Where's my Pisces Mooners?

Signed Up: Aug 16, 2011
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Posted by aquaj
You'd have to be observant though, because I'm pretty good at putting on the appearance of confidence. Always have been. Maybe it's my moon-ascendant conflict. How I am feel inside is completely opposite of what I actively project. It's almost like selling a rotten bill of goods. I know my boyfriend must feel gypped, lol. He thought he was getting this brash, confident woman, and what he finds out after two years is that he's living with a woman who actually thinks all other women around her have more to offer (in terms of looks, personality, talent), and is just completely crippled with self-doubt.

I do feel wierd about certain things as well. Ill do kareoke but I hate dancing in public, i try to avoid clubs. But I hate it, I want to have fun and dance and be free like everyone else,I hope by 30 things will get better. I wasnt like this in HS tho, I feel like the awkwardness many people feel in their teens Im going through it now, so im optimistic it will get better.

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No one is being judgemental here. We're strangers to you so we can be more objective and offer you suggestions . We didn't "come inside" you like the irresponsible Aqua guy or got you confused and upset you by missing appointments with you. We're trying to be honest and tell it to you as gently as we can in the beginning but your story just seems weirder as time goes by. You obviously hope for something more with this guy but you keep "confusing" yourself with all these compromises. Then you end up getting defensive because if you being honest with yourself, it wasn't us that you're upset at the moment, it's the Aqua guy. So you came here hoping for some assurance, not advices and understand that but no one would be suggesting STD and stuff if it wasn't for your defensive attitude and your unwillingness to understand how dangerous it could be with the way you and him were doing. Also, yes I know you possibly a in love with this guy more than you think, that's why you ignore all the red signals he sends out and go with this one till the bitter end. For all he does, I think you're just one of the girls he's sleeping with. Don't just listen to a man's words , observe what he does. He could tell you that you're the only one, you're his queen but if that's true, you guys wont be in this position and you're here worriedand confused. To know it's truly love or just an addiction, observe your actions too. If youre not acting as your normal self and you seem to always find something wrong with the guy you're with. Listen to your intuition, you can save yourself more than you know.I'm also glad to hear you said that you'll be careful next time. Please remember that. Best of luck.
PS: Age got nothing to to with people' opinions here. I'm only a few years older than you any way. Does that make my opinions less valid? I hope not