Unable to move on from breakup 3 years ago. Help?
I got lucky when I met my most recent ex. I had dated a girl before her but she was the first to make me feel a kind of happiness I'd never felt. I'm a quiet, introverted guy (scorpio) and kept to myself a lot. Because of this I never had many friends and had very low self-esteem. But it was in high school when my ex, the prettiest girl in school then, had her eye on me. I got to know about it and wasted no time in making my move, though powered false confidence. The times I spent with her were the best I'd ever had, and I can honestly say I was in love. I got too attached. Things eventually went sour after the honeymoon period was over and we parted ways. That was 3 years ago. My life went back to being dark and lonely, my self-esteem back to sh*t. I was diagnosed with depression. Even suicidal at one point. And it hasn't been the same since I had a taste of that kind of happiness. Maybe that's why I can't move on.
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This went right over your head, didn't it? Pay attention, girlfriend.
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*adjusts waistband, fights off temptation*
To say please and thank you? LOL
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Im drowning in the amount of estrogen on this thread right now 
Geez..cant us guys just talk about beer, tits and cars anymore?
Geez..cant us guys just talk about beer, tits and cars anymore?
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Posted by Striking
"GEE, Another thread about Capricorn MEN,"
Uh yeah thats right, this is the Capricorn Board am I right..lol
Dont mind her, someone took her dildo away.
It's easier to just stop coming around and hope a relationship fades out than to hurt someone. If you don't show up, maybe they'll just forget and move on. Of course, it's still hurtful, but somehow seems a little better. Unless you're on the receiving end...then it just seems rude and cowardly.
And, I, personally, will lie my ass off to keep from hurting someone's feelings. That's pretty much the ONLY time I'll lie.
And, I, personally, will lie my ass off to keep from hurting someone's feelings. That's pretty much the ONLY time I'll lie.
It's Sutekh from Sasstrology?
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lol..Okay, its all about having a lil fun thats all..Nobody is really serious here right!!