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Sep 20, 2008Comments: 1470 · Posts: 13777 · Topics: 204
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I could meet my ex's new GF now w/ no problem - but this is eight years after the fact! We ended on a good note and I wished him the best, but STILL....
He obviously thinks highly of you and values your opinion, which is great, but clearly you are not quite there yet to be meeting the new girl. And that's okay. Dont let anyone make you feel bad about that. If you value him though, dont let this come between you. Call him and just explain that you dont feel comfortable doing that but wish him the best w/ her. Just be honest.
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Sep 30, 2011Comments: 712 · Posts: 13125 · Topics: 157
Dreamer, we do KNOW, lol. Remember thats our catch phrase, its not 'i dont know', so who are we to go against that, huh? But i do agree with u, the are indeed subtler ways to deliver the 'knowledge'. And ur right again, aries do think they know it all, im married to one so i should know- the truth is they dont, WE do dammit!!
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Jul 08, 2009Comments: 5 · Posts: 4081 · Topics: 4
OMG why has no one warned this girl that most Pisces don't care for phone/texting? It's a rare (Airy?) Fish that is into it. I mean, we'll DO the damned thing, we are ABLE.. but you'd better believe that we'll often "fall off the face of the earth".. yes, even in the middle of a text convo.. ESP a superficial chitty-chat text convo. Just about the ONLY ones whom we regularly use electronic means to communicate.. it's our love interest, someone we are willing to set aside our dislike of the electronic communication, someone we want to KNOW without a doubt, that we are and remain interested in them. Friends, even close ones, even family.. VERY LUCKY if they can get the Fish to answer the phone.. or a text.. or the door, more than occasionally (bare minimum to not be rude.. though sometimes we don't gaf if we're rude.. we just want peace and silence, go away for awhile, try again another time... just don't expect us to initiate it much - we just don't keep texting/calling in the front of our minds as a way to stay in touch with anyone other than our most beloved. Aim for face-to-face. THAT'S where it counts for a Pisces. Anything less is superficial and forgettable, esp as a means to get to know someone.
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Oct 19, 2009Comments: 2 · Posts: 3907 · Topics: 13
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Alright, I'm just going to message him saying something along the lines of "Hey! If you're free next week and interested in hanging out we should get together."
Sounds so bland argh.
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That's a statement, not a question. It's also careful, guarded, and superficial. And furthermore, it not only doesn't require an answer (as it's not a question).. it's entirely generic and bland. Venus in Aries have no problem with boldness, yours or theirs.
Maybe something more like, "Hey, Pisces.. I had a really great time with you and would love to see you again soon. I feel excited at the thought of getting us getting to know each other better, woo! What do you think?"