conversation then thru a text, thinking we were conversing about it...ya know? From there forms grey areas. He then said like a final goodbye, and I was surprised because I thought we were tossing things around, ideas, solutions, etc.
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Yay! 
Posted by DazedScorp
Damn it!
Where's the Psychology board?!?!?!?!?!?!
I second this.
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con't ....I feel like it was an emotional overload for him, and from the past when I do get too sensitive, and have admitted this to him before, that this was it. It had added up for him. I always said to him I appreciated his patience with me. It's not that I was pushing it with him to see what that limit was, or taking advantage of his good graces. I realize that within myself, but for him it may feel the opposite. And understandably. I realized this after I had time too to think about things more closely, remove myself from the sitution, and then next day expressed that to him as well, that I didn't blame him for having reached his limit. But his final text from the night before he said he was done responding, and it was like done done. Over. Stay out of my life kind of feeling.
I feel like at times if I do go more into myself as a person is when he shuts down. So when that happens, it really at times did feel our existence in each others lives was only superficial, surface only. If he asks, then fine. But if I offer more things about myself on my own, then it's not good.
Not that he doesn't have a right to feel the way he does, or what he feels like he shouldn't pull himself away. Because of course he does, ya know??? I want to understand him more, and want to know these things so I can be a person in his life that is supportive of him, etc. And sometimes arguments or these types of things help make ppl understand one another more when they do happen. But what I sense is one of two things. He kept much of this to himself and wasn't honest in the past when he started feeling overloaded by me....which I admitted, and owned up to him about, and am working on that for myself....and then this was it the final straw, and why I feel it came out of left field. Or, I hit the raw nerve...like telling him about who he is or how I perceive him and he became defensive, and shot back something he knew would hurt me or make me feel questioned by him. Putting me in the same boat.
Regardless, I've heard nothing since that text. His last one. I'm a deep thinker (surprise surprise coming from a Cancer huh??? LOL) So I do reflect, and really do see other's peoples sides. When I'm wrong, I fess up. I admit to it, and have no problems genuinely apologizing. And I did that over the next few days, a few texts to explain that to him. And I didn't expect a response, but I felt though too if he realized I was sincere, he would say "hey, I get it. Need some time
I feel like at times if I do go more into myself as a person is when he shuts down. So when that happens, it really at times did feel our existence in each others lives was only superficial, surface only. If he asks, then fine. But if I offer more things about myself on my own, then it's not good.
Not that he doesn't have a right to feel the way he does, or what he feels like he shouldn't pull himself away. Because of course he does, ya know??? I want to understand him more, and want to know these things so I can be a person in his life that is supportive of him, etc. And sometimes arguments or these types of things help make ppl understand one another more when they do happen. But what I sense is one of two things. He kept much of this to himself and wasn't honest in the past when he started feeling overloaded by me....which I admitted, and owned up to him about, and am working on that for myself....and then this was it the final straw, and why I feel it came out of left field. Or, I hit the raw nerve...like telling him about who he is or how I perceive him and he became defensive, and shot back something he knew would hurt me or make me feel questioned by him. Putting me in the same boat.
Regardless, I've heard nothing since that text. His last one. I'm a deep thinker (surprise surprise coming from a Cancer huh??? LOL) So I do reflect, and really do see other's peoples sides. When I'm wrong, I fess up. I admit to it, and have no problems genuinely apologizing. And I did that over the next few days, a few texts to explain that to him. And I didn't expect a response, but I felt though too if he realized I was sincere, he would say "hey, I get it. Need some time
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