LIFE AS A CAPRICORN-HAS THIS EVER HAPPENED TO YOU?
Signed Up: Feb 18, 2009
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I go whoaaa 360 degree turn. And this is what I get for trying to be NICE? She never said what or how I offended her but kept mentioning my educational attainment and telling me I think I am all that and with my Harvard education. I was confused and especially since I didn't go to Harvard or an Ivy League School. So tried again this time letting her know that I respect my elders and that I wish she'd afford me the same respect. She just got uglier. Ok fine I am an ADULT so I just deleted her from my Facebook page and said a prayer that she gets help.
Couple days later, someone mentions in a group I am a member of that She's grateful for my friendship and the humble, caring person I am and that she wanted to thank me for always encouraging her and having something kind to say. What happens? This woman gets upsets and attacks anyone who mentions my name for no reason at all and goes on a smear campaign. Honestly, this is baffling to me.
I just wondered if anyone else has experienced this, how people can turn on you for who you are? Do you think it has something to do with being a Capricorn? I've been told it does and that most people can't accept us for who we are.
I go whoaaa 360 degree turn. And this is what I get for trying to be NICE? She never said what or how I offended her but kept mentioning my educational attainment and telling me I think I am all that and with my Harvard education. I was confused and especially since I didn't go to Harvard or an Ivy League School. So tried again this time letting her know that I respect my elders and that I wish she'd afford me the same respect. She just got uglier. Ok fine I am an ADULT so I just deleted her from my Facebook page and said a prayer that she gets help.
Couple days later, someone mentions in a group I am a member of that She's grateful for my friendship and the humble, caring person I am and that she wanted to thank me for always encouraging her and having something kind to say. What happens? This woman gets upsets and attacks anyone who mentions my name for no reason at all and goes on a smear campaign. Honestly, this is baffling to me.
I just wondered if anyone else has experienced this, how people can turn on you for who you are? Do you think it has something to do with being a Capricorn? I've been told it does and that most people can't accept us for who we are.
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LOL I realized that. Thank you verrah much Virgo Inside. They should trademark that shit. Properly of course.
Hope you guys don't get heart disease, or colon cancer....
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Pops-Cap Sun/Sag Moon
Me-Cap Sun/Leo Moon
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This is my first time pulling up my dads chart, and first paying attention to my mothers.
Pops-Cap Sun/Sag Moon
Me-Cap Sun/Leo Moon
Sis-Virgo Sun/Cancer Moon
This is my first time pulling up my dads chart, and first paying attention to my mothers.
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With all respect, dear protector, NO you do not need to focus only on your son. THats what *I* did, and it was a form of escape because I didnt want to focus on myself. What we need to do is focus on EVERYTHING that is good in taking care of ourselves. I practice what I call "Extreme self care";
physically
emotionally
financially
spiritually
and that includes dating. Maintaining my life. If I dont, then I am neglecting that very important area of my life. My heart break is painful too but I intend to grow *through* it, not avoid it. Maybe this happened to you so you could see just how important a REAL relationship is to you and not just a once a week guy.
Dont cheat yourself. Your son will be ok when his mommy is ok. I promise.
physically
emotionally
financially
spiritually
and that includes dating. Maintaining my life. If I dont, then I am neglecting that very important area of my life. My heart break is painful too but I intend to grow *through* it, not avoid it. Maybe this happened to you so you could see just how important a REAL relationship is to you and not just a once a week guy.
Dont cheat yourself. Your son will be ok when his mommy is ok. I promise.
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Interesting perspective Moonie, thanks. And just for the record her and her sister invited me in and we all played a board game, then just the two of us watched a movie afterward. If a woman isnt showing signs of interest its not that I want to forget about them but Im not going to try and pester them into it lol... In my experience if a woman is interested you know, hesitant or not. So yeah just trying to decide if she is genuinely hesitant or just not interested at all.
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