Posted by thxbutnothx
scorsagian, maybe it's not uncommon among caps. i do not commit for commitment' sake. i do not go into any relationship bc i was dying to commmit. i start a relationship because i want to give it a chance to grow and see how well it may work for both of us. to me, it'd be unwise to commit until i feel certain that we are meant for each other after some serious ups and downs together. so anyone pushes me to commit with chains may not be happy with how it turns out