We all have voices in our heads. You two, Waterboy and Westside, are just a bit (or in WC's case, a lot) more aware of your own. Not psychotic at all. 
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^^^ Absolutely agree. I know Virgo's who fall into what P-Angel's referenced post said. That doesn't mean that the opportunity isn't always a seconds grasp away. It all depends on if you're willing to do it or not. I'm personally constantly challenging myself and changing always.
Oh no. I'm sooooo not contacting him. I couldn't if I wanted to. The bastard changed his # & how I know is THROUGH fb! Of course I was stalking his wall, hahaha & he was talking to one of his friends & he just happend to mention that he had a knew phone #. He's such a fucker because the convo they were having had NOTHING to do with him telling him oh & btw, I changed my #. That was totally left field. He knows I go on his fb. We're not friends but his wall is open to the public. I know, stupid.
He's younger than me so he doesn't know how to deal with me head on & confront me. He's not REALLY a Gemini either. He is watered down with a Picsces moon & Cancer Venus, so he is sensitive as hell. He is sensitive enough with that gem sun as it is. He's not that expressive with what he's feeling, so he would always act it out. I saw raw emotion from him once when he cried like a baby in front of me, & it broke my heart.
We both have tempers & during the 1st fight I said some very awful things to him. Demeaning & disparaging things. I didn't mean it. It was out of hurt & anger. He also said some things to me as well which resulted in my throwing objects at him. He knocked a few things down in my apt. as well, but I also think he liked it too. I yelled at him to get out. Afterwards I received 11 texts from him...I know, total nutjob. The next day he wanted to see me like nothing ever happened. He has ALOT of issues but I loved him anyway. I just have a gut feeling that he isn't gone. I just believe I'm going to hear from him soon. I just don't know how I'm going to react. I feel like ignoring him, but I would like to talk to him. IDK what I want sometimes. I'm confused too. *sigh*
He's younger than me so he doesn't know how to deal with me head on & confront me. He's not REALLY a Gemini either. He is watered down with a Picsces moon & Cancer Venus, so he is sensitive as hell. He is sensitive enough with that gem sun as it is. He's not that expressive with what he's feeling, so he would always act it out. I saw raw emotion from him once when he cried like a baby in front of me, & it broke my heart.
We both have tempers & during the 1st fight I said some very awful things to him. Demeaning & disparaging things. I didn't mean it. It was out of hurt & anger. He also said some things to me as well which resulted in my throwing objects at him. He knocked a few things down in my apt. as well, but I also think he liked it too. I yelled at him to get out. Afterwards I received 11 texts from him...I know, total nutjob. The next day he wanted to see me like nothing ever happened. He has ALOT of issues but I loved him anyway. I just have a gut feeling that he isn't gone. I just believe I'm going to hear from him soon. I just don't know how I'm going to react. I feel like ignoring him, but I would like to talk to him. IDK what I want sometimes. I'm confused too. *sigh*
12 zodiac signs = 12 step program! Another strange thing im experiencing is that, i read about the men of all signs, their good and bad sides and i always feel hopeless when i get to the bad side of each sign- its so jerkass(y). Back on topic- i came here purely for self interest, to learn more about my sign and ive notice how (to some extent) accurate astrology is.
WOW! hahaha thanks.
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Hmm. yeah definitely different from my Gem. Mine was Air and Fire. He said all the time he didn't have emotions, I think he was right. Yeah yours sounds like a very emotional Gemini, but its also typical of Gemini men to not be confrontational. They are retarted. Mine never confronted me, on anything. If there was anything ever so slighty tesne, he would shut down. He would stop speaking. Jerk
Yeah I say stuff I don't mean either, we all do when we are upset.You threw stuff at him?! Wow! Wow....
He sounds really emotional. Hmm, opposites attract. He's weaker then you, your the stronger one. Its like he follows your lead.
Well figure out what you want. Your going to need to before he does call so that things can go down calmer. So, you don't want him back, but want to talk. Do you want to be friends again or what?
It feels like talking would just get stuff started back up. I know for me it would.
No I doubt that. Your gem was probably an emotional mess. He just hid it well. People that are very airy, I believe to be more emotional anyway. You said he's air & fire? That's me. Air, fire, earth, then water in that order. Not having much water at all. I wish I had more, therefore I could deal with my emotions better & not bury them. When they do come to surface, it's hell.
Yes!!! I threw things at him!!! See, I was emotional too with that shit. I just blacked out. He called me a bitch & I lost it. He NEVER called me out my name before & it was a total shock really. It pissed me off so bad I grabbed the nearest thing. Luckily it missed him. That's when he got angry. Not so lucky the 2nd time around. I threw other things at him that actually hit him...
Anywho, I DO want him back, but our relationship was becoming unhealthy & I can't deal with that unless he changes, but I don't see it happening now. It was very intense & passionate. Good or bad, we had such a strong connection, from the first time we met. It's like I knew him all my life. I don't believe in that soul mate crap, but I've spoken to a clairvoyant & she told me that he was. That we were together in a past life. WTF? I guess I can see the logic & I have an open mind, but IDK. I guess I need some type of closure...but will it ever be closure? I mean, me still longing for him & everything, even if we did talk again & smooth out the wrinkles, I'd stil
RealTalk,
I know what you mean, i really love and missed my gemini ex as well. Its hard to describe because i usually move on fairly fast. I did a lot of contemplation and i realized this "missing" and inability to let go is due to "regret". Regret i didn't say what i wanted to say. What i really felt. Did things i shouldn't have done. The regret came from a sense of "guilt". Guilt that i deserved what he did. I caused him to do what he did. That i am no worthy and only he can possibly "love" me and i can't believe i let that go. I thought of all the things he has done and it just pissed me off...the truth has set me free. TRUTH: i had every right to feel the way i did. (nor should i let him manipulate it as if i was crazy) he simply was wrong in all levels. Now im over him, of course i do care for him and wish him the best still. I just learned to have more respect and love for myself. One must be more discerning and absolute...hes ABSOLUTELY TUTLEY wrong and messed in the head. THen my mentality turned my guilt around, regret in turn went away, finally the reminiscing is gone, nor the act of missing him. Its HIS LOST not mine, and its Your gem's lost ..not yours.
Just like Decan25 expressed. "peace comes from within" nothing could've been wiser than these few words. Hugs hope you feel better! if i survived then you can as well. After all, we do have a similar story of our gems. more like broken Gems.
I know what you mean, i really love and missed my gemini ex as well. Its hard to describe because i usually move on fairly fast. I did a lot of contemplation and i realized this "missing" and inability to let go is due to "regret". Regret i didn't say what i wanted to say. What i really felt. Did things i shouldn't have done. The regret came from a sense of "guilt". Guilt that i deserved what he did. I caused him to do what he did. That i am no worthy and only he can possibly "love" me and i can't believe i let that go. I thought of all the things he has done and it just pissed me off...the truth has set me free. TRUTH: i had every right to feel the way i did. (nor should i let him manipulate it as if i was crazy) he simply was wrong in all levels. Now im over him, of course i do care for him and wish him the best still. I just learned to have more respect and love for myself. One must be more discerning and absolute...hes ABSOLUTELY TUTLEY wrong and messed in the head. THen my mentality turned my guilt around, regret in turn went away, finally the reminiscing is gone, nor the act of missing him. Its HIS LOST not mine, and its Your gem's lost ..not yours.
Just like Decan25 expressed. "peace comes from within" nothing could've been wiser than these few words. Hugs hope you feel better! if i survived then you can as well. After all, we do have a similar story of our gems. more like broken Gems.